Is this love.... (27)
pirate151Houston, Texas USA15 Threads 171 PostsIf someone says they love you all the time but never do any of the things that they know will make you happy as run and errand are just be your person to give encouragement (only it's going to be ok ) when your down but never help you in a physical are mental one on one way is this love? Is it really love when your significant other only thinks of themselves and what they need? I am seeing this more and more. And also are you seeing this too? 
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pirate151: If someone says they love you all the time but never do any of the things that they know will make you happy as run and errand are just be your person to give encouragement (only it's going to be ok ) when your down but never help you in a physical are mental one on one way is this love? Is it really love when your significant other only thinks of themselves and what they need? I am seeing this more and more. And also are you seeing this too?
no that is not love but selfishness..
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pirate151: If someone says they love you all the time but never do any of the things that they know will make you happy as run and errand are just be your person to give encouragement (only it's going to be ok ) when your down but never help you in a physical are mental one on one way is this love? Is it really love when your significant other only thinks of themselves and what they need? I am seeing this more and more. And also are you seeing this too?
Actions speak louder than words....Yes, you would know whether they love you or not
it has happened to me in the past, I love "ME" more so I move on......
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I call it being selfish and non caring about anothers feelings.
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pirate151: If someone says they love you all the time but never do any of the things that they know will make you happy as run and errand are just be your person to give encouragement (only it's going to be ok ) when your down but never help you in a physical are mental one on one way is this love? Is it really love when your significant other only thinks of themselves and what they need? I am seeing this more and more. And also are you seeing this too?
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pirate151: If someone says they love you all the time but never do any of the things that they know will make you happy as run and errand are just be your person to give encouragement (only it's going to be ok ) when your down but never help you in a physical are mental one on one way is this love? Is it really love when your significant other only thinks of themselves and what they need? I am seeing this more and more. And also are you seeing this too?
Halas! Human love has never been true Love and will never be. Everyone looks to his/her interest and it's human nature ( survival ) run from someone who tells you otherwise!
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It really burns me up when i see people do not realize that what you give to others is what you shall be given back in this life. I realize we all work, need to eat, and need companionship but i do not see why people think they can just do everyday things and think that is enough.. 
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Grandepensees: Halas! Human love has never been true Love and will never be. Everyone looks to his/her interest and it's human nature ( survival ) run from someone who tells you otherwise!
You sound quite needy at the moment and God knows I've been there but I'm afraid this lady can't give you what you need.Nobody can except you.
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Some days you have to show others the way! She may be thinking she is showing love her way. Talk it out....
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pirate151: It really burns me up when i see people do not realize that what you give to others is what you shall be given back in this life. I realize we all work, need to eat, and need companionship but i do not see why people think they can just do everyday things and think that is enough..
Let others do what they feel compelled to do and busy your day with YOU stuff, there is enough within each of us to work on and ameliorate without looking to the faults of others.
Do that and you will not feel "burned", you'll feel grateful for having the oportunity to better yourself with each new day we are granted on this planet.
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I am sure that loneliness affects people in different way. Some people become very selvish and demanding. 
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Godsgift: You sound quite needy at the moment and God knows I've been there but I'm afraid this lady can't give you what you need.Nobody can except you.
Are you drunk again? Why do you use my post to answer the thread owner? It makes it look like you're answering me... Or is it just laziness?
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pirate151: If someone says they love you all the time but never do any of the things that they know will make you happy as run and errand are just be your person to give encouragement (only it's going to be ok ) when your down but never help you in a physical are mental one on one way is this love? Is it really love when your significant other only thinks of themselves and what they need? I am seeing this more and more. And also are you seeing this too?
If she loves you she will find the need to care about you. From what I know, its women's instint
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Sorry its not me but i see this with children and adults and i was just wanting to hear others about the subject..People are quick to tell you what you do wrong especially children and never encouragement and then they want to know why they cut themselves and feel depressed..
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Grandepensees: Are you drunk again? Why do you use my post to answer the thread owner? It makes it look like you're answering me... Or is it just laziness?
Hey, no need to be offensive. You know my post was directed to the O/P and that my views would be similar to your own. But as they say, you can't disturb an undisturbed person!
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pirate151: If someone says they love you all the time but never do any of the things that they know will make you happy as run and errand are just be your person to give encouragement (only it's going to be ok ) when your down but never help you in a physical are mental one on one way is this love? Is it really love when your significant other only thinks of themselves and what they need? I am seeing this more and more. And also are you seeing this too?
It could be that in there past they have heard the words from others(Love)or I Love you)And they got hurt by someone,and just became the person that hurt them,and to them it is just a word.There by becoming that witch hurt them.------ This thread is Archived ------
yes have seen it and no it's not love they may think it is but i also believe that most people haven't got a clue as to what true pure love is .
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there is this book called the 5 love languages...not a bad read actually...people show love and like to be shown that they are being loved in different ways..
it s hard to explain it just google it there is a vidio on the web
about 40 min long..watch it..its kinda an eye opener IMO
it s hard to explain it just google it there is a vidio on the web
about 40 min long..watch it..its kinda an eye opener IMO
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conjor: It could be that in there past they have heard the words from others(Love)or I Love you)And they got hurt by someone,and just became the person that hurt them,and to them it is just a word.There by becoming that witch hurt them.
im always me....
let me be... please dont let me...
become one a thee!
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Grandepensees: Are you drunk again? Why do you use my post to answer the thread owner? It makes it look like you're answering me... Or is it just laziness?
This post is hilarious 
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