Can anyone help me understand this? (65)
denmcintyrewest melbourne, Florida USA10 Threads 1,106 PostsI have often heard it told that women want a man who is sensitive and is not afraid to express his feelings. A guy who will not only say I love you but show it as well. Someone who will appreciate and treasure them and love them not despite their faults but because of them. So, why is that when I did this I was used and walked all over and made to feel like I was weak and unworthy of her love? Maybe I'm just slow lol... but I don't get it..
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denmcintyre: I have often heard it told that women want a man who is sensitive and is not afraid to express his feelings. A guy who will not only say I love you but show it as well. Someone who will appreciate and treasure them and love them not despite their faults but because of them. So, why is that when I did this I was used and walked all over and made to feel like I was weak and unworthy of her love? Maybe I'm just slow lol... but I don't get it..
I can take only a wild guess here
Women don`t really know , what they want .....
but a cave Man personality...works .... every time ...
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Boban1: I can take only a wild guess here
Women don`t really know , what they want .....
but a cave Man personality...works .... every time ...
Hey Bob, as much as I hate to think it, maybe you're right man.. I have friends that treat their gf's like crap and cheat on them and these girls can't get enough of them.. sick but maybe you're right buddy..Women don`t really know , what they want .....
but a cave Man personality...works .... every time ...
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denmcintyre: I have often heard it told that women want a man who is sensitive and is not afraid to express his feelings. A guy who will not only say I love you but show it as well. Someone who will appreciate and treasure them and love them not despite their faults but because of them. So, why is that when I did this I was used and walked all over and made to feel like I was weak and unworthy of her love? Maybe I'm just slow lol... but I don't get it..
Maybe it just wasn't the right woman! 
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demonfairy: Maybe it just wasn't the right woman!
This could be.. but it's not the first time... I think I am leaning toward Bob's philosophy 
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Boban1: I can take only a wild guess here
Women don`t really know , what they want .....
but a cave Man personality...works .... every time ...
Women don`t really know , what they want .....
but a cave Man personality...works .... every time ...
Because she was not like you, she was one of lifes "Fake" people who use nice guys like you.!!!.
You were not the one with the problem . . . she was! you are better off without that sort of woman, look for the woman you want, not the one you don't. Good luck, there are a lot like her out there, be choosy ok
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denmcintyre: I have often heard it told that women want a man who is sensitive and is not afraid to express his feelings. A guy who will not only say I love you but show it as well. Someone who will appreciate and treasure them and love them not despite their faults but because of them. So, why is that when I did this I was used and walked all over and made to feel like I was weak and unworthy of her love? Maybe I'm just slow lol... but I don't get it..
Hey D
Having one of those days? I thought you were over it
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denmcintyre: I have often heard it told that women want a man who is sensitive and is not afraid to express his feelings. A guy who will not only say I love you but show it as well. Someone who will appreciate and treasure them and love them not despite their faults but because of them. So, why is that when I did this I was used and walked all over and made to feel like I was weak and unworthy of her love? Maybe I'm just slow lol... but I don't get it..
Well, can't answer for other women; but not looking for sensitive guy personally. I don't want a man that is overly emotional as I am not like that myself. I don't need to constantly hear I love you or having to talk about feelings as I am secure in who I am and so should he be. To me a man like that would be weak and I desire strength but I only speak for myself.
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englishelegance: Because she was not like you, she was one of lifes "Fake" people who use nice guys like you.!!!.
You were not the one with the problem . . . she was! you are better off without that sort of woman, look for the woman you want, not the one you don't. Good luck, there are a lot like her out there, be choosy ok
Thanks E.. i'm trying, but for some reason I am having a lot of trouble letting go... maybe it's because I invested so much of myself.. great advice though.. Thank you You were not the one with the problem . . . she was! you are better off without that sort of woman, look for the woman you want, not the one you don't. Good luck, there are a lot like her out there, be choosy ok
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Liebe2: Hey D
Having one of those days? I thought you were over it
Yeah, I thought so too lol.. she called earlier and I fell right back into it.. it's just a speed bump though, I know better than to go back down that road again.. How is your weekend? great to see you back!! Having one of those days? I thought you were over it
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denmcintyre: This could be.. but it's not the first time... I think I am leaning toward Bob's philosophy
what ever you do.... don`t take me for serious...
