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john2Bray, Wicklow Ireland94 Threads 7 Polls 2,353 Postsi was chatting and texting a girl from another site and we getting great we even made plans to meet up. Now she wont answer my calls or texts. help and advice pls
john2: i was chatting and texting a girl from another site and we getting great we even made plans to meet up. Now she wont answer my calls or texts. help and advice pls
Not much ya can do about it
except leave it and see if she contacts ya againjohn2: i was chatting and texting a girl from another site and we getting great we even made plans to meet up. Now she wont answer my calls or texts. help and advice pls
Suck it up and move on. I was dating someone for 3 months and they just vanished. Some people have baggage that you'll just never understand
john2: i was chatting and texting a girl from another site and we getting great we even made plans to meet up. Now she wont answer my calls or texts. help and advice pls
she probably lost her bottle at the last minute
that happens a lot
Dont really know how I would handle it
if she stopped texting me I would stop
texting her too I wouldnt want her to
see me sending 4 or 5 texts and getting
no response back from her .
sounds like she has no manners to me
she could at least answer the phone
so you know where you stand
But having said that I dont know the ins and outs
of your interactions together .
hard to give advice based on that
i dont think she will contact me again she blocked me from mailing her on the other site.
john2: i was chatting and texting a girl from another site and we getting great we even made plans to meet up. Now she wont answer my calls or texts. help and advice pls
When was the last time you heard from her?Was she normal in the last text/call?
and how many times have you tried to contact her?
john2: i dont think she will contact me again she blocked me from mailing her on the other site.
Ah, didn't see this one before I posted.Could be anything mate. Could be that she's met someone else, or thought that she changed her mind but didn't want to tell you.
It's a shame when people do that but nothing you can do I'm afraid.
Alpha01: When was the last time you heard from her?
Was she normal in the last text/call?
and how many times have you tried to contact her?
yesterday afternoon,yes she was normal and 5 times to contact her no joyWas she normal in the last text/call?
and how many times have you tried to contact her?
john2: yesterday afternoon,yes she was normal and 5 times to contact her no joy
Def leave it at that then.If she changes her mind, she knows where to reach you. If someone stopped contacting me, I'd send then a message on every avenue (mail, txt, voicemail) then leave it at that.
Nothing more you can do and you don't want her to almost change her mind and then see a tonne of texts and get scared off again.
all want to know if i done or said anything wrong
Alpha01: Def leave it at that then.
If she changes her mind, she knows where to reach you. If someone stopped contacting me, I'd send then a message on every avenue (mail, txt, voicemail) then leave it at that.
Nothing more you can do and you don't want her to almost change her mind and then see a tonne of texts and get scared off again.
If she changes her mind, she knows where to reach you. If someone stopped contacting me, I'd send then a message on every avenue (mail, txt, voicemail) then leave it at that.
Nothing more you can do and you don't want her to almost change her mind and then see a tonne of texts and get scared off again.
john2: all want to know if i done or said anything wrong
I know. It's always better off to say something than just ignore everything but some people can't deal with it. It's not a nice thing to do shes obviously changed her mind but thats strange behaviour after 3 months in all fairness. id have thought the friendship was well established at that stage. ar u sure u didnt say r do anything to upset her. if u havent then id advise u to move on and try forget about it
john2: i dont think she will contact me again she blocked me from mailing her on the other site.
Something similar happened to me here. Not much you can do, just forget about her.
starattax: shes obviously changed her mind but thats strange behaviour after 3 months in all fairness. id have thought the friendship was well established at that stage. ar u sure u didnt say r do anything to upset her. if u havent then id advise u to move on and try forget about it
starattax: shes obviously changed her mind but thats strange behaviour after 3 months in all fairness. id have thought the friendship was well established at that stage. ar u sure u didnt say r do anything to upset her. if u havent then id advise u to move on and try forget about it
I think some people just prefer to hide behind blocking someone than deal with telling them they have changed their minds. Personally, I can find it harder to do the rejecting than be rejected myself but thats the cowards way out.
I dont think it was anything you did wrong, G. People are usually quite quick to point out our faults. There was something she couldnt handle but thats not your fault. Have a bit of a rant about unpredictable women to your mates over a pint or two and get back on the search when you're ready.
I dont think it was anything you did wrong, G. People are usually quite quick to point out our faults. There was something she couldnt handle but thats not your fault. Have a bit of a rant about unpredictable women to your mates over a pint or two and get back on the search when you're ready.
I f someone doesnt answer my call once I suspect
that they are busy and dont call for a while maybe
2 3 days if they dont answer then Its up to them
to make contact with me .
sure I may lose out on something great by not
calling her but so will she
that they are busy and dont call for a while maybe
2 3 days if they dont answer then Its up to them
to make contact with me .
sure I may lose out on something great by not
calling her but so will she
LadyBlackAdder: I think some people just prefer to hide behind blocking someone than deal with telling them they have changed their minds. Personally, I can find it harder to do the rejecting than be rejected myself but thats the cowards way out.
I dont think it was anything you did wrong, G. People are usually quite quick to point out our faults. There was something she couldnt handle but thats not your fault. Have a bit of a rant about unpredictable women to your mates over a pint or two and get back on the search when you're ready.
I dont think it was anything you did wrong, G. People are usually quite quick to point out our faults. There was something she couldnt handle but thats not your fault. Have a bit of a rant about unpredictable women to your mates over a pint or two and get back on the search when you're ready.
john2: i was chatting and texting a girl from another site and we getting great we even made plans to meet up. Now she wont answer my calls or texts. help and advice pls
A line from a song that Ronan Keating did pops to mind reading this:
"You say it best... when you say nothing at all"
LadyBlackAdder: I think some people just prefer to hide behind blocking someone than deal with telling them they have changed their minds. Personally, I can find it harder to do the rejecting than be rejected myself but thats the cowards way out.
I dont think it was anything you did wrong, G. People are usually quite quick to point out our faults. There was something she couldnt handle but thats not your fault. Have a bit of a rant about unpredictable women to your mates over a pint or two and get back on the search when you're ready.
her loss I dont think it was anything you did wrong, G. People are usually quite quick to point out our faults. There was something she couldnt handle but thats not your fault. Have a bit of a rant about unpredictable women to your mates over a pint or two and get back on the search when you're ready.
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