Unhappy miserable people ( Archived) (63)

Mar 19, 2010 2:30 PM CST Unhappy miserable people
ebony4you
ebony4youebony4youMontreal, Quebec Canada13 Threads 933 Posts
Some people make it their duty to make other people's life miserable, they thrive on that, it is indeed their way of lifeconfused for them it is fun!

They need THERAPY!


They are unhappy and they want you to be the same..how pathetic!very mad
A wise man once said "The blues aint about feeling better, it is about making other people feel worse"professor

Be careful of unhappy miserbale people, chances are you have encounted one in your time, they are not notcieable immediately, but, overtime their true nature is enevitably revealed....They can ruin your relationships with spouses, friends, lovers, relatives, or even get you fired in a job, they are dangerous...because they are envious, hold grudges, blame others, critical and complaining..."RUN"

so sad, why can't they find constructive things to do?
They just bent on being chronically miserable no matter the circumstances....



get a life and start TODAY to be happyprofessor learn to love yourself and others around you....only postitve vibes


peace
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Mar 19, 2010 3:13 PM CST Unhappy miserable people
whaaat
whaaatwhaaatden, South Holland Netherlands31 Threads 5,747 Posts
ebony4you: Some people make it their duty to make other people's life miserable, they thrive on that, it is indeed their way of life for them it is fun!

They need THERAPY!They are unhappy and they want you to be the same..how pathetic!
A wise man once said "The blues aint about feeling better, it is about making other people feel worse"

Be careful of unhappy miserbale people, chances are you have encounted one in your time, they are not notcieable immediately, but, overtime their true nature is enevitably revealed....They can ruin your relationships with spouses, friends, lovers, relatives, or even get you fired in a job, they are dangerous...because they are envious, hold grudges, blame others, critical and complaining..."RUN"

so sad, why can't they find constructive things to do?
They just bent on being chronically miserable no matter the circumstances....
get a life and start TODAY to be happy learn to love yourself and others around you....only postitve vibes


doh i used to have a friend that i liked, trusted her but didn't take long before i found out she was just a sneaky little "ehem".grin
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Mar 19, 2010 3:17 PM CST Unhappy miserable people
ebony4you
ebony4youebony4youMontreal, Quebec Canada13 Threads 933 Posts
whaaat: i used to have a friend that i liked, trusted her but didn't take long before i found out she was just a sneaky little "ehem".
so many like that around us..poisensvery mad
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Mar 19, 2010 3:19 PM CST Unhappy miserable people
whaaat
whaaatwhaaatden, South Holland Netherlands31 Threads 5,747 Posts
ebony4you: so many like that around us..poisens


yes, too many to count, really sad mumbling mumbling mumbling
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Mar 19, 2010 3:21 PM CST Unhappy miserable people
OneKitty
OneKittyOneKittyLa Grande, Oregon USA56 Threads 4 Polls 1,351 Posts
ebony4you: Some people make it their duty to make other people's life miserable, they thrive on that, it is indeed their way of life for them it is fun!

They need THERAPY!They are unhappy and they want you to be the same..how pathetic!
A wise man once said "The blues aint about feeling better, it is about making other people feel worse"

Be careful of unhappy miserbale people, chances are you have encounted one in your time, they are not notcieable immediately, but, overtime their true nature is enevitably revealed....They can ruin your relationships with spouses, friends, lovers, relatives, or even get you fired in a job, they are dangerous...because they are envious, hold grudges, blame others, critical and complaining..."RUN"

so sad, why can't they find constructive things to do?
They just bent on being chronically miserable no matter the circumstances....
get a life and start TODAY to be happy learn to love yourself and others around you....only postitve vibes


Yes, I know what you mean. The are also called "emotional vampires." They will just suck all the energy right out of you. Definately stay away from them.
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Mar 19, 2010 3:22 PM CST Unhappy miserable people
ebony4you
ebony4youebony4youMontreal, Quebec Canada13 Threads 933 Posts
OneKitty: Yes, I know what you mean. The are also called "emotional vampires." They will just suck all the energy right out of you. Definately stay away from them.
head banger grin
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Mar 19, 2010 3:23 PM CST Unhappy miserable people
ebony4you
ebony4youebony4youMontreal, Quebec Canada13 Threads 933 Posts
whaaat: yes, too many to count, really sad
when you find th epositive ones..hold on tighthug
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Mar 19, 2010 3:24 PM CST Unhappy miserable people
ladyinwaiting
ladyinwaitingladyinwaitingAmwaj Island, Bahrain13 Threads 172 Posts
I had a friend like that too - constantly complaining.. constantly comparing and guilt tripping.. bent on making others feel bad for not being there if they can't. Her problems were always bigger than everyone else's and the world owed her for all her hardships. But hey .. it was Apartheid South Africa - we all had our own set of problems. But I felt sorry for her - I was the only friend she had in the whole world.. not a wonder.. so I tolerated as much as I could without allowing her negativity to bring me down.But personally.. I don't think she intended to hurt others - she did it naturally - instead of reaching out - she lashed out. I still walked with her to school - let her talk - she needed someone to listen. I didn't have the heart to walk away...

