How to deal with "internet wolves" ( Archived) (36)

Jun 22, 2010 3:22 PM CST How to deal with "internet wolves"
Amity
AmityAmityDodging Daggers, Wiltshire, England UK49 Threads 6,217 Posts
Wolves in sheeps clothing that is?
How is it possible to be aware of someone who acts and plays the part of a wonderful person only for you to find out that you are actually being groomed?
That this person is not all they make out to be,in fact they are probably selling the same story to you as many other women..

How would you even know?
To me, i see this behaviour as scammer type behaviour.
What are your views?
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Jun 22, 2010 3:24 PM CST How to deal with "internet wolves"
englishelegance
englisheleganceenglisheleganceBirmingham, West Midlands, England UK76 Threads 1 Polls 3,025 Posts
Amity: Wolves in sheeps clothing that is?
How is it possible to be aware of someone who acts and plays the part of a wonderful person only for you to find out that you are actually being groomed?
That this person is not all they make out to be,in fact they are probably selling the same story to you as many other women..

How would you even know?
To me, i see this behaviour as scammer type behaviour.
What are your views?


Yes Definately Amitywave have to keep a sharp eye open for em hon thumbs up hug bouquet
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Jun 22, 2010 3:26 PM CST How to deal with "internet wolves"
Costapacket
CostapacketCostapacketparis, Centre-Val de Loire France2 Threads 2,182 Posts
Amity: Wolves in sheeps clothing that is?
How is it possible to be aware of someone who acts and plays the part of a wonderful person only for you to find out that you are actually being groomed?
That this person is not all they make out to be,in fact they are probably selling the same story to you as many other women..

How would you even know?
To me, i see this behaviour as scammer type behaviour.
What are your views?


hey I just said that in the Taliban boy thread.

I want royalities on this thread......laugh
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Jun 22, 2010 3:26 PM CST How to deal with "internet wolves"
Amity
AmityAmityDodging Daggers, Wiltshire, England UK49 Threads 6,217 Posts
englishelegance: Yes Definately Amity have to keep a sharp eye open for em hon


hug bouquet heya EE ..so true, but its also very sad that you cannot take people on face value. Makes you start to feel extremely paranoid...laugh
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Jun 22, 2010 3:26 PM CST How to deal with "internet wolves"
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
How is it possible to be aware of someone who acts and plays the part of a wonderful person only for you to find out that you are actually being groomed

Cause we are smarter than them grin
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Jun 22, 2010 3:26 PM CST How to deal with "internet wolves"
SummerUK
SummerUKSummerUKWashington UK, Tyne and Wear, England UK24 Threads 8,842 Posts
In response to: Wolves in sheeps clothing that is?
How is it possible to be aware of someone who acts and plays the part of a wonderful person only for you to find out that you are actually being groomed?
That this person is not all they make out to be,in fact they are probably selling the same story to you as many other women..

How would you even know?
To me, i see this behaviour as scammer type behaviour.
What are your views?


Ive met a couple of people exactly like that both male and female... Its bloody scary the way people can completely change their personality on here.

bouquet
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Jun 22, 2010 3:27 PM CST How to deal with "internet wolves"
Amity
AmityAmityDodging Daggers, Wiltshire, England UK49 Threads 6,217 Posts
Costapacket: hey I just said that in the Taliban boy thread.

I want royalities on this thread......


rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing I stole it..shhhhbouquet
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Jun 22, 2010 3:27 PM CST How to deal with "internet wolves"
cherrybrandy
cherrybrandycherrybrandycambridge, Cambridgeshire, England UK24 Threads 7,473 Posts
why internet?dont you see the same in RL...guess its the human nature of some ppl.,slightly magnified by the cover of the screen..conversing
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Jun 22, 2010 3:28 PM CST How to deal with "internet wolves"
demonfairy
demonfairydemonfairyNewton,hickory, North Carolina USA120 Threads 17 Polls 5,654 Posts
It might take a little time,but you can't keep up a act for long!wave
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Jun 22, 2010 3:30 PM CST How to deal with "internet wolves"
snowbunnie4U
snowbunnie4Usnowbunnie4Udaegu, South Korea14 Threads 294 Posts
Typical signs of getting too serious too fast. Asking you a lot of personal questions, but not divulging much of their own. Them getting offended if you are unsure of their honesty. That is my take on it anyway...
(o yes..and photos are professionally done..and they have some ridiculous story as to why that is)...
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Jun 22, 2010 3:30 PM CST How to deal with "internet wolves"
Costapacket
CostapacketCostapacketparis, Centre-Val de Loire France2 Threads 2,182 Posts
Amity: I stole it..shhhh


