countryG: Simple.. would you date a selfish, self centered girl/guy or someone who doesn't care what others think nor never willing to change their mindsets..
Selfishness is subjective, sometimes. For example, I dont want, or didnt want, to take on young children because Im farrrrrr to old for that. Thats not selfish for me; thats sensible, because I know it wouldnt make me or my partner happy.
Alot, an awful lot, say in these forms, and in life, that they dont care what people think. Seen it alot on here. So, are they selfish??
ogdensburgbabe: Selfishness is subjective, sometimes. For example, I dont want, or didnt want, to take on young children because Im farrrrrr to old for that. Thats not selfish for me; thats sensible, because I know it wouldnt make me or my partner happy.
Alot, an awful lot, say in these forms, and in life, that they dont care what people think. Seen it alot on here. So, are they selfish??
Or sensible?
Your first paragraph is sensible. Nothing wrong with feeling that way, at all.
morgan5: Think we can all be selfish at some point.
You are so right morgan I even tell myself why are you so selfish in not putting my self out there to help someone or be there for someone in need I have to work through what I want to do to do for someone else I put my wants on the back burner I will not deal with someone that is selfish to the point of not wanting to change some of their wants to accommodate some of my wants give and give
countryG: Simple.. would you date a selfish, self centered girl/guy or someone who doesn't care what others think nor never willing to change their mindsets..
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