Breaking Up & Settling Down (12)
it's easy susie, just sleep around and have no dates 
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Hi Suzi, no places left there to date ? Sorry, kidding
As i´m living in a city with a 1 Mio. population there are lots palces left.
But if I´m honest haven´t had a since, wait a minute...
april or so.
Cause, perhaps i´m to picky don´t know, but my suggestion would be, if u don´t try who should try for you?
Lutz
As i´m living in a city with a 1 Mio. population there are lots palces left.
But if I´m honest haven´t had a since, wait a minute...
april or so.
Cause, perhaps i´m to picky don´t know, but my suggestion would be, if u don´t try who should try for you?
Lutz
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youd be suprised how quicky one can become attatched enough to be hurt
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Hello, Ladie, date, have fun enjoy it, Life is short and don't settle. Only for the best. I know it's bad to hurt, but better somebody else than you.
El Diablo
El Diablo
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4-5 dates? You ROCK! I'm usually quick to judge after one.
And if somebody's THAT brokenhearted that you ended it after only 4 or 5 dates, be tickled that you got rid of Mr. Obsessive when you did.
And if somebody's THAT brokenhearted that you ended it after only 4 or 5 dates, be tickled that you got rid of Mr. Obsessive when you did.
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From experience, Id say go with that 'gut feeling'. If after 4 - 5 dates you have this nagging suspicion that this is just not the match for you, then explain that.
It depends I suppose on what you are looking for - Ive done the 'close-to-good-but-just-didnt-feel-right' relationships and in the end I should have went with my gut feeling that we were just not compatible.
It depends I suppose on what you are looking for - Ive done the 'close-to-good-but-just-didnt-feel-right' relationships and in the end I should have went with my gut feeling that we were just not compatible.
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Sounds right, I'd just explain that the match isn't going to work out. I think it's easier to be the one getting dumped, and yeah it can hurt ego somewhat. Thanks.
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That's no fun !!!
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Why "settle" for anything less than having fun right?
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Haha, it's actually easier to get dumped I think...but that might be just me.
And yeah, definitely, after 4 or 5 dates you know enough about a person, and yet, shouldn't be attached enough to have it really hurt.
And yeah, definitely, after 4 or 5 dates you know enough about a person, and yet, shouldn't be attached enough to have it really hurt.
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Actually Ive been on both sides of the coin from long term relationships - being the dumpee definately hurt more and longer than being the dumper. Being the dumper was more emotionally draining before hand as you second guessed yourself, talked yourself in and out of it, and then sat there in the emotional wrath of it - bit I sure recovered quicker when I was the dumper :)
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I've been having fun dating around with local guys I've met in various places.
However, I am NOT ready to settle down with one, and commit to being exclusive. Obviously this is because I've not met who I think is the right one for me.
Is this so bad? After four or five dates, I feel like I'm being smothered and want to end it all together.
If that is the feeling I am getting, it's probaby time to tell the guy that I'm sorry but it isn't going to work out.
I really don't like pissing anyone off, or hurting them. After four or five dates, I don't see how it is possible to hurt anyone all that much.
Any opinions or suggestions?