You Shameless Bandit!.........very mad

rolling on the floor laughing
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Jun 22, 2010 3:30 PM CST How to deal with "internet wolves"
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
demonfairy: It might take a little time,but you can't keep up a act for long!


Ooooo Ya the monster in the closet thang!! Its good to keep a big cast iron skillet handy grin devil
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Jun 22, 2010 3:32 PM CST How to deal with "internet wolves"
englishelegance
englisheleganceenglisheleganceBirmingham, West Midlands, England UK76 Threads 1 Polls 3,025 Posts
Funny how a lot of folk think you were born yesterday.
Ya gotta get up early in the mornin to catch this girl. I usually play along then start asking questions they don't have answers for, one thing i do hve is a great memory.laugh thumbs up
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Jun 22, 2010 3:34 PM CST How to deal with "internet wolves"
Costapacket
CostapacketCostapacketparis, Centre-Val de Loire France2 Threads 2,182 Posts
They are coming...


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shimmy <----this is you shameless.....laugh
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Jun 22, 2010 3:35 PM CST How to deal with "internet wolves"
Amity
AmityAmityDodging Daggers, Wiltshire, England UK49 Threads 6,217 Posts
rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Jun 22, 2010 3:43 PM CST How to deal with "internet wolves"
MrInteresting
MrInterestingMrInterestingedinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK28 Threads 8 Polls 323 Posts
Wow.

Touch the cynicism, lol.

'Tis find to have a pinch of it, however, unless you give someone a chance, then you will never know.

Sx
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Jun 22, 2010 3:50 PM CST How to deal with "internet wolves"
Amity
AmityAmityDodging Daggers, Wiltshire, England UK49 Threads 6,217 Posts
MrInteresting: Wow.

Touch the cynicism, lol.

'Tis find to have a pinch of it, however, unless you give someone a chance, then you will never know.

Sx


you daft sodrolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing not you lemsiprolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Jun 22, 2010 4:46 PM CST How to deal with "internet wolves"
JAN_is
JAN_isJAN_isMurcia city centre, Murcia Spain109 Threads 3,849 Posts
Amity: Wolves in sheeps clothing that is?
How is it possible to be aware of someone who acts and plays the part of a wonderful person only for you to find out that you are actually being groomed?
That this person is not all they make out to be,in fact they are probably selling the same story to you as many other women..

How would you even know?
To me, i see this behaviour as scammer type behaviour.
What are your views?


Yes I think there a lot of people who do this, more than we may imagine. I don´t know how you can be really sure, particularly as some are very skilled at the games they play.

I don´t think I´ve come across one yet though thank goodness.
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Jun 22, 2010 4:50 PM CST How to deal with "internet wolves"
MrInteresting
MrInterestingMrInterestingedinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK28 Threads 8 Polls 323 Posts
Amity: you daft sod not you lemsip


Lemsip? LemSIP? I'm not a little pile of bitter powder that you mix with water, when you have a cold.

wink
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Jun 22, 2010 4:52 PM CST How to deal with "internet wolves"
MrInteresting
MrInterestingMrInterestingedinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK28 Threads 8 Polls 323 Posts
JAN_is: Yes I think there a lot of people who do this, more than we may imagine. I don´t know how you can be really sure, particularly as some are very skilled at the games they play.

I don´t think I´ve come across one yet though thank goodness.


People could be the same, even if you had met them, in the 'normal' way, as well, of course.

I think if you look within yourself, you can often tell whether or not the person is being genuine, in all that they say, or all that they write. After that, it's down to taking a gamble, but life is a gamble.
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