wedding next month (61)

Jul 14, 2010 2:59 PM CST wedding next month
flick1980
flick1980flick1980Offaly, Ireland27 Threads 1 Polls 1,684 Posts
just wondering if anyone has any tips on how i can get in contact and meet someone quickly. i have a wedding next month and i really dont want to go on my own. my friends already have things on. if i start to talk to someone and i mention meeting up im sure they would think im a bit of a mental case trying to meet up quickly. suppose i just want to meet up to see if we got on and if we did i could ask him to the wedding. i have 4 weeks. am i at a lost cause? doh
Jul 14, 2010 3:05 PM CST wedding next month
ladylumps
ladylumpsladylumpsDublin, Ireland105 Threads 4 Polls 9,454 Posts
flick1980: just wondering if anyone has any tips on how i can get in contact and meet someone quickly. i have a wedding next month and i really dont want to go on my own. my friends already have things on. if i start to talk to someone and i mention meeting up im sure they would think im a bit of a mental case trying to meet up quickly. suppose i just want to meet up to see if we got on and if we did i could ask him to the wedding. i have 4 weeks. am i at a lost cause?


To be honest it would be very soon to invite an almost stranger to a wedding. Would it be difficult to go on your own ??
Jul 14, 2010 3:06 PM CST wedding next month
areyoureadytogo
areyoureadytogoareyoureadytogotipperary/offaly, Tipperary Ireland35 Threads 1 Polls 2,024 Posts
no your not a lost cause would you not ask a close male friend better than asking someone you would hardly know in a short period of time like you would enjoy your night betterdunno
Jul 14, 2010 3:11 PM CST wedding next month
wexlady41
wexlady41wexlady41Wexford, Ireland47 Threads 5 Polls 7,935 Posts
areyoureadytogo: no your not a lost cause would you not ask a close male friend better than asking someone you would hardly know in a short period of time like you would enjoy your night better

I agree. Friend/work colleague/friends brother would be better than a stranger.

I don't see what's wrong with going to a wedding alone though. any wedding I've been to in the last 8 years I've gone alone and always had a brilliant time.



teddybear
Jul 14, 2010 3:14 PM CST wedding next month
areyoureadytogo
areyoureadytogoareyoureadytogotipperary/offaly, Tipperary Ireland35 Threads 1 Polls 2,024 Posts
i have 3 wedding coming up and haha im not going to any hate themlaugh
wexlady41: I agree. Friend/work colleague/friends brother would be better than a stranger.

I don't see what's wrong with going to a wedding alone though. any wedding I've been to in the last 8 years I've gone alone and always had a brilliant time.
Jul 14, 2010 3:21 PM CST wedding next month
blipper2000
blipper2000blipper2000dublin, Dublin Ireland69 Threads 9 Polls 6,900 Posts
In response to: just wondering if anyone has any tips on how i can get in contact and meet someone quickly. i have a wedding next month and i really dont want to go on my own. my friends already have things on. if i start to talk to someone and i mention meeting up im sure they would think im a bit of a mental case trying to meet up quickly. suppose i just want to meet up to see if we got on and if we did i could ask him to the wedding. i have 4 weeks. am i at a lost cause?

its a tough onedunno
Jul 14, 2010 3:26 PM CST wedding next month
tornado778
tornado778tornado778offaly, Offaly Ireland9 Threads 1,413 Posts
flick1980: just wondering if anyone has any tips on how i can get in contact and meet someone quickly. i have a wedding next month and i really dont want to go on my own. my friends already have things on. if i start to talk to someone and i mention meeting up im sure they would think im a bit of a mental case trying to meet up quickly. suppose i just want to meet up to see if we got on and if we did i could ask him to the wedding. i have 4 weeks. am i at a lost cause?

nah,,,your not mental scold although it isnt a very long time to get to know a guy,,,then expect him to go to a wedding full of strangers to him ,,but a party where you probably know everyoneconversing
Jul 14, 2010 3:36 PM CST wedding next month
crotalus667
crotalus667crotalus667Dublin, Ireland14 Threads 2 Polls 564 Posts
TBH you would be lucky to pull it off , I'd say bring a freind
Jul 14, 2010 3:45 PM CST wedding next month
skinnyminnypink
skinnyminnypinkskinnyminnypinkKilkenny, Ireland218 Threads 6,300 Posts
Friend/work colleague/friends brother would be better than a stranger

