Polar Dynamics In Relationships (73)
jbibiza: Oh BP...you didn't really think this would fly on CS did you?
By fly , you mean suspension right?
You remember how badly the flying experiment went. 
The irony is that if it needed to fly anywhere, it would be in a place full of dysfunctional people .
But you're right, I wasn't expecting too much. 
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bohdiprana: By fly , you mean suspension right? You remember how badly the flying experiment went.
The irony is that if it needed to fly anywhere, it would be in a place full of dysfunctional people . But you're right, I wasn't expecting too much.
The irony is that if it needed to fly anywhere, it would be in a place full of dysfunctional people . But you're right, I wasn't expecting too much.
Everyone is busy being.... fed up, pissed off, upset, bashed, trashed, on a downer, needs a hug, ..
It's all so emotional...
I don't do emotional very well...
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jbibiza: Everyone is busy being.... fed up, pissed off, upset, bashed, trashed, on a downer, needs a hug, ..
It's all so emotional...
I don't do emotional very well...
It's all so emotional...
I don't do emotional very well...
Hmmm. What´s with the threads this evening? I think some people need to stop taking CS and the members so seriously, move far away from their computers and inhale some deep breaths of reality.
It beats me how anyone can get so upset in this virtual world.
It´s such depressing stuff to read too.I guess I don´t do the emotional thing well either. Well at least not here.
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JAN_is: Hmmm. What´s with the threads this evening? I think some people need to stop taking CS and the members so seriously, move far away from their computers and inhale some deep breaths of reality.
It beats me how anyone can get so upset in this virtual world. It´s such depressing stuff to read too.
I guess I don´t do the emotional thing well either. Well at least not here.
It beats me how anyone can get so upset in this virtual world. It´s such depressing stuff to read too.
I guess I don´t do the emotional thing well either. Well at least not here.
CS is just an extension of one's life don't ya think? I don't think it's so much CS being the instigator/cause as it is one bringing their lives into CS without purging their issues, much less their control needs.
On the other hand deep breathing can be helpful.
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bohdiprana: CS is just an extension of one's life don't ya think? I don't think it's so much CS being the instigator/cause as it is one bringing their lives into CS without purging their issues, much less their control needs.
On the other hand deep breathing can be helpful.
On the other hand deep breathing can be helpful.
Hi
bohdiprana: CS is just an extension of one's life don't ya think? I don't think it's so much CS being the instigator/cause as it is one bringing their lives into CS without purging their issues, much less their control needs.
On the other hand deep breathing can be helpful.
On the other hand deep breathing can be helpful.
bohdiprana: CS is just an extension of one's life don't ya think? I don't think it's so much CS being the instigator/cause as it is one bringing their lives into CS without purging their issues, much less their control needs.
On the other hand deep breathing can be helpful.
On the other hand deep breathing can be helpful.
Hi
I´m not sure I agree with CS being an extension of one´s life, it bears no resemblance to my life, and most people here bear little resemblance to the people I know in real life.
I like to pop in sometimes after working all day, and sometimes the evening, for a bit of fun, interesting debate and occasionally a little education, not for the soul searching,
who´s to blame for one´s unhappiness threads, which are never ending, and usually end up with the exact same people posting in them curiously enough.
Unlike you, I also think CS does actually play a big part in the discontent displayed here, particularly evident today. Perhaps because it´s taking over people´s lives and expectations are too high.
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JAN_is: Hi
I´m not sure I agree with CS being an extension of one´s life, it bears no resemblance to my life, and most people here bear little resemblance to the people I know in real life.
I´m not sure I agree with CS being an extension of one´s life, it bears no resemblance to my life, and most people here bear little resemblance to the people I know in real life.
Well, your hand bares no resemblance to your life either but there it is operating as an extension thereof.... Kind of how I meant it. It doesn't move you, you move it. Who is in control, you or CS kind of thing.
In response to:
Unlike you, I also think CS does actually play a big part in the discontent displayed here, particularly evident today. Perhaps because it´s taking over people´s lives and expectations are too high.
