Your Thoughts Please. (27)

Jan 24, 2010 6:07 AM CST Your Thoughts Please.
Thedeise
ThedeiseThedeisewaterford, Waterford Ireland174 Threads 3 Polls 1,438 Posts
Do you think a person should change there personality for a boyfrield/girlfriend?
Jan 24, 2010 6:10 AM CST Your Thoughts Please.
sukatai
sukataisukataiTipperary, Ireland20 Threads 2 Polls 678 Posts
Thedeise: Do you think a person should change there personality for a boyfrield/girlfriend?


Defenitly not,,scold
I if that happened you would spent your life in a false body and not be true to the other person, when you ever do relax and become yourself it may not be what they signed up for.
JMO
Jan 24, 2010 6:14 AM CST Your Thoughts Please.
Data63
Data63Data63North Wales, Clwyd, Wales UK25 Threads 7 Polls 465 Posts
Thedeise: Do you think a person should change there personality for a boyfrield/girlfriend?



Never!! If someone want gf/bf to change their personality to suit them then that someone is a control freak drinking
Jan 24, 2010 6:15 AM CST Your Thoughts Please.
blipper2000
blipper2000blipper2000dublin, Dublin Ireland69 Threads 9 Polls 6,900 Posts
Thedeise: Do you think a person should change there personality for a boyfrield/girlfriend?
in what way,what do you mean exactly?
Jan 24, 2010 6:25 AM CST Your Thoughts Please.
Thedeise
ThedeiseThedeisewaterford, Waterford Ireland174 Threads 3 Polls 1,438 Posts
blipper2000: in what way,what do you mean exactly?


Why i am the type of person who likes to laugh and joke alot, respectfully, but i find she doesnt have the same sense of humour, i think myself i would be better off out.
Jan 24, 2010 6:26 AM CST Your Thoughts Please.
tornado778
tornado778tornado778offaly, Offaly Ireland9 Threads 1,413 Posts
didnt think it was possible to change your personality,,, if thats the case,,i think ill go to the pub today as a happy go lucky flirt instead of the usual grumpy,hungover fat basterddancing
Jan 24, 2010 6:30 AM CST Your Thoughts Please.
blipper2000
blipper2000blipper2000dublin, Dublin Ireland69 Threads 9 Polls 6,900 Posts
Thedeise: Why i am the type of person who likes to laugh and joke alot, respectfully, but i find she doesnt have the same sense of humour, i think myself i would be better off out.
give her the gate,what are ya doin with her in the first place if she has no sense of humour?theres probbly more to it than that im surepeace
Jan 24, 2010 6:36 AM CST Your Thoughts Please.
Data63
Data63Data63North Wales, Clwyd, Wales UK25 Threads 7 Polls 465 Posts
blipper2000: give her the gate,what are ya doin with her in the first place if she has no sense of humour?theres probbly more to it than that im sure


When a relationship is over it seems a bit tight to offer the gate blues

Aint it a bit heavy ? conversing
Jan 24, 2010 6:49 AM CST Your Thoughts Please.
Thedeise
ThedeiseThedeisewaterford, Waterford Ireland174 Threads 3 Polls 1,438 Posts
Data63: When a relationship is over it seems a bit tight to offer the gate

Aint it a bit heavy ?


Thanks to all.
Jan 24, 2010 6:51 AM CST Your Thoughts Please.
sukatai
sukataisukataiTipperary, Ireland20 Threads 2 Polls 678 Posts
Thedeise: Thanks to all.


Follow your heart man, the rest will fall into place.wine
Jan 24, 2010 6:55 AM CST Your Thoughts Please.
skinnyminnypink
skinnyminnypinkskinnyminnypinkKilkenny, Ireland218 Threads 6,300 Posts
Thedeise: Thanks to all.

the words elbow, give and her come to mind!!!!hug
Jan 24, 2010 6:56 AM CST Your Thoughts Please.
Data63
Data63Data63North Wales, Clwyd, Wales UK25 Threads 7 Polls 465 Posts
sukatai: Follow your heart man, the rest will fall into place.



Very true drinking
Jan 24, 2010 10:10 AM CST Your Thoughts Please.
kingofthecastle
kingofthecastlekingofthecastledublin, Dublin Ireland1 Threads 28 Posts
i dont think you should change for anyone mate, thats the whole idea about being on this website that people should accept you for who you are,

beer
Jan 24, 2010 10:13 AM CST Your Thoughts Please.
lushguy4you
lushguy4youlushguy4youIstanbul, Marmara Turkey44 Threads 3,004 Posts
should a leopard change its spots dunno

uh oh
Jan 24, 2010 10:27 AM CST Your Thoughts Please.
FullIrish
FullIrishFullIrishDundalk, Louth Ireland20 Threads 4 Polls 569 Posts
Thedeise: Do you think a person should change there personality for a boyfrield/girlfriend?


No way you are what you are and dont go changing it for anybody, That would only make you miserableconversing
Jan 24, 2010 1:43 PM CST Your Thoughts Please.
kingofthecastle
kingofthecastlekingofthecastledublin, Dublin Ireland1 Threads 28 Posts
no i don't think anyone should change themselves to suit another person, why is that person with you if they want to change you just doesn't make sence to me, maybe im different i don't know, i personally like a woman who is herself and doesn't need to feel the need to change for me or anyone else
Jan 24, 2010 1:48 PM CST Your Thoughts Please.
LadyBlackAdder
LadyBlackAdderLadyBlackAdderKillarney, Kerry Ireland24 Threads 2,355 Posts
Thedeise: Why i am the type of person who likes to laugh and joke alot, respectfully, but i find she doesnt have the same sense of humour, i think myself i would be better off out.


It doesnt sound like ye are suited. If you cant be who you are, then you will end up being unhappy and dissatisfied with the relationship and you will be living a lie. Be yourself and if she doesnt like that, then consider parting company. hug
Jan 24, 2010 1:49 PM CST Your Thoughts Please.
areyoureadytogo
areyoureadytogoareyoureadytogotipperary/offaly, Tipperary Ireland35 Threads 1 Polls 2,024 Posts
well my honest opinion is if i was dating someone i wouldnt expect him to change to keep me happy...and i wouldnt change for him if he asked me either
i just think you have to be yourself and she likewise and i guess you would know if they were the right person if you were having fun, having a laugh and getting along
dunno
Jan 24, 2010 1:54 PM CST Your Thoughts Please.
navbabe
navbabenavbabenavan, Meath Ireland41 Threads 2 Polls 2,800 Posts
Thedeise: Do you think a person should change there personality for a boyfrield/girlfriend?
absolutely not!!! you have to be true to yourself otherwise you'll never be happy

if she hasnt the same sense of humor as you..how did you get in to a relationship???

humor to me is a fundemental part of dating someone if i cant have a laugh or a joke with them then i wouldnt even entertain the idea of a relationship

hug
Jan 24, 2010 2:02 PM CST Your Thoughts Please.
blipper2000
blipper2000blipper2000dublin, Dublin Ireland69 Threads 9 Polls 6,900 Posts
Data63: When a relationship is over it seems a bit tight to offer the gate

Aint it a bit heavy ?
the gate/the axe/the big heave-ho
syanara baby
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