Why do Men love BAD Girls? (110)
I dont know about anybody else buy I find no fun at all in being good.
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rkauler: I dont know about anybody else buy I find no fun at all in being good.
depends on what it is ur good at dontcha think?
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felixis99: depends on what it is ur good at dontcha think?
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I do not like BAD girls, I like good girls 
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sawadee ka,I think it works both ways...why do women like Bad men???It is just luck of the draw for most people 
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caramel623: Look imma good girl and it seems like men leave me for hood rats. My bad I have goals I'm trying to reach. I work full time and I have a part time job. I take care of home and would take care of my man. I always treat my man as if he is my king. I cook and clean. Give hiim what he wants. (If I have it to give) I hate arguing. Look, one time I had a man tell me that I need to act like a B!t(*. Are you serious? Please, comment on this. Lol.
Yes, Trust me, they Looooovvvee, Biddies
Hey, sometimes they're dummer than dirt, what can I say? I've tried the Good Girl approach before too...didn't work too hot for me either..so no more Miss Nice Girl here
Good Luck to figuring out what they want...I'm not sure if they can figure it out
But can't live with them & seems we're too dumb to try to live without them sometimes,....but I'm learning way fast
Life's too short to try to be somebody's french maid and mother all the time
But they do make decorative handymen at times
EarthAngel
Recently Reformed New Biddy
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I've learned the hard way that you have to treat a man like your equal, not like a king. He's not better than you, so don't let him think he is.
Treat a man like your equal, a relationship should be give and take. Let him know that you deserve a good man, and that you expect a good man, and won't settle for less.
...Hell, who am I to give advice? LMAO
Treat a man like your equal, a relationship should be give and take. Let him know that you deserve a good man, and that you expect a good man, and won't settle for less.
...Hell, who am I to give advice? LMAO
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maryjane86: I've learned the hard way that you have to treat a man like your equal, not like a king. He's not better than you, so don't let him think he is.
Treat a man like your equal, a relationship should be give and take. Let him know that you deserve a good man, and that you expect a good man, and won't settle for less.
...Hell, who am I to give advice? LMAO
Treat a man like your equal, a relationship should be give and take. Let him know that you deserve a good man, and that you expect a good man, and won't settle for less.
...Hell, who am I to give advice? LMAO
Well what can I say, you hit it on the nail completely
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caramel623: Look imma good girl and it seems like men leave me for hood rats. My bad I have goals I'm trying to reach. I work full time and I have a part time job. I take care of home and would take care of my man. I always treat my man as if he is my king. I cook and clean. Give hiim what he wants. (If I have it to give) I hate arguing. Look, one time I had a man tell me that I need to act like a B!t(*. Are you serious? Please, comment on this. Lol.
No one like's a doormat, it just isn't very becoming.
If you let us think that there's absolutely no chance that you could ever leave us, then we will treat you worse for it, it works the other way around too.
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nobody is completely good or completely bad!
if one aspect of your behaviour is leading to recurrent problems-you can see you need to find a new approach.
being fully focused on one person,trying to be perfect and please,can be exhausting and full on pressure for the other person-rather than the comforting experience you mean to give them.
perhaps you can spend some time now focusing and taking care of your needs,and so entering a new relationship from a position of strength and partnership.
if one aspect of your behaviour is leading to recurrent problems-you can see you need to find a new approach.
being fully focused on one person,trying to be perfect and please,can be exhausting and full on pressure for the other person-rather than the comforting experience you mean to give them.
perhaps you can spend some time now focusing and taking care of your needs,and so entering a new relationship from a position of strength and partnership.
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caramel623: Look imma good girl and it seems like men leave me for hood rats. My bad I have goals I'm trying to reach. I work full time and I have a part time job. I take care of home and would take care of my man. I always treat my man as if he is my king. I cook and clean. Give hiim what he wants. (If I have it to give) I hate arguing. Look, one time I had a man tell me that I need to act like a B!t(*. Are you serious? Please, comment on this. Lol.
Don't be so depressed. If you are really such a good girl but they leave you and say you should act like a b!t, then that can only demonstrate one thing: They are bad guys. Not worth your sadness.
Don't treat him as your king. If other boys treat me as their queen, I will absolutely despise them and run away.
Some may say that we are too clingy or sneer that we can't leave men to live. If we can't leave them easily, then that's because there must be something true and deep in our hearts. If we can leave them easily, ok that's because they are nothing in our hearts.
and you know, some of them are really cruel beasts which will threaten us. Their hearts are as hard as stones and as cold as iron. It will help you a lot if they treat them cruelly.
anyway, do not lose yourself. you always have yourself.
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tomboygirl: nobody is completely good or completely bad!
if one aspect of your behaviour is leading to recurrent problems-you can see you need to find a new approach.
being fully focused on one person,trying to be perfect and please,can be exhausting and full on pressure for the other person-rather than the comforting experience you mean to give them.
perhaps you can spend some time now focusing and taking care of your needs,and so entering a new relationship from a position of strength and partnership.
if one aspect of your behaviour is leading to recurrent problems-you can see you need to find a new approach.
being fully focused on one person,trying to be perfect and please,can be exhausting and full on pressure for the other person-rather than the comforting experience you mean to give them.
perhaps you can spend some time now focusing and taking care of your needs,and so entering a new relationship from a position of strength and partnership.
yes. And the terms bad and good are also not black and white!!------ This thread is Archived ------
because we are soooooo good
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Nah, I like good girls, I want someone I can take home to mom. Cheap (sorry for this phrase ladies) "tricks" are not for me. I want someone I can respect, not screw and leave.
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bamma882: Nah, I like good girls, I want someone I can take home to mom. Cheap (sorry for this phrase ladies) "tricks" are not for me. I want someone I can respect, not screw and leave.
all women are worthy of respect as all people are, but they don't always behave that way -
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felixis99: all women are worthy of respect as all people are, but they don't always behave that way -
This is very true. I just feel if you don't show respect for yourself, you aren't worth getting mine. If that makes any sense.
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bamma882: This is very true. I just feel if you don't show respect for yourself, you aren't worth getting mine. If that makes any sense.
to me as you have stated it, no, to me , it does not. I try to respect all people regardless of their choices - doesn't mean I am going to be best friends or lovers wiht them all tho.
I may not respect the actions or choices of another - but their basic human dignity? Absolutely I do. I also believe all people deserve respectful treatment & a fair chance in life regardless of their personal history or appearance. Again, this does not mean I am going to marry or date all of them tho.
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sounds to me like "someone" has a bit of experience in this area???