Think this would be the best option, Flickie ... 4 weeks not a long time to get to know someone well enough to bring to a wedding??? JMO


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Jul 14, 2010 3:56 PM CST wedding next month
wittyone
wittyonewittyoneDerry, Ireland9 Threads 8,815 Posts
Depends if the wedding is for u and him, mite be too soon then.rolling on the floor laughing
Jul 14, 2010 3:59 PM CST wedding next month
stilfuckinsingle
stilfuckinsinglestilfuckinsingledublin, Dublin Ireland1 Threads 5 Posts
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Jul 14, 2010 3:59 PM CST wedding next month
delamer
delamerdelamerWexford, Ireland114 Threads 10 Polls 4,135 Posts
skinnyminnypink: Friend/work colleague/friends brother would be better than a stranger

Think this would be the best option, Flickie ... 4 weeks not a long time to get to know someone well enough to bring to a wedding??? JMO


Could be short notice on the poor guy if he hasn't got the cash either... hole
Jul 14, 2010 4:09 PM CST wedding next month
DUBLINGUY1973
DUBLINGUY1973DUBLINGUY1973Dublin, Ireland43 Threads 4 Polls 4,692 Posts
In response to: just wondering if anyone has any tips on how i can get in contact and meet someone quickly. i have a wedding next month and i really dont want to go on my own. my friends already have things on. if i start to talk to someone and i mention meeting up im sure they would think im a bit of a mental case trying to meet up quickly. suppose i just want to meet up to see if we got on and if we did i could ask him to the wedding. i have 4 weeks. am i at a lost cause?


Do you know many people going to the wedding? If you do then I would go alone. I know from experience weddings can seem daunting when you go alone but you might have good craic if there are a few people there you know. Besides, I doubt you will be the only single person there. You never know your luck. You might even meet someone new. My sister actually met her husband at a wedding funnily enough. thumbs up
Jul 14, 2010 4:26 PM CST wedding next month
well if i was stil single i would go as a friend and if other guests thought i was more than that i wouldnd discourage them laugh laugh
so if any single guys out there wants a hot date conversing conversing conversing
Jul 14, 2010 4:28 PM CST wedding next month
thunor
thunorthunorkilkenny, Dublin Ireland5 Threads 197 Posts
tallaght_guy: well if i was stil single i would go as a friend and if other guests thought i was more than that i wouldnd discourage them
so if any single guys out there wants a hot date


my cards are on the table
Jul 14, 2010 4:30 PM CST wedding next month
chuckles25
chuckles25chuckles25Dublin, Ireland73 Threads 3 Polls 5,479 Posts
hey flick....

if i were you,, id go on my own.. as you never know you mite even meet other people there that have gone on there own.. and you always have a better nite getting to know other people..

wave teddybear teddybear
Jul 14, 2010 4:30 PM CST wedding next month
skinnyminnypink
skinnyminnypinkskinnyminnypinkKilkenny, Ireland218 Threads 6,300 Posts
Modern_Fairy: i reconsied the second picture from another fake profile or maybe it was the same..


Hey Missy .. how's you? wave
Jul 14, 2010 4:32 PM CST wedding next month
tornado778
tornado778tornado778offaly, Offaly Ireland9 Threads 1,413 Posts
tallaght_guy: well if i was stil single i would go as a friend and if other guests thought i was more than that i wouldnd discourage them
so if any single guys out there wants a hot date



thumbs up ,,,daydream
Jul 14, 2010 4:32 PM CST wedding next month
thunor
thunorthunorkilkenny, Dublin Ireland5 Threads 197 Posts
delamer: Don't make Thunor angry - you won't like him when he's angry!

Seriously though! Why do they bother?


yes totaly ill put in contacts and spray meself green

grrrrrrrrrrrraaaaaaaaaaa "cough wheeze"
Jul 14, 2010 4:35 PM CST wedding next month
nvosiris
nvosirisnvosirismeath, Meath Ireland53 Threads 6 Polls 5,712 Posts
tornado778: ,,,


Do i suspect that you might just say "yes " to an invite to that there wedding T wink




yay yay
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