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Jul 24, 2010 10:36 PM CST Help Chosing a plastic surgeon, any location is welcome....
ForestofArden
ForestofArdenForestofArdenShakopee, Minnesota USA7 Threads 32 Posts
I know what will make me happy, but there is a lot of risk involved. I have everything planed out, but can’t seem to find a plastic surgeon. I have searched Google, Yahoo, and all search engines including the smart plastic surgery website, which list all accredited plastic surgeons. The problem is narrowing it down.
Since I know it will be asked, I will come and say I want a lot done. I’m young, nineteen, and the thought of choosing a surgeon is weighing me down. Nothing is damaged due to injury or birth defect. I really just want to change and relieve my horrid feelings.
I can’t really live the way I’m living much longer. I’m tired of misery and just want everything to be done with. Can anyone suggest a surgeon or help me out with my quest?

I wil travel!
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Jul 24, 2010 10:40 PM CST Help Chosing a plastic surgeon, any location is welcome....
ForestofArden
ForestofArdenForestofArdenShakopee, Minnesota USA7 Threads 32 Posts
ha ha...
Nope
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Jul 24, 2010 10:42 PM CST Help Chosing a plastic surgeon, any location is welcome....
AsleepInNJ
AsleepInNJAsleepInNJCherry Hill, New Jersey USA53 Threads 3 Polls 2,862 Posts
sorry it was an attempt at levity. look you're 19 why worry about changing how your parts look? there is someone for everyone. hug
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Jul 24, 2010 10:43 PM CST Help Chosing a plastic surgeon, any location is welcome....
jvaski
jvaskijvaskiunknown, California USA115 Threads 11 Polls 9,576 Posts
Best surgeons for anything are at UCSF San Francisco.....
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Jul 24, 2010 10:44 PM CST Help Chosing a plastic surgeon, any location is welcome....
davpk10
davpk10davpk10somewhere, New York USA23 Threads 1 Polls 2,934 Posts
your young and never mind...wait ten years and then see how you feel
...doh
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Jul 24, 2010 10:49 PM CST Help Chosing a plastic surgeon, any location is welcome....
ForestofArden
ForestofArdenForestofArdenShakopee, Minnesota USA7 Threads 32 Posts
I dont want to disfigure myself. I want everything done so I can and will enjoy life.
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Jul 24, 2010 10:50 PM CST Help Chosing a plastic surgeon, any location is welcome....
davpk10
davpk10davpk10somewhere, New York USA23 Threads 1 Polls 2,934 Posts
ForestofArden: I dont want to disfigure myself. I want everything done so I can and will enjoy life.
are you drinking or doing drugs?...Talk to your Doctor...professor
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Jul 24, 2010 10:50 PM CST Help Chosing a plastic surgeon, any location is welcome....
jvaski
jvaskijvaskiunknown, California USA115 Threads 11 Polls 9,576 Posts
ForestofArden: I dont want to disfigure myself. I want everything done so I can and will enjoy life.


I suggest you investigate UCSF , and if you can't find what you're looking for - email me and I have contacts for the best
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Jul 24, 2010 10:54 PM CST Help Chosing a plastic surgeon, any location is welcome....
AsleepInNJ
AsleepInNJAsleepInNJCherry Hill, New Jersey USA53 Threads 3 Polls 2,862 Posts
ForestofArden: I dont want to disfigure myself. I want everything done so I can and will enjoy life.


define "everyting done"? sounds like that would be disfiguring to me. dunno cheers
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Jul 24, 2010 11:37 PM CST Help Chosing a plastic surgeon, any location is welcome....
ForestofArden
ForestofArdenForestofArdenShakopee, Minnesota USA7 Threads 32 Posts
A little tweaking here and there. I don’t intend to have extensive surgery on every inch. Some areas will be minor.
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Jul 24, 2010 11:38 PM CST Help Chosing a plastic surgeon, any location is welcome....
Restless_Rebel
Restless_RebelRestless_RebelSomewhere in Minnesota, Minnesota USA1 Threads 98 Posts
Trust me, you guys don't know how it is in Minnesota! If you're not blond, blue-eyed, 90lbs, sun-tanned year round then you are ForestofArden looking to become a part of the "collective." If you do not adhere to the strict "look" code, you cannot join in any "reindeer" games. I am SO not joking.

I have been here 8 years and I have NEVER seen any place like it and I've lived in three different states. These people are like either "The Stepford Wives" or "Invasion of the Body Snatchers."

