I said I love you and he was cranky (91)
mickybwoy: hello and good day my friend
how are you on this fine day?? any fun around?
Well right now if you want to say that negative is fun then ;yes'If not then we might better move to another thread my friend....how are you on this fine day?? any fun around?
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conjor: Well right now if you want to say that negative is fun then ;yes'If not then we might better move to another thread my friend....
what we doin today then trouble lol
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mickybwoy: what we doin today then trouble lol
Well; suffice to say that i have too leave soon,and it will be a while before i can return my friend.It was good to see you this morning,and hey'Try to keep the humour going til i return.Wonder how our nanners is doing this fine day,and ebony4you,and that lovely miss fawn'''' 
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conjor: Well; suffice to say that i have too leave soon,and it will be a while before i can return my friend.It was good to see you this morning,and hey'Try to keep the humour going til i return.Wonder how our nanners is doing this fine day,and ebony4you,and that lovely miss fawn''''
fo ryes it was a fun evening was it not..
now turn your hat around you...10year old....chimp ------ This thread is Archived ------
sweetiepetie: well Im so sad that everyone is thinking of negative motive that makes me even more desparate. I am confident about myself to place in his heart too. I am an educated girl who is smart, funny and very caring. I am good looking and kinda attractive too. ^^ Yet I believe that I have my own qualities to get into his heart. ( its just not the other way around).
I think you should talk with him again and trust your own intuition.
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mickybwoy: fo ryes it was a fun evening was it not.. now turn your hat around you...10year old....chimp
I think i will take the hat off today,and visit the zoo ------ This thread is Archived ------
conjor: Wait a minet darlin''''What the hell is a white lie???????????????????????????A LIE!
Hey the story is that he asked me for dinner that Sunday night supposing he would be coming back to my city from his trip that night after one week away. Then he wanted to cancell it to spend the night with that guy ( his only night in my city). And he told me he was still on the bus and could not make the dinner. I was finding out he was not on the bus but actually in the city.
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sweetiepetie: Hey the story is that he asked me for dinner that Sunday night supposing he would be coming back to my city from his trip that night after one week away. Then he wanted to cancell it to spend the night with that guy ( his only night in my city). And he told me he was still on the bus and could not make the dinner. I was finding out he was not on the bus but actually in the city.
Walk away Sweetie...no forget that...RUN
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mickybwoy: dont sound like the kinda man ya wanna be loosin ya cherry to hon...an thats comin from a red blooded male..
Oh man;The more i follow this thread the longer the stories get I think someone is bored cowboy...
May be there will be something fun on here when i return from trip to the zoo??Right now i need my med's if you dont mind??What was it that i was suppose to take next??? 
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conjor: Oh man;The more i follow this thread the longer the stories get I think someone is bored cowboy... May be there will be something fun on here when i return from trip to the zoo??Right now i need my med's if you dont mind??What was it that i was suppose to take next???
Hiya Conor
your Meds today consist of:
Slap on the head
Reality check
Retraining yourself from getting naked ...again
No trying to help others, just look after yourself
And, chatted up as many women as possible to find out if you are "in love"
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conjor: Now ya talking!The school teacher is teachin.... I Love you Liebe2.......
How long?
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conjor: Oh man;The more i follow this thread the longer the stories get I think someone is bored cowboy... May be there will be something fun on here when i return from trip to the zoo??Right now i need my med's if you dont mind??What was it that i was suppose to take next???
all opf um man..
kinda block out the negative vibes by the time you come around all will be fun laughter..and love.. 
think ill go chill to
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Well, let me put it to you bluntly: When you said "I love you" after a few dates, it scared the crap out of this American. Why? Two words: Green Card.
Despite the fact that you are funny, educated, smart, attractive, and so on, he also see the rest: you're Asian and he is probably thinking (as many American men think) that the only thing you want is a green card and that you don't really care for him.
Of course I am generalizing, not all Americans are like that, and are smarter, but me being not-American, I have faced the same "suspicions". Luckily, I only want to get back to America to go to Disney again, Lol!
I am assuming that English is not your native language, so you used the word 'love' trying to mean 'deeply care', 'excited about you', 'really like you'...maybe if you had used one of those phrases he wouldn't have felt his single-status threatened...and maybe, just maybe would have told you that he also 'deeply cared', 'was excited about you' or 'really like you' back...
I found out that although most cultures used the word 'love' lightly, it carries a very deep and heavy meaning in English, and saying the 'L' world is such a big deal, that frankly, shouldn't be (such a big deal)
What you really meant to tell him was that you 'like him a lot' and 'you would like to continue getting to know him better'...but it came out as "I love you and I want a commitment from you before you leave"...
