nicki_loveoriginally from Venus, Port of Spain Trinidad and Tobago15 Threads374 Posts
nicki_loveOPoriginally from Venus, Port of Spain Trinidad and Tobago374 posts
Ok.. so I'm talking to someone these days and we cant get past four lines of proper conversation before I get bored. I mean, he asks the same questions every single time we chat and when I try to ask him stuff.. his answers are usually quite short and general.. Not much of a conversationalist! I know everyone cant be great at that but if you are looking for that special someone online, the only thing we really have is verbal / written communication.. how in the world do you expect to attract a woman when you cant even hold her attention for more than 15 minutes?
nicki_love: Ok.. so I'm talking to someone these days and we cant get past four lines of proper conversation before I get bored. I mean, he asks the same questions every single time we chat and when I try to ask him stuff.. his answers are usually quite short and general.. Not much of a conversationalist! I know everyone cant be great at that but if you are looking for that special someone online, the only thing we really have is verbal / written communication.. how in the world do you expect to attract a woman when you cant even hold her attention for more than 15 minutes?
I could never be with someone that I couldn't listen and talk with for hours on end. When I have met someone I find my dates last for hours and hours because the time flies. I usually cut the exchanges off quickly when I feel 'we' can't talk, listen and communicate easily.
welcome to my world nicki love . one of my main problems is lets say i ask 5 questions i might get three short answers . also nobody really ask me questions either my profile is way too informative or i'm really boring . lol
In response to: Ok.. so I'm talking to someone these days and we cant get past four lines of proper conversation before I get bored. I mean, he asks the same questions every single time we chat and when I try to ask him stuff.. his answers are usually quite short and general.. Not much of a conversationalist! I know everyone cant be great at that but if you are looking for that special someone online, the only thing we really have is verbal / written communication.. how in the world do you expect to attract a woman when you cant even hold her attention for more than 15 minutes?
Good grief..can't imagine being with someone who couldn't carry on an interesting convo..but sometimes..there are those who go on and on..blah blah blah
nanners2863: Good grief..can't imagine being with someone who couldn't carry on an interesting convo..but sometimes..there are those who go on and on..blah blah blah
adamisk: welcome to my world nicki love . one of my main problems is lets say i ask 5 questions i might get three short answers . also nobody really ask me questions either my profile is way too informative or i'm really boring . lol
Aren't like 4 of your 5 answers something along the lines of 'tacos rule!' (which they do, but thats not the point)?
nicki_love: Ok.. so I'm talking to someone these days and we cant get past four lines of proper conversation before I get bored. I mean, he asks the same questions every single time we chat and when I try to ask him stuff.. his answers are usually quite short and general.. Not much of a conversationalist! I know everyone cant be great at that but if you are looking for that special someone online, the only thing we really have is verbal / written communication.. how in the world do you expect to attract a woman when you cant even hold her attention for more than 15 minutes?
nicki_love: Ok.. so I'm talking to someone these days and we cant get past four lines of proper conversation before I get bored. I mean, he asks the same questions every single time we chat and when I try to ask him stuff.. his answers are usually quite short and general.. Not much of a conversationalist! I know everyone cant be great at that but if you are looking for that special someone online, the only thing we really have is verbal / written communication.. how in the world do you expect to attract a woman when you cant even hold her attention for more than 15 minutes?
Do you think it could just be that they are looking at your pictures and their brains just kind of seize up as the blood they need to run it correctly flows DOWN someplace below the waist, lowering their IQ's by quite a few points?
elssonLondon, Greater London, England UK1,864 posts
adamisk: yeah but what's your point ?
This site is full of Obama threads the odd Taco thread and the very odd Naked thread........Me, I prefer the Taco and conjor threads. They make me smile.
nicki_love: Ok.. so I'm talking to someone these days and we cant get past four lines of proper conversation before I get bored. I mean, he asks the same questions every single time we chat and when I try to ask him stuff.. his answers are usually quite short and general.. Not much of a conversationalist! I know everyone cant be great at that but if you are looking for that special someone online, the only thing we really have is verbal / written communication.. how in the world do you expect to attract a woman when you cant even hold her attention for more than 15 minutes?
i agree, if they dont good conversation skills then i get bored easily, lol . good convo lots of laughter thats the good stuff
elsson: This site is full of Obama threads the odd Taco thread and the very odd Naked thread........Me, I prefer the Taco and conjor threads. They make me smile.
In response to: Ok.. so I'm talking to someone these days and we cant get past four lines of proper conversation before I get bored. I mean, he asks the same questions every single time we chat and when I try to ask him stuff.. his answers are usually quite short and general.. Not much of a conversationalist! I know everyone cant be great at that but if you are looking for that special someone online, the only thing we really have is verbal / written communication.. how in the world do you expect to attract a woman when you cant even hold her attention for more than 15 minutes?
The chemistry just isn't there. He can tell you are bored...I can tell you are bored. "so i'm talking to someone these days" Whoa! If interested should be: "OH! I am "talking" to the greatest guy". We get along so well ........etc.
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