Unlike you, I also think CS does actually play a big part in the discontent displayed here, particularly evident today. Perhaps because it´s taking over people´s lives and expectations are too high.
I kind of see this as cutting off the hand (or the extension in this case CS) rather than dealing with who is making the hand do what it's doing. jmo.I could have been clearer at first. Sometimes I think people are right there inside my head with me so I don't have to be clear the first time lol ..
I do agree with what you say - people letting it take over their lives and creating expectations that keep feeding their own misery.
Is misery a bad thing?
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JAN_is: Hi
Hi
I´m not sure I agree with CS being an extension of one´s life, it bears no resemblance to my life, and most people here bear little resemblance to the people I know in real life.
I like to pop in sometimes after working all day, and sometimes the evening, for a bit of fun, interesting debate and occasionally a little education, not for the soul searching,
who´s to blame for one´s unhappiness threads, which are never ending, and usually end up with the exact same people posting in them curiously enough.
Unlike you, I also think CS does actually play a big part in the discontent displayed here, particularly evident today. Perhaps because it´s taking over people´s lives and expectations are too high.
Hi
I´m not sure I agree with CS being an extension of one´s life, it bears no resemblance to my life, and most people here bear little resemblance to the people I know in real life.
I like to pop in sometimes after working all day, and sometimes the evening, for a bit of fun, interesting debate and occasionally a little education, not for the soul searching,
who´s to blame for one´s unhappiness threads, which are never ending, and usually end up with the exact same people posting in them curiously enough.
Unlike you, I also think CS does actually play a big part in the discontent displayed here, particularly evident today. Perhaps because it´s taking over people´s lives and expectations are too high.
I have to agree Jan..
I went away from him for while (months)
and let me tell you..nice breath of fresh air..
I came back to let people know i am still alive
but i think people take what others say so seriously..
I hope all is well with you Jan
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bohdiprana: As a general rule, people are either submissive by nature or dominant by nature.
Conquistador'D!!!111
bohdiprana: I know, y'all are tied up atm.
This made me laugh, I know how you take your threads so seriously and always whine when you don't get responses
Signs of a dominant man!!!111 Everyone should know thyself, and embrace their roles in all relationships.
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hmmm,i do try to flow with my true nature
if that is your question
but finding a partner with just the right measure of submissivness proves to be hard
if that is your question
but finding a partner with just the right measure of submissivness proves to be hard
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StressFree: Conquistador'D!!!111
This made me laugh, I know how you take your threads so seriously and always whine when you don't get responses Signs of a dominant man!!!111 Everyone should know thyself, and embrace their roles in all relationships.
This made me laugh, I know how you take your threads so seriously and always whine when you don't get responses Signs of a dominant man!!!111 Everyone should know thyself, and embrace their roles in all relationships.
stfu chimp
get me a beer 
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cherrybrandy: hmmm,i do try to flow with my true nature
if that is your question
but finding a partner with just the right measure of submissivness proves to be hard
if that is your question
but finding a partner with just the right measure of submissivness proves to be hard
Then you might consider looking in other places besides this dysfunctional 'nilla land.
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bohdiprana: Well, your hand bares no resemblance to your life either but there it is operating as an extension thereof.... Kind of how I meant it. It doesn't move you, you move it. Who is in control, you or CS kind of thing.
I kind of see this as cutting off the hand (or the extension in this case CS) rather than dealing with who is making the hand do what it's doing. jmo.
I could have been clearer at first. Sometimes I think people are right there inside my head with me so I don't have to be clear the first time lol ..
I do agree with what you say - people letting it take over their lives and creating expectations that keep feeding their own misery.
Is misery a bad thing?
I kind of see this as cutting off the hand (or the extension in this case CS) rather than dealing with who is making the hand do what it's doing. jmo.
I could have been clearer at first. Sometimes I think people are right there inside my head with me so I don't have to be clear the first time lol ..
I do agree with what you say - people letting it take over their lives and creating expectations that keep feeding their own misery.
