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Self-confidence is a start ..........and get out and walk the streets or do something to get exposure . Take up a sport that women like to do ...golfing, scuba diving, kayaking , fishing ??
One thing for sure.........if you sit at home worrying about being an "oddball" .....it ain't ever gonna happen fo ya
One thing for sure.........if you sit at home worrying about being an "oddball" .....it ain't ever gonna happen fo ya
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kahosrebellion: There are some people who crave physical closeness and contact; myself being one of them.
I'm 21, extremely playful and love to be close to people and very often i find myself craving the physical contact of others. I haven't had a major relationship in my life. I'm an oddball and most women wouldn't give me a second look usually. I'm like the best friend but not someone they'd consider for a serious relationship.
For people like this who find it difficult to find people to start a serious relationship with and also still need that physical intimacy; what is your opinion of them starting relationships with people until they can get as close as they can to Mr./Mrs Right?
Is is wrong if the other person knows it? Is it wrong if that's what we need to get by day to day?
P.S. I spend most of my days alone because due to the fact that i am such an oddball there aren't many if any places for me to go to meet women who share my interests or would put up with them.
I do try to go places and as of lately its been the pool and its been helping, but im not getting anywhere with it.
Opinions, advice and preferably from those people in Trinidad would be greatly appreciated.
Clubs aren't an option btw
Cheers and thanks!!
I'm 21, extremely playful and love to be close to people and very often i find myself craving the physical contact of others. I haven't had a major relationship in my life. I'm an oddball and most women wouldn't give me a second look usually. I'm like the best friend but not someone they'd consider for a serious relationship.
For people like this who find it difficult to find people to start a serious relationship with and also still need that physical intimacy; what is your opinion of them starting relationships with people until they can get as close as they can to Mr./Mrs Right?
Is is wrong if the other person knows it? Is it wrong if that's what we need to get by day to day?
P.S. I spend most of my days alone because due to the fact that i am such an oddball there aren't many if any places for me to go to meet women who share my interests or would put up with them.
I do try to go places and as of lately its been the pool and its been helping, but im not getting anywhere with it.
Opinions, advice and preferably from those people in Trinidad would be greatly appreciated.
Clubs aren't an option btw
Cheers and thanks!!
Call it a 'meantime' relations ship and be 100% honest about it with the woman. Make clear rules/boundaries and above all both have to be honest about what they want out of it and what they're willing to give in return. Just because it's not Mr./Ms. Right doesn't mean you can't learn, evolve and give each other what you really need. Just be honest about it.
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There are some people who crave physical closeness and contact; myself being one of them.
P.S. I spend most of my days alone because due to the fact that i am such an oddball there aren't many if any places for me to go to meet women who share my interests or would put up with them.
your not really coming across very well!
trlling people you an oddball, and ladies woulndt put up with your interests!
im sure if you were more upfront about your oddball interests then youd have a better chance of meeting a female oddball like yourself! good luck!
ps: i like eating raw liver, never before a first date though!
P.S. I spend most of my days alone because due to the fact that i am such an oddball there aren't many if any places for me to go to meet women who share my interests or would put up with them.
your not really coming across very well!
trlling people you an oddball, and ladies woulndt put up with your interests!
im sure if you were more upfront about your oddball interests then youd have a better chance of meeting a female oddball like yourself! good luck!
ps: i like eating raw liver, never before a first date though!
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kahosrebellion: There are some people who crave physical closeness and contact; myself being one of them.
I'm 21, extremely playful and love to be close to people and very often i find myself craving the physical contact of others. I haven't had a major relationship in my life. I'm an oddball and most women wouldn't give me a second look usually. I'm like the best friend but not someone they'd consider for a serious relationship.
For people like this who find it difficult to find people to start a serious relationship with and also still need that physical intimacy; what is your opinion of them starting relationships with people until they can get as close as they can to Mr./Mrs Right?
Is is wrong if the other person knows it? Is it wrong if that's what we need to get by day to day?
P.S. I spend most of my days alone because due to the fact that i am such an oddball there aren't many if any places for me to go to meet women who share my interests or would put up with them.I do try to go places and as of lately its been the pool and its been helping, but im not getting anywhere with it.
Opinions, advice and preferably from those people in Trinidad would be greatly appreciated.
Clubs aren't an option btw
Cheers and thanks!!
I'm 21, extremely playful and love to be close to people and very often i find myself craving the physical contact of others. I haven't had a major relationship in my life. I'm an oddball and most women wouldn't give me a second look usually. I'm like the best friend but not someone they'd consider for a serious relationship.
For people like this who find it difficult to find people to start a serious relationship with and also still need that physical intimacy; what is your opinion of them starting relationships with people until they can get as close as they can to Mr./Mrs Right?
Is is wrong if the other person knows it? Is it wrong if that's what we need to get by day to day?
P.S. I spend most of my days alone because due to the fact that i am such an oddball there aren't many if any places for me to go to meet women who share my interests or would put up with them.I do try to go places and as of lately its been the pool and its been helping, but im not getting anywhere with it.
Opinions, advice and preferably from those people in Trinidad would be greatly appreciated.
Clubs aren't an option btw
Cheers and thanks!!
I don't know why you refer to yourself as an oddball but I'm sure getting involved in other activities apart from those you're presently involved in will help you meet people and certainly more than you've been meeting so far. Like you mentioned you're now going to the pool and it's helping so you're on the right track, just don't give up.
Also you're only 21, you don't necessary need a serious relationship at the moment; go out to have fun and meet people and from there two of you might just fall for one another but don't make that your priority.
Good luck and keep us updated.
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"If you cant be with the one you love honey...love the one your with" 
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venusenvy: "If you cant be with the one you love honey...love the one your with"
Crosby, Stills, Nash ...
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Oooo good catch E.M. you are sharp this morning
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jvaski: Self-confidence is a start ..........and get out and walk the streets or do something to get exposure . Take up a sport that women like to do ...golfing, scuba diving, kayaking , fishing ??
One thing for sure.........if you sit at home worrying about being an "oddball" .....it ain't ever gonna happen fo ya
One thing for sure.........if you sit at home worrying about being an "oddball" .....it ain't ever gonna happen fo ya
I can dish out advice but I can't take it.
Goos luck to the op....
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I'm 21, extremely playful and love to be close to people and very often i find myself craving the physical contact of others. I haven't had a major relationship in my life. I'm an oddball and most women wouldn't give me a second look usually. I'm like the best friend but not someone they'd consider for a serious relationship.
For people like this who find it difficult to find people to start a serious relationship with and also still need that physical intimacy; what is your opinion of them starting relationships with people until they can get as close as they can to Mr./Mrs Right?
Is is wrong if the other person knows it? Is it wrong if that's what we need to get by day to day?
P.S. I spend most of my days alone because due to the fact that i am such an oddball there aren't many if any places for me to go to meet women who share my interests or would put up with them.
I do try to go places and as of lately its been the pool and its been helping, but im not getting anywhere with it.
Opinions, advice and preferably from those people in Trinidad would be greatly appreciated.
Clubs aren't an option btw
Cheers and thanks!!