What are your 'non negotiables' (133)

Jul 21, 2010 10:48 AM CST What are your 'non negotiables'
skyblue43
skyblue43skyblue43Dublin, Meath Ireland30 Threads 1 Polls 5,980 Posts
If you got chatting to someone on here and got on like the proverbial house on fire is there any one thing that would prevent you meeting them? I'll take married as a given. Age, if they drink or don't, kids or not, build, smoke ??? But something that there would be no compromise on?
Jul 21, 2010 10:51 AM CST What are your 'non negotiables'
bjk68
bjk68bjk68Carlow, Ireland5 Threads 890 Posts
skyblue43: If you got chatting to someone on here and got on like the proverbial house on fire is there any one thing that would prevent you meeting them? I'll take married as a given. Age, if they drink or don't, kids or not, build, smoke ??? But something that there would be no compromise on?


They must be femalerolling on the floor laughing
Jul 21, 2010 10:52 AM CST What are your 'non negotiables'
LusciousLibra
LusciousLibraLusciousLibraTramore, Waterford Ireland28 Threads 2 Polls 1,870 Posts
skyblue43: If you got chatting to someone on here and got on like the proverbial house on fire is there any one thing that would prevent you meeting them? I'll take married as a given. Age, if they drink or don't, kids or not, build, smoke ??? But something that there would be no compromise on?


Gotta have a pulse. It hints that there may be a heart inside.
Jul 21, 2010 10:52 AM CST What are your 'non negotiables'
Alpha01
Alpha01Alpha01Wexford, Ireland24 Threads 2 Polls 2,497 Posts
skyblue43: If you got chatting to someone on here and got on like the proverbial house on fire is there any one thing that would prevent you meeting them? I'll take married as a given. Age, if they drink or don't, kids or not, build, smoke ??? But something that there would be no compromise on?


A no-pic profile is a def no-no to me.
I believe in inner beauty etc but also believe that there was to be attraction.
After that, nothing that would stand out straight away. It's hard to get a feel of the person's sense of humour and hear etc over a few lines on the profile
Jul 21, 2010 10:53 AM CST What are your 'non negotiables'
Alpha01
Alpha01Alpha01Wexford, Ireland24 Threads 2 Polls 2,497 Posts
LusciousLibra: Gotta have a pulse. It hints that there may be a heart inside.


So that boy from Twillight doesn't have a shot then. grin
Jul 21, 2010 10:53 AM CST What are your 'non negotiables'
Modern_Fairy
Modern_FairyModern_FairyMeath, Ireland23 Threads 4,891 Posts
skyblue43: If you got chatting to someone on here and got on like the proverbial house on fire is there any one thing that would prevent you meeting them? I'll take married as a given. Age, if they drink or don't, kids or not, build, smoke ??? But something that there would be no compromise on?


if they were short tempered, i wouldn be able for constant mood swings, short temper fuse, agitated behavior.. sending mails being all nice... then next minute calling you this and that
Jul 21, 2010 10:54 AM CST What are your 'non negotiables'
skyblue43
skyblue43skyblue43Dublin, Meath Ireland30 Threads 1 Polls 5,980 Posts
bjk68: They must be female


Well that hasn't offended too many... Avoid controversy! laugh laugh
Jul 21, 2010 10:54 AM CST What are your 'non negotiables'
LusciousLibra
LusciousLibraLusciousLibraTramore, Waterford Ireland28 Threads 2 Polls 1,870 Posts
Alpha01: So that boy from Twillight doesn't have a shot then.


Nah, he's a bit on the young side anyhow
Jul 21, 2010 10:55 AM CST What are your 'non negotiables'
skyblue43
skyblue43skyblue43Dublin, Meath Ireland30 Threads 1 Polls 5,980 Posts
LusciousLibra: Gotta have a pulse. It hints that there may be a heart inside.


