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Aug 30, 2006 11:34 PM CST please help
eric2009
eric2009eric2009Bakersfield, California USA31 Threads 572 Posts
please help i was abused when i was 2 and its hard 4 me 2 make friends becouse i where adult pants (please help and dont judge)crying moping
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Aug 30, 2006 11:46 PM CST please help
PanthersSpirit
PanthersSpiritPanthersSpiritmiddlesex county, Massachusetts USA24 Threads 643 Posts
This is your second post on the same thing, I responded to you earlier, but now I am confused, what do you mean with the last part of your statement?

"its hard 4 me 2 make friends becouse i where adult pants"

....angel Angel...not judging you.
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Aug 31, 2006 12:01 AM CST please help
eric2009
eric2009eric2009Bakersfield, California USA31 Threads 572 Posts
becouse thay find out and thay run away sorry 4 repeating myself
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Aug 31, 2006 12:21 AM CST please help
PanthersSpirit
PanthersSpiritPanthersSpiritmiddlesex county, Massachusetts USA24 Threads 643 Posts
If they run away they are not your friends.

Friends will support and understand you...and maybe some of those running away had the same thing happen to them...they just cannot face it...while you are confronting the issue on your own.

Have you confronted the person that did this horrible thing to you?

It's never to late to make them pay by reporting the person.

There are so many that have gone through this, you are not alone, have you consider a support group, you have nothing to be ashamed of by joining one.

You have given yourself the power to confront the issue and speak about it, you can do so much more, I trust that you can.

I am much older than you...old enough to be your mom, but I can be your friend right here online, and I will never run away from what you have to say.

May peace be with you.

....angel Angel...
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Aug 31, 2006 1:25 AM CST please help
nwnstar
nwnstarnwnstarConway, USA38 Threads 5,464 Posts
it IS too late, if it happened when he was two.

there isn't a prosecutor around that would take a case from someone who was two YEARS ago...it's hard enough to get a case for someone who's two right NOW.

the best advice i can give is to get to a psychologist and talk it out. wonderful to have an unbiased and neutral person to speak with. find one who specializes in trauma...and go from there.

good luck.
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Aug 31, 2006 1:28 AM CST please help
mastic55
mastic55mastic55Long Island, New York USA167 Threads 6,859 Posts
2, you would not remember????professor
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Aug 31, 2006 1:34 AM CST please help
PanthersSpirit
PanthersSpiritPanthersSpiritmiddlesex county, Massachusetts USA24 Threads 643 Posts
Children can remember trauma as young as 5 months old, they are just not able to put it into words, but they will in actions.

I do mental health...it was part of my psychology classes, each day new information is emerging on childhood memories.
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Aug 31, 2006 1:40 AM CST please help
mastic55
mastic55mastic55Long Island, New York USA167 Threads 6,859 Posts
If you do mental health..we will get along good.
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Aug 31, 2006 1:45 AM CST please help
PanthersSpirit
PanthersSpiritPanthersSpiritmiddlesex county, Massachusetts USA24 Threads 643 Posts
Why, what do you do/ Are you a doctor?

Just wondering, lol.
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Aug 31, 2006 1:51 AM CST please help
PanthersSpirit
PanthersSpiritPanthersSpiritmiddlesex county, Massachusetts USA24 Threads 643 Posts
I agree...conversing
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Aug 31, 2006 1:52 AM CST please help
mastic55
mastic55mastic55Long Island, New York USA167 Threads 6,859 Posts
No I'am mental.
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Aug 31, 2006 1:57 AM CST please help
PanthersSpirit
PanthersSpiritPanthersSpiritmiddlesex county, Massachusetts USA24 Threads 643 Posts
Well...I always enjoy the challenging mind of an adult...especially if they will be my patient....innocent
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Aug 31, 2006 2:25 PM CST please help
bluitexan20000
bluitexan20000bluitexan20000marshalltown, Iowa USA19 Threads 440 Posts
oooooo yes i can rember when i was 2 my dad tried to jit my mom with a table and it hit me do not ever say kids can rember i rember very well and i have the scar to prve it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!yawn
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Aug 31, 2006 2:26 PM CST please help
deborah12
deborah12deborah12wolverhampton, UK89 Threads 11,243 Posts
and theres more, plenty more yawn yawn yawn
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Aug 31, 2006 3:08 PM CST please help
lvslife
lvslifelvslifemoore, USA223 Threads 2,565 Posts
I beg to differ on that point. I remember when I was two. I remember as if it was yesterday, my mom and I leaving my dad carrying a suitcase downstairs and walking into the street and under a railroad bridge. I was two. I remember trying to hit my dad with his big ole cowboy belt when he was choking my mom. I remember seeing my baby sister before she died and I was two. So, yes, it is possible to remember at a very young age. Kathy
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Aug 31, 2006 3:35 PM CST please help
SusieRR
SusieRRSusieRRnortheast, Ohio USA78 Threads 3 Polls 2,122 Posts
Yes it's totally possible to remember times when you were age two.
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Aug 31, 2006 7:56 PM CST please help
SouthernYankee
SouthernYankeeSouthernYankeeFayetteville, North Carolina USA7 Threads 480 Posts
I remember many traumatic parts of my life between the ages of 2 and 4. From the vehicle my dad was driving to the color of furniture that was carried out of the house when we were moving.To the mirror falling off of the dresser and breaking on the sidewalk. I remember sitting in the car and crying and begging my mother not to make us kids go into the house with him there.Kids remember alot more then some think.
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