The truth is... people change .... sometimes we just want something , someone... until we get it... later we just realize ... oh my god.... I want something different ...
I know.... we are lonely, hungry for love and security ....but give your self time ..... time to overcome your pain... and regain the trust in people
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denmcintyre: Yeah, I thought so too lol.. she called earlier and I fell right back into it.. it's just a speed bump though, I know better than to go back down that road again.. How is your weekend? great to see you back!!
My weekend was great. The best I had in a while. Another great one to come
Why did you answer when she called? It looks like you need to cease any contact with her. I am the same. Nothing wrong with that. Walk away and let the time heal. It will, trust me
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Boban1: what ever you do.... don`t take me for serious...
The truth is... people change .... sometimes we just want something , someone... until we get it... later we just realize ... oh my god.... I want something different ...
I know.... we are lonely, hungry for love and security ....but give your self time ..... time to overcome your pain... and regain the trust in people
Haven't been here too long but from many of your posts I know to take it with a grain of salt lol.. but hey, there is some truth in what you say. And yea, trusting people is not something I am very comfortable with right now...The truth is... people change .... sometimes we just want something , someone... until we get it... later we just realize ... oh my god.... I want something different ...
I know.... we are lonely, hungry for love and security ....but give your self time ..... time to overcome your pain... and regain the trust in people
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denmcintyre: Yeah, I thought so too lol.. she called earlier and I fell right back into it.. it's just a speed bump though, I know better than to go back down that road again.. How is your weekend? great to see you back!!
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denmcintyre: I have often heard it told that women want a man who is sensitive and is not afraid to express his feelings. A guy who will not only say I love you but show it as well. Someone who will appreciate and treasure them and love them not despite their faults but because of them. So, why is that when I did this I was used and walked all over and made to feel like I was weak and unworthy of her love? Maybe I'm just slow lol... but I don't get it..
sometimes love just ain't enough my wife left me because of my job she always used to say i never made time for her, i made time for her an my children. i used to leave work get in trouble just to be with her, then one day she said she wanted a divorce, up to this day i still don't know what i did wrong.------ This thread is Archived ------
denmcintyre: Yeah, I thought so too lol.. she called earlier and I fell right back into it.. it's just a speed bump though, I know better than to go back down that road again.. How is your weekend? great to see you back!!
My weekend was great. The best I had in a while. Another great one to come
Why did you answer when she called? It looks like you need to cease any contact with her. I am the same. Nothing wrong with that. Walk away and let the time heal. It will, trust me
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Liebe2: My weekend was great. The best I had in a while. Another great one to come
Why did you answer when she called? It looks like you need to cease any contact with her. I am the same. Nothing wrong with that. Walk away and let the time heal. It will, trust me
You are so wise and beautiful, heeeeey do you cook too lol... jk L.. glad to hear your weekend was great.. yea I guess I answered in a moment of weakness?!?!Why did you answer when she called? It looks like you need to cease any contact with her. I am the same. Nothing wrong with that. Walk away and let the time heal. It will, trust me
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denmcintyre: You are so wise and beautiful, heeeeey do you cook too lol... jk L.. glad to hear your weekend was great.. yea I guess I answered in a moment of weakness?!?!
I do cook... for the loved one
Wanna come over?
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denmcintyre: I have often heard it told that women want a man who is sensitive and is not afraid to express his feelings. A guy who will not only say I love you but show it as well. Someone who will appreciate and treasure them and love them not despite their faults but because of them. So, why is that when I did this I was used and walked all over and made to feel like I was weak and unworthy of her love? Maybe I'm just slow lol... but I don't get it..
Ok, I can't speak for all woman nor am I trying to. But for me personally I have learned through time that I need a man that walks a fine line between being a nice guy and being a not so nice guy. What I mean by that is I need a guy who will show me how he feels and say sweet things, but I also need a man who isn't afraid to tell me to breathe when I get a little too worked up or whatever the case may be. I have a dominant personality and I need a man who wont allow me to walk all over him. I don't know if that helps or makes sense. I think everyone has to know who they are so they can find someone who compliments them.
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Liebe2: I do cook... for the loved one
Wanna come over?
Be there in what 14 16 hours lol...Wanna come over?
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