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Mar 5, 2010 8:43 AM CST How I wish I was pefect.
I wish I was the kind of perfect person where I've never said something to someone to offend them.Never told someone that I hated them.Never hurt their feelings where I made them cry.Never argued with them or called them names and was rude to them.When I know I should've apologized for the many times I didn't.

How I wish I didn't have so many mnay flaws and was so darn perfect.

But I'm not perfect and not afraid to admit I make mistakes.I'm only human.
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Mar 5, 2010 8:46 AM CST How I wish I was pefect.
hopefloats
hopefloatshopefloatsSlim's Lady, Tennessee USA51 Threads 6,660 Posts
Dittowine

One thing is for sure...Yes, we are online. Yes, we can hide behind a computer screen. But our true colors certainly shine between every word we type. wine cool
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Mar 5, 2010 8:49 AM CST How I wish I was pefect.
Englishman55
Englishman55Englishman55Salisbury, Wiltshire, England UK31 Threads 2 Polls 6,405 Posts
somechick: I wish I was the kind of perfect person where I've never said something to someone to offend them.Never told someone that I hated them.Never hurt their feelings where I made them cry.Never argued with them or called them names and was rude to them.When I know I should've apologized for the many times I didn't.

How I wish I didn't have so many mnay flaws and was so darn perfect.

But I'm not perfect and not afraid to admit I make mistakes.I'm only human.

You would be boring if you were that perfect, and then who would I have to tease grin

Wishing you are something you are not will not make you perfect.
You are who you are, which to someone, will be perfect sad flower
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Mar 5, 2010 8:50 AM CST How I wish I was pefect.
hopefloats: Ditto

One thing is for sure...Yes, we are online. Yes, we can hide behind a computer screen. But our true colors certainly shine between every word we type.
I agree and how ppl can hurt and insult ppl sooooooooo easy @the press of a tab , Hi Ladys have a nice day wave
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Mar 5, 2010 8:56 AM CST How I wish I was pefect.
Nuliiiiiii: I agree and how ppl can hurt and insult ppl sooooooooo easy @the press of a tab , Hi Ladys have a nice day



They do it because they can and are cowards.They have no feelings ,selfish ,mean, cruel,rude individuals or compassion for others.All they care about is themselves.
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Mar 5, 2010 8:56 AM CST How I wish I was pefect.
todger
todgertodgerSveti Vlas Bourgas Region, Burgas Bulgaria14 Threads 2,054 Posts
somechick: I wish I was the kind of perfect person where I've never said something to someone to offend them.Never told someone that I hated them.Never hurt their feelings where I made them cry.Never argued with them or called them names and was rude to them.When I know I should've apologized for the many times I didn't.

How I wish I didn't have so many mnay flaws and was so darn perfect.

But I'm not perfect and not afraid to admit I make mistakes.I'm only human.


Human is Good and its all we can all expect to achieve hug bouquet
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Mar 5, 2010 8:57 AM CST How I wish I was pefect.
Englishman55: You would be boring if you were that perfect, and then who would I have to tease

Wishing you are something you are not will not make you perfect.
You are who you are, which to someone, will be perfect


I know and I enjoy your teasing too.Mr Bubblewarp factor 8.rolling on the floor laughing grin
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Mar 5, 2010 9:01 AM CST How I wish I was pefect.
hopefloats: Ditto

One thing is for sure...Yes, we are online. Yes, we can hide behind a computer screen. But our true colors certainly shine between every word we type.

Yes this is true. I have deleted so many replies or have to reword them. Now and then we need our colors to shine through because we are not perfect.
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Mar 5, 2010 9:39 AM CST How I wish I was pefect.
imsophie1
imsophie1imsophie1Knox, Pennsylvania USA23 Threads 501 Posts
Most adults, at some point, have puzzled over the apparent cruelty of children. What we fail to realize is that some of us (adults) grew out of the cruel phase (if we didn't bypass it all together in our youth). Some of us didn't outgrow that phase and never will. Some of us pretend we've outgrown it. And some of us take pleasure from hurting others.

