Dating an older woman ( Archived) (79)

I recently went out on a date with a woman that was older than I was (~20 yrs) and I was curious to know what everyone's experience here was with dating older women? In particular those of you that have had long term relationship experience.

So how was that date....? What was ur experience???

you did not tell us what your experience was like do tell us about your date first

See we are waiting

Yea!! we want to know.....Oh do tell.....

You had one date ??? thats it???

common Dude....make it happen ....

Wow lol I'm looking for other people's experience and not my own '~'

Ok, well I think the date went well. I usually gauge a date by how much I learn and connect with the other person, but in the case of this one I didn't learn what I typically do. She was a master at interrogation, very subtle. She was able to answer my questions without much depth and formulate another question for me in the same breath.

I spoke with her later and she said she enjoyed it and called it refreshing. Basically we sat down to pizza and went to a local grocery store after. Called it a night @ 8pm after meeting @ ~6pm.

Hi,

I am not going to play the old broken record about age just being an number

But I was wondering why did you go out with this lady... was it for a date with a view to it developing into a relationship? Or was it maybe that you were just trying to get an idea of the kind of interaction you could expect from an older woman?

Nothing wrong if you fancy having a relationship with an older woman.... but Im just wondering if you have really thought it through.... For instance, I notice from your profile that you say you would like to have children... You are 32 years old, and she is 20 years older, i.e.she is 52 years old...

I am thinking that it is quite likely that she has already had the quota of children that she wants, and at 52 might not contemplate going down that road again... I know I personally would not want to start having children again at her age...

Don't give your up goals in your search for that special lady, whatever her age, but do remember to think ahead for you both.
Good luck

i love older women