You don't do anything top acquire happiness...bewcause you have it already.Happiness is your natural state of being...you hav eto drop something..Negative feelings.
VeritaasLondon, Greater London, England UK5,839 posts
ebony4you: well do not post in a negative thread...
Not all people's misery or unhappiness is directed at people just for the sake of it, or because they enjoy it. There are alot of people suffering from depression out there in this world through no fault of their own.
You got to accentuate the positive eliminate the negative, latch on to the affirmative and dont mess with Mr Inbetween!
Veritaas: Not all people's misery or unhappiness is directed at people just for the sake of it, or because they enjoy it. There are alot of people suffering from depression out there in this world through no fault of their own.
You got to accentuate the positive eliminate the negative, latch on to the affirmative and dont mess with Mr Inbetween!
Veritaas: Not all people's misery or unhappiness is directed at people just for the sake of it, or because they enjoy it. There are alot of people suffering from depression out there in this world through no fault of their own.
You got to accentuate the positive eliminate the negative, latch on to the affirmative and dont mess with Mr Inbetween!
well there you go!..that is what the forums are about...."WE" are always happy to learn from the "WISE" ones, we live and learn everyday..sometimes it is indeed a learning process on CS...thanks for you input ..I will keep that in mind...^^Chuckles^^...quietly..
roseofsharonmanchester, Hampshire, England UK8,699 posts
Well, firstly, I am not a qualified professional so I can't ascertain whether they would need therapy or not....
Yes, there are what we would deem "miserable people" out there but being happy all the day long is not a criteria for being a citizen of Planet Earth.
Besides, as much as we would, in an ideal world, like everyone to be jolly and blithe, skipping throught the tulips with a big cheesey grin on all our faces, just think realistically how tiresome that may become...? The differences in mood make it all the more enjoyable when there IS happiness, laughter, joy.... surely?
There may be mitigating circumstances, beyond our awareness, knowledge or comprehension even and some are having a totally crap time of it.
Those, though, that clearly seek just to treat others with disdain and malevolence indeed do need to resolve the issues they may have.
Some may not even be aware that they have issues but then there are those who do and just don't care. I have never held with the "I don't care" attitude. It really doesn't sit well with me. I believe its the basis for many of the world's evils....
I don't lack compassion. What I do have a problem with is those who simply don't even try.....
roseofsharon: Well, firstly, I am not a qualified professional so I can't ascertain whether they would need therapy or not....
Yes, there are what we would deem "miserable people" out there but being happy all the day long is not a criteria for being a citizen of Planet Earth.
Besides, as much as we would, in an ideal world, like everyone to be jolly and blithe, skipping throught the tulips with a big cheesey grin on all our faces, just think realistically how tiresome that may become...? The differences in mood make it all the more enjoyable when there IS happiness, laughter, joy.... surely?
There may be mitigating circumstances, beyond our awareness, knowledge or comprehension even and some are having a totally crap time of it.
Those, though, that clearly seek just to treat others with disdain and malevolence indeed do need to resolve the issues they may have.
Some may not even be aware that they have issues but then there are those who do and just don't care. I have never held with the "I don't care" attitude. It really doesn't sit well with me. I believe its the basis for many of the world's evils....
I don't lack compassion. What I do have a problem with is those who simply don't even try.....
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