Not giving in to the impulse to be snarky or mean or sarcastically cruel or just plain nasty is no easy feat. It requires the ability to think and feel and care about others. Unfortunately, some humans will never possess those abilities. We can only control our own actions and reactions to life. We have no control over how others will react to things we say or do, regardless of how hard we try to prevent offending others.

Anonymity breeds bravado. Hiding behind our electronic force field gives some of us the illusion of invincibility. We are humans, which means we have flaws and we make mistakes (ALL of us). We can only do our best to maintain control over ourselves and our reactions to the world around us.

Human perfection is one of the rare guaranteed impossibilities of life.
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Mar 5, 2010 9:50 AM CST How I wish I was pefect.
Kalimera
KalimeraKalimeraDublin, Ireland6 Threads 1,708 Posts
somechick: I wish I was the kind of perfect person where I've never said something to someone to offend them.Never told someone that I hated them.Never hurt their feelings where I made them cry.Never argued with them or called them names and was rude to them.When I know I should've apologized for the many times I didn't.

How I wish I didn't have so many mnay flaws and was so darn perfect.

But I'm not perfect and not afraid to admit I make mistakes.I'm only human.



Yes non of us are perfect,we all make mistakes and rash judgements or decisions by times. It is however the measure of us as individuals what we learn from these mistakes, or how we correct our behaviour. Sorry, is a small word but can mean a lot, sadly some of us never see that we have been rude, wont admit that we have hurt anothers feelings intentionally, indeed some do not see that they are not perfect and make mistakes.


I can respect a person that makes a mistake and owns up to it, apologises and moves on, making an effort to improve their behaviour.
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Mar 5, 2010 10:16 AM CST How I wish I was pefect.
Kalimera: Yes non of us are perfect,we all make mistakes and rash judgements or decisions by times. It is however the measure of us as individuals what we learn from these mistakes, or how we correct our behaviour. Sorry, is a small word but can mean a lot, sadly some of us never see that we have been rude, wont admit that we have hurt anothers feelings intentionally, indeed some do not see that they are not perfect and make mistakes.I can respect a person that makes a mistake and owns up to it, apologises and moves on, making an effort to improve their behaviour.



I agree.It doesn't take anymore time for someone to be kind as it does for them to be cruel.

An apology doesn't take but only a second to do.
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Mar 5, 2010 10:19 AM CST How I wish I was pefect.
somechick: I wish I was the kind of perfect person where I've never said something to someone to offend them.Never told someone that I hated them.Never hurt their feelings where I made them cry.Never argued with them or called them names and was rude to them.When I know I should've apologized for the many times I didn't.

How I wish I didn't have so many mnay flaws and was so darn perfect.

But I'm not perfect and not afraid to admit I make mistakes.I'm only human.


Hey...none of us are perfect...that's wat makes us so great!

NOTE: did you catch the imperfection?

rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing comfort
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Mar 5, 2010 10:21 AM CST How I wish I was pefect.
TheresMyFriend: Hey...none of us are perfect...that's wat makes us so great!

NOTE: did you catch the imperfection?


Yes I did and Thank you for pointing that out to me.rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Mar 5, 2010 10:25 AM CST How I wish I was pefect.
wonderworker
wonderworkerwonderworkercosby, Tennessee USA201 Threads 2 Polls 1,883 Posts
I tried the dating site for Perfect people.
It was boring.
And besides,I didn't fit in.
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Mar 5, 2010 10:27 AM CST How I wish I was pefect.
wonderworker
wonderworkerwonderworkercosby, Tennessee USA201 Threads 2 Polls 1,883 Posts
imsophie1: Most adults, at some point, have puzzled over the apparent cruelty of children. What we fail to realize is that some of us (adults) grew out of the cruel phase (if we didn't bypass it all together in our youth). Some of us didn't outgrow that phase and never will. Some of us pretend we've outgrown it. And some of us take pleasure from hurting others.