Is misery a bad thing?
Misery is terrible, particularly when people wallow in it.
You know, and I don´t think this is how I come across here, but I am cheerful every day and laugh a lot with my friends and students alike. I really don´t want to come on here and feel sad for people I don´t know, or depressed. Empathy yes, I can do that, but not to the same extent as I do in my day to day life.
This moaning and apparent unhappiness is a behavioural thing which seems to catch on and escalate in some of the threads until it gets blown out of all proportion.
I realise that some people have suffered real trauma in their lives and I´ve learned a lot here about things I´ve had no personal knowledge of, but I do think that the "poor me" threads are simply a cry for attention and feel sad that some seem only to be able to get that attention they so obviously need from people they don´t really know and are unlikely ever to meet.
I´m rambling now, so ignore me.
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kissmedeeply: I have to agree Jan..
I went away from him for while (months)
and let me tell you..nice breath of fresh air..
I came back to let people know i am still alive
but i think people take what others say so seriously..
I hope all is well with you Jan
I went away from him for while (months)
and let me tell you..nice breath of fresh air..
I came back to let people know i am still alive
but i think people take what others say so seriously..
I hope all is well with you Jan
Off topic.. please keep the gossip and finger pointing in threads that are seemingly intended for it. 
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bohdiprana: Then you might consider looking in other places besides this dysfunctional 'nilla land.
nah,here just for the fun and finding friends the present guy has some potential,but hes still in denial
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bohdiprana: stfu chimp get me a beer
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JAN_is: Misery is terrible, particularly when people wallow in it.
You know, and I don´t think this is how I come across here, but I am cheerful every day and laugh a lot with my friends and students alike. I really don´t want to come on here and feel sad for people I don´t know, or depressed. Empathy yes, I can do that, but not to the same extent as I do in my day to day life.
This moaning and apparent unhappiness is a behavioural thing which seems to catch on and escalate in some of the threads until it gets blown out of all proportion.
I realise that some people have suffered real trauma in their lives and I´ve learned a lot here about things I´ve had no personal knowledge of, but I do think that the "poor me" threads are simply a cry for attention and feel sad that some seem only to be able to get that attention they so obviously need from people they don´t really know and are unlikely ever to meet.
I´m rambling now, so ignore me.
You know, and I don´t think this is how I come across here, but I am cheerful every day and laugh a lot with my friends and students alike. I really don´t want to come on here and feel sad for people I don´t know, or depressed. Empathy yes, I can do that, but not to the same extent as I do in my day to day life.
This moaning and apparent unhappiness is a behavioural thing which seems to catch on and escalate in some of the threads until it gets blown out of all proportion.
I realise that some people have suffered real trauma in their lives and I´ve learned a lot here about things I´ve had no personal knowledge of, but I do think that the "poor me" threads are simply a cry for attention and feel sad that some seem only to be able to get that attention they so obviously need from people they don´t really know and are unlikely ever to meet.
I´m rambling now, so ignore me.
Cripes Jan ... you could have said "ignore me" at the start if you really wanted me to ignore you. That's like doing a totally amazing sensual strip tease in front of me and then saying "don't look at me now"
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cherrybrandy: nah,here just for the fun and finding friends
the present guy has some potential,but hes still in denial
the present guy has some potential,but hes still in denial
Ahhh .. that happens all over this place.
Is it stressfree?
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bohdiprana: Ahhh .. that happens all over this place.
Is it stressfree?
Is it stressfree?
I refuse to pursue an internet relationship with her until she pm's me pics of her feet. She knows this. She needs to get in touch with her submissive side
CONQUISTADOR'd!!!111
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StressFree: I refuse to pursue an internet relationship with her until she pm's me pics of her feet. She knows this. She needs to get in touch with her submissive side
CONQUISTADOR'd!!!111
CONQUISTADOR'd!!!111
Which is exactly what she said to me earlier ... I'll send you the ones I have of her, buddy. 
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Oh BP...you didn't really think this would fly on CS did you?