Why do people create insecurity or self-pity threads? (89)
Any thread and any topic is good. It doesn't matter what it is about. This world is big enough for anyone and to think about any subject. The more broad the subjects the more interesting they are.....
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Big_John: Any thread and any topic is good. It doesn't matter what it is about. This world is big enough for anyone and to think about any subject. The more broad the subjects the more interesting they are.....
Well, unless it is football
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Why?Because they can?
In response to: "Am I fat?"...."They say I am ugly"..."Am I too old to date?" "I think there is nobody for me..." and on, and on....
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tennesseejudy: Well, unless it is football
The NFL is going to strike you down dead girl....Tomorrow is the high season for this religious.
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Big_John: Any thread and any topic is good. It doesn't matter what it is about. This world is big enough for anyone and to think about any subject. The more broad the subjects the more interesting they are.....
That is taken for granted... but what if I really think she is too fat or he is too old... can i say that and come up with a different thing like... "well, you are old, or you are fat... just go with it"I am sure the self-pity seekers are never expecting to get such replies.... I would be seen as "inhumane"
And I am not banning them (I can´t) I do not certainly take part in the pity giving.
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Antjo39: That is taken for granted... but what if I really think she is too fat or he is too old... can i say that and come up with a different thing like... "well, you are old, or you are fat... just go with it"
I am sure the self-pity seekers are never expecting to get such replies.... I would be seen as "inhumane"
And I am not banning them (I can´t) I do not certainly take part in the pity giving.
I am sure the self-pity seekers are never expecting to get such replies.... I would be seen as "inhumane"
And I am not banning them (I can´t) I do not certainly take part in the pity giving.
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In a recent insecurity thred about chubyness I reply as:
"Some overweight girls are so lovely and chewy. You can date 1000000 times for sure... so forget about that..."
Well, I am sure the initiator disliked my answer... 
There was something wrong with that? Just that I did not say "Oh, you look skinny, don´t pay attention to those that are jealous of your looks"
"Some overweight girls are so lovely and chewy. You can date 1000000 times for sure... so forget about that..."
Well, I am sure the initiator disliked my answer...
There was something wrong with that? Just that I did not say "Oh, you look skinny, don´t pay attention to those that are jealous of your looks"------ This thread is Archived ------
bohdiprana: ogre .
Oh..my freaking Lord!! So, now this is just what I need... go away and let me be the vedette in this thread... I have given you so much pity and attention in your moaning threads... so go now..you infamous thread hijacker!! 
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Antjo39: Oh..my freaking Lord!! So, now this is just what I need... go away and let me be the vedette in this thread... I have given you so much pity and attention in your moaning threads... so go now..you infamous thread hijacker!!
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bohdiprana: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WL1lfSzgcAw
So now you are using Arnie, eh?.... he has more important things to do with the Reps... so leave him alone too... 
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Antjo39: "Am I fat?"...."They say I am ugly"..."Am I too old to date?" "I think there is nobody for me..." and on, and on....
We do it because we're not all handsome and self confident like you Antjo ......
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jvaski: We do it because we're not all handsome and self confident like you Antjo ......
Still, you won´t get my pity...
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Antjo39: Still, you won´t get my pity...
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Blues63: Who knows what personal hell some people are going through when they post such things. Who are we to judge? A decent person listens and offers sympathy, empathy and advice. If they still have something to learn about life according to an another individuals personal philosophy, well, they will in time, or they won't. It's not up to us to castigate, lecture or judge. This is, after all a site to bring people together. We all have something to learn from others and our arrogance will only hinder this.
This is only my opinion and opinions are like grains of sand: multitudinous and worthless.
This is only my opinion and opinions are like grains of sand: multitudinous and worthless.
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In response to: "Am I fat?"...."They say I am ugly"..."Am I too old to date?" "I think there is nobody for me..." and on, and on....
I think sometimes they're looking for reaurrance just like anyone else.
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lovely4u7da: And something to laugh about and think about and learn and get someone else's opinion about the matter is what forums are all about sharing and giving your opinion and ideas
We are all helpers one of another and no man is a island to himself we need feed back from one another
We are all helpers one of another and no man is a island to himself we need feed back from one another
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Because they are feeling so down at the time they post it? insecurity? attention?
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In response to: "Am I fat?"...."They say I am ugly"..."Am I too old to date?" "I think there is nobody for me..." and on, and on....
some people are OVERLY confident & don't think they are fat and/or ugly when in reality,they are------ This thread is Archived ------
Antjo39: In a recent insecurity thred about chubyness I reply as:
"Some overweight girls are so lovely and chewy. You can date 1000000 times for sure... so forget about that..."
Well, I am sure the initiator disliked my answer... There was something wrong with that? Just that I did not say "Oh, you look skinny, don´t pay attention to those that are jealous of your looks"
"Some overweight girls are so lovely and chewy. You can date 1000000 times for sure... so forget about that..."
Well, I am sure the initiator disliked my answer... There was something wrong with that? Just that I did not say "Oh, you look skinny, don´t pay attention to those that are jealous of your looks"
No, I didn't dislike your answer, it was just not an intelligent response. I did not ask you for your opinion on my weight or if I was overweight, it was a general question of what people consider overweight. If you read my post, I said I didn't think I was fat. It was a simple question but instead of answering like a mature adult, you made an insensitive joke. How do you think a comment like that affects those that really are overweight? Maybe you should think before you write stupid comments like that.
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