Not giving in to the impulse to be snarky or mean or sarcastically cruel or just plain nasty is no easy feat. It requires the ability to think and feel and care about others. Unfortunately, some humans will never possess those abilities. We can only control our own actions and reactions to life. We have no control over how others will react to things we say or do, regardless of how hard we try to prevent offending others.

Anonymity breeds bravado. Hiding behind our electronic force field gives some of us the illusion of invincibility. We are humans, which means we have flaws and we make mistakes (ALL of us). We can only do our best to maintain control over ourselves and our reactions to the world around us.

Human perfection is one of the rare guaranteed impossibilities of life.

How very astute
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Mar 5, 2010 11:28 AM CST How I wish I was pefect.
todger
todgertodgerSveti Vlas Bourgas Region, Burgas Bulgaria14 Threads 2,054 Posts
somechick: I agree.It doesn't take anymore time for someone to be kind as it does for them to be cruel.

An apology doesn't take but only a second to do.


Anyone can make a mistake but its a bigger braver person who can say I AM SORRY .............

So seeing as I am not perfect and I have only been her for a short while ....

I APOLOGISE if I have upset insulted , hurt or annoyed any-one on here so far javascript:emot('bowing');... from my heart...heart beating

But as I am only human dont be offended if you piss me off and I dont forgive you for say 24hrs grin

Peace to ALL peace
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Mar 5, 2010 11:33 AM CST How I wish I was pefect.
todger: Anyone can make a mistake but its a bigger braver person who can say I AM SORRY .............

So seeing as I am not perfect and I have only been her for a short while ....

I APOLOGISE if I have upset insulted , hurt or annoyed any-one on here so far javascript:emot('');... from my heart...

But as I am only human dont be offended if you piss me off and I dont forgive you for say 24hrs

Peace to ALL



I agree it does take a bigger bravior person to do the right thing and apologize but not enough people do that.There are some who feel so brave to sit behind a computer screen and throw barbs at people.Instead of them making themselves look superior over others they look just that must smaller to me.
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Mar 5, 2010 11:33 AM CST How I wish I was pefect.
Godsgift
GodsgiftGodsgiftEnnis, Clare Ireland251 Threads 13 Polls 10,040 Posts
somechick: I wish I was the kind of perfect person where I've never said something to someone to offend them.Never told someone that I hated them.Never hurt their feelings where I made them cry.Never argued with them or called them names and was rude to them.When I know I should've apologized for the many times I didn't.

How I wish I didn't have so many mnay flaws and was so darn perfect.

But I'm not perfect and not afraid to admit I make mistakes.I'm only human.


Perfect people are very lonely people I think.Nobody wants to be with someone who shows up their faults. It's our failings, shortcomings and weaknesses that make us loveable not our strengths. So rejoice in your imperfections and being as falible as everybody else!wave
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Mar 5, 2010 11:34 AM CST How I wish I was pefect.
sindhiboy1
sindhiboy1sindhiboy1Sindh, Pakistan49 Threads 15 Polls 880 Posts
somechick: I wish I was the kind of perfect person where I've never said something to someone to offend them.Never told someone that I hated them.Never hurt their feelings where I made them cry.Never argued with them or called them names and was rude to them.When I know I should've apologized for the many times I didn't.

How I wish I didn't have so many mnay flaws and was so darn perfect.

But I'm not perfect and not afraid to admit I make mistakes.I'm only human.
You are a moody bird ...rolling on the floor laughing tongue
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Mar 5, 2010 11:38 AM CST How I wish I was pefect.
sindhiboy1: You are a moody bird ...


No I'm not moody I'm just expressing what's in my heart.

tongue rolling on the floor laughing Brat.
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