And now.. I promised myself I will not surround myself with any negativity - online or off :) dancing

Good post, Ebony
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Mar 19, 2010 3:24 PM CST Unhappy miserable people
I don't those kinds of people bother me anymore.

I just let them remain miserable in their own miserable little world.laugh laugh
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Mar 19, 2010 3:24 PM CST Unhappy miserable people
Englishman55
Englishman55Englishman55Salisbury, Wiltshire, England UK31 Threads 2 Polls 6,405 Posts
ebony4you: when you find th epositive ones..hold on tight


Hold on to what ? grin
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Mar 19, 2010 3:25 PM CST Unhappy miserable people
ONE BIG UNHAPPY FAMILY - ISAAC HAYES (1970)


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Mar 19, 2010 3:25 PM CST Unhappy miserable people
somechick: I don't let nor allow those kinds of people to bother me anymore.

I just let them remain miserable in their own miserable little world.
/laugh laugh
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Mar 19, 2010 3:27 PM CST Unhappy miserable people
whaaat
whaaatwhaaatden, South Holland Netherlands31 Threads 5,747 Posts
ebony4you: when you find th epositive ones..hold on tight


not easy, let tell ya. the one that i really trust and was really worth the friendship died years ago. The other lost contact, to this day i still miss them sigh sigh

teddybear
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Mar 19, 2010 3:31 PM CST Unhappy miserable people
I had a colleague like that. She had to support all the misery of the whole world. Everybody was lucky but her.
I was new in the company and I thought she was joking. So, the more she complained, the more I laughed. After a while, other colleagues laughed as well. It did work! She never came to bother us any more. laugh laugh
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Mar 19, 2010 3:31 PM CST Unhappy miserable people
demonfairy
demonfairydemonfairyNewton,hickory, North Carolina USA120 Threads 17 Polls 5,654 Posts
Yes i had a aunt that was like that,always starting troubledoh
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Mar 19, 2010 3:32 PM CST Unhappy miserable people
nottoo2525
nottoo2525nottoo2525Edmonton, Alberta Canada13 Threads 1 Polls 958 Posts
whaaat: not easy, let tell ya. the one that i really trust and was really worth the friendship died years ago. The other lost contact, to this day i still miss them
comfort Always possible to make new ones....hug
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Mar 19, 2010 3:37 PM CST Unhappy miserable people
gabrielle95: I had a colleague like that. She had to support all the misery of the whole world. Everybody was lucky but her.
I was new in the company and I thought she was joking. So, the more she complained, the more I laughed. After a while, other colleagues laughed as well. It did work! She never came to bother us any more.
That was cruel.rolling on the floor laughing
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Mar 19, 2010 3:38 PM CST Unhappy miserable people
whaaat
whaaatwhaaatden, South Holland Netherlands31 Threads 5,747 Posts
nottoo2525: Always possible to make new ones....


aha your my cyber friend hug hug bouquet
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Mar 19, 2010 3:38 PM CST Unhappy miserable people
ebony4you
ebony4youebony4youMontreal, Quebec Canada13 Threads 933 Posts
ladyinwaiting: I had a friend like that too - constantly complaining.. constantly comparing and guilt tripping.. bent on making others feel bad for not being there if they can't. Her problems were always bigger than everyone else's and the world owed her for all her hardships. But hey .. it was Apartheid South Africa - we all had our own set of problems. But I felt sorry for her - I was the only friend she had in the whole world.. not a wonder.. so I tolerated as much as I could without allowing her negativity to bring me down.But personally.. I don't think she intended to hurt others - she did it naturally - instead of reaching out - she lashed out. I still walked with her to school - let her talk - she needed someone to listen. I didn't have the heart to walk away...

And now.. I promised myself I will not surround myself with any negativity - online or off :)

Good post, Ebony
agree 100%...life is too short and real is so demanding and stressful..no more of it from online people or even real people....hug wine
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Mar 19, 2010 3:39 PM CST Unhappy miserable people
ebony4you
ebony4youebony4youMontreal, Quebec Canada13 Threads 933 Posts
whaaat: not easy, let tell ya. the one that i really trust and was really worth the friendship died years ago. The other lost contact, to this day i still miss them
comfort sorry to hearsad flower
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