Thats a wide net to trawl with....applause applause
Jul 21, 2010 10:56 AM CST What are your 'non negotiables'
MimiKate
MimiKateMimiKateDublin, Ireland15 Threads 3,666 Posts
Drug or drink addtiction scold
Been down that road, and like to think I can spot the warning signs now.
Jul 21, 2010 10:56 AM CST What are your 'non negotiables'
Alexei23
Alexei23Alexei23Ireland, Limerick Ireland32 Threads 6 Polls 1,455 Posts
skyblue43: If you got chatting to someone on here and got on like the proverbial house on fire is there any one thing that would prevent you meeting them? I'll take married as a given. Age, if they drink or don't, kids or not, build, smoke ??? But something that there would be no compromise on?



If she's not a dog lover, it might pose problems, i'm pretty easy going though....
just no kids, can't stand sticky gooey fingers on my fur
Jul 21, 2010 10:59 AM CST What are your 'non negotiables'
scriobhneoir
scriobhneoirscriobhneoirCork, Ireland85 Threads 2 Polls 3,276 Posts
They must like kids, they must not have 'bad' politics. They must not be bible bashing christians, they must not ever pass a picket. Other than that I'd be fairly open.
Jul 21, 2010 10:59 AM CST What are your 'non negotiables'
LusciousLibra
LusciousLibraLusciousLibraTramore, Waterford Ireland28 Threads 2 Polls 1,870 Posts
skyblue43: Thats a wide net to trawl with....


A pulse just HINTS that there is a heart... it's not a given.

And I don't mean the heart that is a pump... I mean heart as in the inner soul that regulates emotions, emotionsl reactions, and empathy.purple heart
Jul 21, 2010 11:00 AM CST What are your 'non negotiables'
skyblue43
skyblue43skyblue43Dublin, Meath Ireland30 Threads 1 Polls 5,980 Posts
scriobhneoir: They must like kids, they must not have 'bad' politics. They must not be bible bashing christians, they must not ever pass a picket. Other than that I'd be fairly open.


rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing Fair play to ya. Call a spade a spade.
Jul 21, 2010 11:04 AM CST What are your 'non negotiables'
skyblue43
skyblue43skyblue43Dublin, Meath Ireland30 Threads 1 Polls 5,980 Posts
LusciousLibra: A pulse just HINTS that there is a heart... it's not a given.

And I don't mean the heart that is a pump... I mean heart as in the inner soul that regulates emotions, emotionsl reactions, and empathy.


The Queen of Alliteration! thumbs up
Jul 21, 2010 11:06 AM CST What are your 'non negotiables'
nvosiris
nvosirisnvosirismeath, Meath Ireland53 Threads 6 Polls 5,712 Posts
Drugs would be a no go for me, i also do not like smoking thumbs down
And they would have to accept the fact that i spend a lot of time with my sister who has special needs............hug
Jul 21, 2010 11:09 AM CST What are your 'non negotiables'
PASSION8MAN
PASSION8MANPASSION8MANLIMERICK, Limerick Ireland90 Threads 3 Polls 2,056 Posts
nvosiris: Drugs would be a no go for me, i also do not like smoking
And they would have to accept the fact that i spend a lot of time with my sister who has special needs............


I dont like to be around smokers either I hate going anywhere
with my sister in her car cos she does be puffing away
while driving .

blues
Jul 21, 2010 11:09 AM CST What are your 'non negotiables'
BentLid
BentLidBentLidDublin, Ireland6 Threads 1 Polls 153 Posts
Omegle is another site similar to chatroulette
Jul 21, 2010 11:10 AM CST What are your 'non negotiables'
Alexei23
Alexei23Alexei23Ireland, Limerick Ireland32 Threads 6 Polls 1,455 Posts
BentLid: Omegle is another site similar to chatroulette


Wrong thread dude
Jul 21, 2010 11:10 AM CST What are your 'non negotiables'
skyblue43
skyblue43skyblue43Dublin, Meath Ireland30 Threads 1 Polls 5,980 Posts
nvosiris: Drugs would be a no go for me, i also do not like smoking
And they would have to accept the fact that i spend a lot of time with my sister who has special needs............


Rather than personality traits that are only found out with time like temper, the lack of an empathic inner soul to regulate emotional stability and warmth etc, I mean one line on their profile that you would zoom in on and only be prepared to meet if the one answer you wanted was there!
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