Just back off a little, give him some room to breathe and see what happens...
Despite the fact that you are funny, educated, smart, attractive, and so on, he also see the rest: you're Asian and he is probably thinking (as many American men think) that the only thing you want is a green card and that you don't really care for him.
Of course I am generalizing, not all Americans are like that, and are smarter, but me being not-American, I have faced the same "suspicions". Luckily, I only want to get back to America to go to Disney again, Lol!
I am assuming that English is not your native language, so you used the word 'love' trying to mean 'deeply care', 'excited about you', 'really like you'...maybe if you had used one of those phrases he wouldn't have felt his single-status threatened...and maybe, just maybe would have told you that he also 'deeply cared', 'was excited about you' or 'really like you' back...
I found out that although most cultures used the word 'love' lightly, it carries a very deep and heavy meaning in English, and saying the 'L' world is such a big deal, that frankly, shouldn't be (such a big deal)
What you really meant to tell him was that you 'like him a lot' and 'you would like to continue getting to know him better'...but it came out as "I love you and I want a commitment from you before you leave"...
Just back off a little, give him some room to breathe and see what happens...
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hey nanners!! you put the gloves down yet hon??[/quote Hey sweetie..I did..reluctantly..but it was great fun rippin him a new one..then he lurked my profile after he left..he wants me
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Pixels1: What is going on here?
for that is the question ------ This thread is Archived ------
nanners2863: hey nanners!! you put the gloves down yet hon??[/quote Hey sweetie..I did..reluctantly..but it was great fun rippin him a new one..then he lurked my profile after he left..he wants me
dont forget to wipe your feet when you leave 
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OUTRAGEOUS: Well, let me put it to you bluntly: When you said "I love you" after a few dates, it scared the crap out of this American. Why? Two words: Green Card.
Despite the fact that you are funny, educated, smart, attractive, and so on, he also see the rest: you're Asian and he is probably thinking (as many American men think) that the only thing you want is a green card and that you don't really care for him.
Of course I am generalizing, not all Americans are like that, and are smarter, but me being not-American, I have faced the same "suspicions". Luckily, I only want to get back to America to go to Disney again, Lol!
I am assuming that English is not your native language, so you used the word 'love' trying to mean 'deeply care', 'excited about you', 'really like you'...maybe if you had used one of those phrases he wouldn't have felt his single-status threatened...and maybe, just maybe would have told you that he also 'deeply cared', 'was excited about you' or 'really like you' back...
I found out that although most cultures used the word 'love' lightly, it carries a very deep and heavy meaning in English, and saying the 'L' world is such a big deal, that frankly, shouldn't be (such a big deal)
What you really meant to tell him was that you 'like him a lot' and 'you would like to continue getting to know him better'...but it came out as "I love you and I want a commitment from you before you leave"...
Just back off a little, give him some room to breathe and see what happens...
Despite the fact that you are funny, educated, smart, attractive, and so on, he also see the rest: you're Asian and he is probably thinking (as many American men think) that the only thing you want is a green card and that you don't really care for him.
Of course I am generalizing, not all Americans are like that, and are smarter, but me being not-American, I have faced the same "suspicions". Luckily, I only want to get back to America to go to Disney again, Lol!
I am assuming that English is not your native language, so you used the word 'love' trying to mean 'deeply care', 'excited about you', 'really like you'...maybe if you had used one of those phrases he wouldn't have felt his single-status threatened...and maybe, just maybe would have told you that he also 'deeply cared', 'was excited about you' or 'really like you' back...
I found out that although most cultures used the word 'love' lightly, it carries a very deep and heavy meaning in English, and saying the 'L' world is such a big deal, that frankly, shouldn't be (such a big deal)
What you really meant to tell him was that you 'like him a lot' and 'you would like to continue getting to know him better'...but it came out as "I love you and I want a commitment from you before you leave"...
Just back off a little, give him some room to breathe and see what happens...
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hey og..me love ya long time! 
good thoughts though!
good thoughts though!
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mickybwoy: dont forget to wipe your feet when you leave
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So.....let me get this right:
You are having a relaionship with a chap for the past 2 months
You havent dropped your drawers
You declare love
He is wary about it
You caught him out on a lie
Then nursed him when he was sick
He his ready for you to drop your drawers and your not
He lives in another country halfway across the world and may come back
Story right do far
If it is... forget about him, learn more about yourself, about what you want in life