Why do people create insecurity or self-pity threads? (89)
Antjo39Sin City, Callao Peru44 Threads 2 Polls 2,019 Posts"Am I fat?"...."They say I am ugly"..."Am I too old to date?" "I think there is nobody for me..." and on, and on....
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Antjo39: "Am I fat?"...."They say I am ugly"..."Am I too old to date?" "I think there is nobody for me..." and on, and on....
Because it gives the rest of us something to talk about !
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Do you think my eyes look same?
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Antjo39: "Am I fat?"...."They say I am ugly"..."Am I too old to date?" "I think there is nobody for me..." and on, and on....
Probably because they are insecure of have not had the best of experiences... just a thought
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Antjo39: "Am I fat?"...."They say I am ugly"..."Am I too old to date?" "I think there is nobody for me..." and on, and on....
Cos they want to be the centre of attention
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markizamkd25: Do you think my eyes look same?
No definitely no... maybe it prevents you from creating anew thread of self-pity...
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campoqueen: Cos they want to be the centre of attention
No truer a word said.
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Antjo39: "Am I fat?"...."They say I am ugly"..."Am I too old to date?" "I think there is nobody for me..." and on, and on....
because we are insecure and we want self pity 
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campoqueen: Cos they want to be the centre of attention
I totally agree...
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Englishman55: Because it gives the rest of us something to talk about !
it does for sure... but don´t you think it would be better to see a forum with stronger minds..?
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lovely4u7da: because we are insecure and we want self pity
Do you? Don´t be insecure baby.. you are still skinny enough to date.... 
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Antjo39: "Am I fat?"...."They say I am ugly"..."Am I too old to date?" "I think there is nobody for me..." and on, and on....
Oh my...are we feeling a bit intolerant of others faults and weakness the past couple of days?
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Antjo39: "Am I fat?"...."They say I am ugly"..."Am I too old to date?" "I think there is nobody for me..." and on, and on....
Some feel devoid of attention, it appears.
I guess they are seeking reassurance. Why they can't have confidence in themselves without the approval of strangers on an internet daing site is beyond me!
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LusciousLibra: Probably because they are insecure of have not had the best of experiences... just a thought
So they will be more secure by reading some clichés of people with good intentions?I doubt, insecurity is another drug of the mind...
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Antjo39: it does for sure... but don´t you think it would be better to see a forum with stronger minds..?
Well, we are all made differently and to be honest, when I see such a "pity me" thread is does put me off the person writing it, but, as it gives the rest of us an insight into the persons character.......
Some may like that character, others may not, but it does help with the choosing a date bit, just as it would in real life.
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jbibiza: Oh my...are we feeling a bit intolerant of others faults and weakness the past couple of days?
I never hijack any thread...But maybe by reading a little critic... some of those will build more security.. maybe not... the therapy for that drug is beyond a forum I assume.
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roseofsharon: Some feel devoid of attention, it appears.
I guess they are seeking reassurance. Why they can't have confidence in themselves without the approval of strangers on an internet daing site is beyond me!
I guess they are seeking reassurance. Why they can't have confidence in themselves without the approval of strangers on an internet daing site is beyond me!
Because we are not all made the same.... would be a pretty boring world if we were
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Englishman55: Well, we are all made differently and to be honest, when I see such a "pity me" thread is does put me off the person writing it, but, as it gives the rest of us an insight into the persons character.......
Some may like that character, others may not, but it does help with the choosing a date bit, just as it would in real life.
Thanks for the good post and the filtering idea.Some may like that character, others may not, but it does help with the choosing a date bit, just as it would in real life.
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Englishman55: Because it gives the rest of us something to talk about !
And something to laugh about and think about and learn and get someone else's opinion about the matter is what forums are all about sharing and giving your opinion and ideas 
We are all helpers one of another and no man is a island to himself we need feed back from one another
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Antjo39: "Am I fat?"...."They say I am ugly"..."Am I too old to date?" "I think there is nobody for me..." and on, and on....
Without stupid, smart has nothing with which to gauge itself.
Don't feel bad, that wasn't directed at you.
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