What do you prefer?!?! (32)
BandithWest Melbourne, Florida USA14 Threads 148 PostsA recent post has given me an idea for an unofficial poll. What kind of person would you rather take on a date: one who is 'average looking' with solid self esteem or one who is catorigized 'beautiful' with little self esteem? Basically, what is more attractive, looks or self-confidence?
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self-confidence
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well self-cofidence does it for me and thats all i am gonna say about that
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Self confidence definately
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Self -confidence for sure!!!!!
Average can be very attractive with self-confidence and gorgeous can become unattractive very quiclky without it!!!!
Average can be very attractive with self-confidence and gorgeous can become unattractive very quiclky without it!!!!
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what this dude said
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I'm afraid to answer. Paws
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Okay, an if/or statement is easy to answer...
Everyone will say self-confidence to save face! Now lets make it interesting by asking why it is so importent
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Oh, not even close. Self confidence by the largest of margins. For years it has been known by most men that the majority of drop dead gorgeous women are for the most part very selfish. I said the majority, NOT all of them. I just got lucky and got both!
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I'll even start (if i can type fast enough, lol). An attractive woman with low self esteem is easily taken advantage of, therefore two problems: 1. no challenge and 2. a miriad of problems that will occur. With a woman who is self-confident on the other hand: 1. She will stand up for herself 2.She won't just accept a compliment in place of an apology when i screw up; and 3. She knows she is the most important thing to her, but i am running a close second
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A man that has self-confidence knows what he wants; is secure in himself and doesn't need my constant approval; is not afraid to speak his mind, therefore not afraid to have a conversation; is not or less jealous; is not afraid to let himself go and have fun and is not afraid to show me how important I am to him!
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Perfectly stated...I cant add anything to that really..Its nice to see a man with this opinion of women Bandith...
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I'm glad you appreciated it Missy but in all honesty it wasn't soley intended to give self confidance to the women. It is also partially out of anger in the fact that alot of women are just as shallow as most men are. I am, what i consider to be, an attractive man but yet continue to get passed up by women for my friends when we are out or just pictures here; it is infuriating!!! Sorry for the wolf in sheep's clothing thread
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I like self-confidence...in both men and women...
By the way...if i show you mine will you show me yours???
By the way...if i show you mine will you show me yours???
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First of all I dont think its a wolfs in sheeps clothing thread.. I agree women can be shallow like men are. I think youre very attractive but Ive also read yur profile , like your sense of humor and find your post interesting and intelligent..SO THERE !!
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Was that offer for me Wikked???
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ummmm.... too much self-confidence could be considered arrogance.... that said I'll take personality over everything else.... ummmm....accept for wikkeds last thread :D
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I meant to say *except
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OK, I'll play devil's advocate and take the 'beautiful' oneWho am I to judge her for low self-esteem. I'm sure everyone has suffered from self-esteem issues at one point or another.
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I like self-confidence, of course, but there's oftentimes a fine line between that and conceit, and I cannot stand a guy who thinks that all women are out to trap him and rush him down the aisle.
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