The "cold" part about Minnesota has nothing to do with the weather, it's the people.

ForestofArden is not joking when she's asking for help locating a plastic surgeon. She wants to fit in and this is the only way she will. Sad, but true and also crazy
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Jul 25, 2010 1:11 AM CST Help Chosing a plastic surgeon, any location is welcome....
solitare
solitaresolitareBariloche, Rio Negro Argentina40 Threads 4,041 Posts
Emotional well being is not dependent on physical appearances...though physical appearance can affect the mind...any screening process from a surgeon's office or other medical staff can determine which will be more important to any potential patient....mind or 'matter'...
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Jul 25, 2010 2:39 AM CST Help Chosing a plastic surgeon, any location is welcome....
Shell225
Shell225Shell225Brisbane, Queensland Australia26 Threads 8,572 Posts
I would have thought that your General Doctor would be able to refer you to reputable surgeons in your area dunno
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Jul 25, 2010 7:09 AM CST Help Chosing a plastic surgeon, any location is welcome....
70Libra
70Libra70LibraCounty, Waterford Ireland43 Threads 6,782 Posts
ForestofArden: I know what will make me happy, but there is a lot of risk involved. I have everything planed out, but can’t seem to find a plastic surgeon. I have searched Google, Yahoo, and all search engines including the smart plastic surgery website, which list all accredited plastic surgeons. The problem is narrowing it down.
Since I know it will be asked, I will come and say I want a lot done. I’m young, nineteen, and the thought of choosing a surgeon is weighing me down. Nothing is damaged due to injury or birth defect. I really just want to change and relieve my horrid feelings.
I can’t really live the way I’m living much longer. I’m tired of misery and just want everything to be done with. Can anyone suggest a surgeon or help me out with my quest?

I wil travel!


At opnly 19, your body has not cocmpleted it's formation into the finished product. Any changes you make now will not be there in 5/6 years time as you are still maturing physically. The changes may even become deformaties.

My advice would be to wait until you have become fully formed/grown in another few years. Then if you still want to go ahead with it, are not satisfied with yourself as a finished product, start your homework again.
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Jul 25, 2010 7:53 AM CST Help Chosing a plastic surgeon, any location is welcome....
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
I read this yesterday and I still cant decide if this is a wind-up or the saddest 19 yr old Ive ever seen.

I raised 4 girls, each of them is very different and each very beautiful just the way they are. At 19 thier dreams were about school, and boys and travel and adventure. It was a wonderful time, contemplating the begginning of thier adult life. I cant remember any of them ever talking about plastic surgery.
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Jul 25, 2010 7:58 AM CST Help Chosing a plastic surgeon, any location is welcome....
jahzah
jahzahjahzahHappyfairygoblinland, Victoria Australia19 Threads 2 Polls 2,574 Posts
Yeah it's pretty disgustingly vain i reakon, with a narrow minded view of her future uh oh

Learn to love yourself in time scold
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Jul 25, 2010 8:01 AM CST Help Chosing a plastic surgeon, any location is welcome....
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
jahzah: Yeah it's pretty disgustingly vain i reakon, with a narrow minded view of her future

Learn to love yourself in time


Good point if you dont learn to love yourself, all the surgery in the world isnt going to make a diff. dunno
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Jul 25, 2010 8:03 AM CST Help Chosing a plastic surgeon, any location is welcome....
70Libra
70Libra70LibraCounty, Waterford Ireland43 Threads 6,782 Posts
venusenvy: Good point if you dont learn to love yourself, all the surgery in the world isnt going to make a diff.

It sounds a bit like Body Dismorphic Disorder. If it is then you've hit the nail on the head there thumbs up
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Jul 25, 2010 8:16 AM CST Help Chosing a plastic surgeon, any location is welcome....
jahzah
jahzahjahzahHappyfairygoblinland, Victoria Australia19 Threads 2 Polls 2,574 Posts
rizlared: features are what makes her unique and special, these are exactly what a genuine man would find attractive.


Very true. Natural beauty for me thanks.
Even butt ugly women are beautiful when you look well.
wow
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Jul 25, 2010 8:39 PM CST Help Chosing a plastic surgeon, any location is welcome....
ForestofArden
ForestofArdenForestofArdenShakopee, Minnesota USA7 Threads 32 Posts
My general doctor did. I do a background check on all the surgeons I’m considering, because I know I’ll need a couple, and the one he recommended did not meet my standards.
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