Wasted dating opportunity by not using the forums? (45)

Jun 29, 2010 6:23 PM CST Wasted dating opportunity by not using the forums?
Lauren123
Lauren123Lauren123Dublin City, Dublin Ireland2 Threads 18 Posts
i have been using cs for a while now say about 2years, when i first started out i found i met guys through the email facility, it seems to have stopped for me as i rarely get any mail anymore. i've never posted in the forums. so i was just wondering do the regular users of the forums think its a good way of meeting more people by posting up here? or does it make any difference?
Jun 29, 2010 6:24 PM CST Wasted dating opportunity by not using the forums?
delamer
delamerdelamerWexford, Ireland114 Threads 10 Polls 4,135 Posts
Lauren123: i have been using cs for a while now say about 2years, when i first started out i found i met guys through the email facility, it seems to have stopped for me as i rarely get any mail anymore. i've never posted in the forums. so i was just wondering do the regular users of the forums think its a good way of meeting more people by posting up here? or does it make any difference?


...only one way to find out! wave
Jun 29, 2010 6:25 PM CST Wasted dating opportunity by not using the forums?
Neenaw
NeenawNeenawcork, Cork Ireland51 Threads 3 Polls 3,888 Posts
Lauren123: i have been using cs for a while now say about 2years, when i first started out i found i met guys through the email facility, it seems to have stopped for me as i rarely get any mail anymore. i've never posted in the forums. so i was just wondering do the regular users of the forums think its a good way of meeting more people by posting up here? or does it make any difference?


do you mail people to make the first move?
Jun 29, 2010 6:26 PM CST Wasted dating opportunity by not using the forums?
MimiKate
MimiKateMimiKateDublin, Ireland15 Threads 3,666 Posts
Lauren123: i have been using cs for a while now say about 2years, when i first started out i found i met guys through the email facility, it seems to have stopped for me as i rarely get any mail anymore. i've never posted in the forums. so i was just wondering do the regular users of the forums think its a good way of meeting more people by posting up here? or does it make any difference?



wave Hi Lauren. i've been on the site about that time, and have only recently jumped into the forums...and have to say my box has been refilled...MAILBOX!
Jun 29, 2010 6:28 PM CST Wasted dating opportunity by not using the forums?
billyod
billyodbillyodcork, Cork Ireland148 Posts
Lauren123: i have been using cs for a while now say about 2years, when i first started out i found i met guys through the email facility, it seems to have stopped for me as i rarely get any mail anymore. i've never posted in the forums. so i was just wondering do the regular users of the forums think its a good way of meeting more people by posting up here? or does it make any difference?


thats such a good question. you could be right there
Jun 29, 2010 6:28 PM CST Wasted dating opportunity by not using the forums?
Alpha01
Alpha01Alpha01Wexford, Ireland24 Threads 2 Polls 2,497 Posts
Lauren123: i have been using cs for a while now say about 2years, when i first started out i found i met guys through the email facility, it seems to have stopped for me as i rarely get any mail anymore. i've never posted in the forums. so i was just wondering do the regular users of the forums think its a good way of meeting more people by posting up here? or does it make any difference?


Def. Only dated one girl from CS but we were speaking a lot through the forums first. I've even got to the stage now where I wouldn't consider mailing etc now(not that I want to) cause it's too hard to get a read on the person properly without seeing their sense of humour and the way they interact here.
Maybe the forums are making the whole site a wasted oppertunity for us???
Jun 29, 2010 6:29 PM CST Wasted dating opportunity by not using the forums?
Lauren123
Lauren123Lauren123Dublin City, Dublin Ireland2 Threads 18 Posts
Neenaw: do you mail people to make the first move?
i do... can't sit around waiting for things to happen.. :-)
Jun 29, 2010 6:29 PM CST Wasted dating opportunity by not using the forums?
royester24
royester24royester24carrickmacross, Monaghan Ireland22 Threads 1 Polls 740 Posts
Lauren123: i have been using cs for a while now say about 2years, when i first started out i found i met guys through the email facility, it seems to have stopped for me as i rarely get any mail anymore. i've never posted in the forums. so i was just wondering do the regular users of the forums think its a good way of meeting more people by posting up here? or does it make any difference?


i think you would enjoy the forums its a great way of meeting
people. and going out on dates with some one you like why not
wellllcomehug wave
Jun 29, 2010 6:30 PM CST Wasted dating opportunity by not using the forums?
Silentlust
SilentlustSilentlustGorey, Wexford Ireland18 Threads 1 Polls 2,774 Posts
Alpha01: Maybe the forums are making the whole site a wasted oppertunity for us???


good point. maybe we shouldn't be prickin around on the forums..we should be perving more....

I like your way of thinking.
Jun 29, 2010 6:30 PM CST Wasted dating opportunity by not using the forums?
Neenaw
NeenawNeenawcork, Cork Ireland51 Threads 3 Polls 3,888 Posts
Lauren123: i do... can't sit around waiting for things to happen.. :-)


nice one....

era the forums are a great way of getting to know others, so now you have made the leap, jump on it and welcome shuggawave
Jun 29, 2010 6:31 PM CST Wasted dating opportunity by not using the forums?
Neenaw
NeenawNeenawcork, Cork Ireland51 Threads 3 Polls 3,888 Posts
Silentlust: good point. maybe we shouldn't be prickin around on the forums..we should be perving more....

