Some people make it their duty to make other people's life miserable, they thrive on that, it is indeed their way of life for them it is fun!
They need THERAPY!
They are unhappy and they want you to be the same..how pathetic! A wise man once said "The blues aint about feeling better, it is about making other people feel worse"
Be careful of unhappy miserbale people, chances are you have encounted one in your time, they are not notcieable immediately, but, overtime their true nature is enevitably revealed....They can ruin your relationships with spouses, friends, lovers, relatives, or even get you fired in a job, they are dangerous...because they are envious, hold grudges, blame others, critical and complaining..."RUN"
so sad, why can't they find constructive things to do? They just bent on being chronically miserable no matter the circumstances....
get a life and start TODAY to be happy learn to love yourself and others around you....only postitve vibes
ebony4you: Some people make it their duty to make other people's life miserable, they thrive on that, it is indeed their way of life for them it is fun!
They need THERAPY!They are unhappy and they want you to be the same..how pathetic! A wise man once said "The blues aint about feeling better, it is about making other people feel worse"
Be careful of unhappy miserbale people, chances are you have encounted one in your time, they are not notcieable immediately, but, overtime their true nature is enevitably revealed....They can ruin your relationships with spouses, friends, lovers, relatives, or even get you fired in a job, they are dangerous...because they are envious, hold grudges, blame others, critical and complaining..."RUN"
so sad, why can't they find constructive things to do? They just bent on being chronically miserable no matter the circumstances.... get a life and start TODAY to be happy learn to love yourself and others around you....only postitve vibes
i used to have a friend that i liked, trusted her but didn't take long before i found out she was just a sneaky little "ehem".
ebony4you: Some people make it their duty to make other people's life miserable, they thrive on that, it is indeed their way of life for them it is fun!
They need THERAPY!They are unhappy and they want you to be the same..how pathetic! A wise man once said "The blues aint about feeling better, it is about making other people feel worse"
Be careful of unhappy miserbale people, chances are you have encounted one in your time, they are not notcieable immediately, but, overtime their true nature is enevitably revealed....They can ruin your relationships with spouses, friends, lovers, relatives, or even get you fired in a job, they are dangerous...because they are envious, hold grudges, blame others, critical and complaining..."RUN"
so sad, why can't they find constructive things to do? They just bent on being chronically miserable no matter the circumstances.... get a life and start TODAY to be happy learn to love yourself and others around you....only postitve vibes
Yes, I know what you mean. The are also called "emotional vampires." They will just suck all the energy right out of you. Definately stay away from them.
OneKitty: Yes, I know what you mean. The are also called "emotional vampires." They will just suck all the energy right out of you. Definately stay away from them.
I had a friend like that too - constantly complaining.. constantly comparing and guilt tripping.. bent on making others feel bad for not being there if they can't. Her problems were always bigger than everyone else's and the world owed her for all her hardships. But hey .. it was Apartheid South Africa - we all had our own set of problems. But I felt sorry for her - I was the only friend she had in the whole world.. not a wonder.. so I tolerated as much as I could without allowing her negativity to bring me down.But personally.. I don't think she intended to hurt others - she did it naturally - instead of reaching out - she lashed out. I still walked with her to school - let her talk - she needed someone to listen. I didn't have the heart to walk away...
And now.. I promised myself I will not surround myself with any negativity - online or off :)
ebony4you: when you find th epositive ones..hold on tight
not easy, let tell ya. the one that i really trust and was really worth the friendship died years ago. The other lost contact, to this day i still miss them
I had a colleague like that. She had to support all the misery of the whole world. Everybody was lucky but her. I was new in the company and I thought she was joking. So, the more she complained, the more I laughed. After a while, other colleagues laughed as well. It did work! She never came to bother us any more.
whaaat: not easy, let tell ya. the one that i really trust and was really worth the friendship died years ago. The other lost contact, to this day i still miss them
gabrielle95: I had a colleague like that. She had to support all the misery of the whole world. Everybody was lucky but her. I was new in the company and I thought she was joking. So, the more she complained, the more I laughed. After a while, other colleagues laughed as well. It did work! She never came to bother us any more.
ladyinwaiting: I had a friend like that too - constantly complaining.. constantly comparing and guilt tripping.. bent on making others feel bad for not being there if they can't. Her problems were always bigger than everyone else's and the world owed her for all her hardships. But hey .. it was Apartheid South Africa - we all had our own set of problems. But I felt sorry for her - I was the only friend she had in the whole world.. not a wonder.. so I tolerated as much as I could without allowing her negativity to bring me down.But personally.. I don't think she intended to hurt others - she did it naturally - instead of reaching out - she lashed out. I still walked with her to school - let her talk - she needed someone to listen. I didn't have the heart to walk away...
And now.. I promised myself I will not surround myself with any negativity - online or off :)
Good post, Ebony
agree 100%...life is too short and real is so demanding and stressful..no more of it from online people or even real people....
whaaat: not easy, let tell ya. the one that i really trust and was really worth the friendship died years ago. The other lost contact, to this day i still miss them
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They need THERAPY!
They are unhappy and they want you to be the same..how pathetic!
A wise man once said "The blues aint about feeling better, it is about making other people feel worse"
Be careful of unhappy miserbale people, chances are you have encounted one in your time, they are not notcieable immediately, but, overtime their true nature is enevitably revealed....They can ruin your relationships with spouses, friends, lovers, relatives, or even get you fired in a job, they are dangerous...because they are envious, hold grudges, blame others, critical and complaining..."RUN"
so sad, why can't they find constructive things to do?
They just bent on being chronically miserable no matter the circumstances....
get a life and start TODAY to be happy learn to love yourself and others around you....only postitve vibes