I like your way of thinking.



stop it
Jun 29, 2010 6:32 PM CST Wasted dating opportunity by not using the forums?
wanyo1
wanyo1wanyo1gorey, Wexford Ireland1 Threads 647 Posts
Lauren123: i have been using cs for a while now say about 2years, when i first started out i found i met guys through the email facility, it seems to have stopped for me as i rarely get any mail anymore. i've never posted in the forums. so i was just wondering do the regular users of the forums think its a good way of meeting more people by posting up here? or does it make any difference?

hey ya lauranwave i spoke to you when i first came on here now thats back around feb i think, well i 've only met the one off here but the forums are so much fun you should be involved
Jun 29, 2010 6:33 PM CST Wasted dating opportunity by not using the forums?
wanyo1
wanyo1wanyo1gorey, Wexford Ireland1 Threads 647 Posts
Alpha01: Def. Only dated one girl from CS but we were speaking a lot through the forums first. I've even got to the stage now where I wouldn't consider mailing etc now(not that I want to) cause it's too hard to get a read on the person properly without seeing their sense of humour and the way they interact here.
Maybe the forums are making the whole site a wasted oppertunity for us???

who was that then confused would it be a red haired lady grin
Jun 29, 2010 6:33 PM CST Wasted dating opportunity by not using the forums?
Lauren123: i have been using cs for a while now say about 2years, when i first started out i found i met guys through the email facility, it seems to have stopped for me as i rarely get any mail anymore. i've never posted in the forums. so i was just wondering do the regular users of the forums think its a good way of meeting more people by posting up here? or does it make any difference?


heya only one way to find out jump in and see wave grin
Jun 29, 2010 6:36 PM CST Wasted dating opportunity by not using the forums?
DUBLINGUY1973
DUBLINGUY1973DUBLINGUY1973Dublin, Ireland43 Threads 4 Polls 4,692 Posts
Lauren123: i have been using cs for a while now say about 2years, when i first started out i found i met guys through the email facility, it seems to have stopped for me as i rarely get any mail anymore. i've never posted in the forums. so i was just wondering do the regular users of the forums think its a good way of meeting more people by posting up here? or does it make any difference?


Yes, it makes a world of difference i think. Well it did for me anyway grin
Jun 29, 2010 6:37 PM CST Wasted dating opportunity by not using the forums?
Lauren123
Lauren123Lauren123Dublin City, Dublin Ireland2 Threads 18 Posts
Cheers for the advice! :-) i'll give it a go!
Jun 29, 2010 6:37 PM CST Wasted dating opportunity by not using the forums?
Lauren123
Lauren123Lauren123Dublin City, Dublin Ireland2 Threads 18 Posts
Cheers for the advice! :-) i'll give it a go!
Jun 29, 2010 6:38 PM CST Wasted dating opportunity by not using the forums?
Silentlust
SilentlustSilentlustGorey, Wexford Ireland18 Threads 1 Polls 2,774 Posts
Neenaw: stop it


nope.
Jun 29, 2010 7:04 PM CST Wasted dating opportunity by not using the forums?
blipper2000
blipper2000blipper2000dublin, Dublin Ireland69 Threads 9 Polls 6,900 Posts
In response to: i have been using cs for a while now say about 2years, when i first started out i found i met guys through the email facility, it seems to have stopped for me as i rarely get any mail anymore. i've never posted in the forums. so i was just wondering do the regular users of the forums think its a good way of meeting more people by posting up here? or does it make any difference?

the problem is if you date someone from the forums and youre a regular poster theres 2 hairy things that could hapeen
no.1 you meet someone and date for a while and it goes sour and then theres the possibility you end up having an arguement with that person on here which would be horrendous for me personally
no.2 you date for a while and fall out and are then too embarassed to post again
i like posting on here so ive decide not to date anyone from cs,
although thats not written in stone but its defo not a good idea,
ive seen people have crazy embarassing aggro an here after theve fallen out and peeps have disapeared too after dating cause of emabarassment which is a pity at times
Jun 29, 2010 7:06 PM CST Wasted dating opportunity by not using the forums?
Neenaw
NeenawNeenawcork, Cork Ireland51 Threads 3 Polls 3,888 Posts
blipper2000: the problem is if you date someone from the forums and youre a regular poster theres 2 hairy things that could hapeen
no.1 you meet someone and date for a while and it goes sour and then theres the possibility you end up having an arguement with that person on here which would be horrendous for me personally
no.2 you date for a while and fall out and are then too embarassed to post again
i like posting on here so ive decide not to date anyone from cs,
although thats not written in stone but its defo not a good idea,
ive seen people have crazy embarassing aggro an here after theve fallen out and peeps have disapeared too after dating cause of emabarassment which is a pity at times


there will be a trail of broke hearts blipp......

tis a sad day........
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