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Aug 12, 2010 11:22 PM CST so confused..................
firewings316
firewings316firewings316south dakota, South Dakota USA4 Threads 80 Posts
Have you every wanted someone so much so deep inside of you that ,that special someone is all you feel and think about they make you feel so good all over just hearing their voice makes you feel good all over .... but at the same time you know you will never beable to have that special someone , but keep them so close in your heart and soul,you talk to him or her everyday it is your bestfriend the one that knows everything bout you the one that you laugh and smile with everyday...............
So hard and so confused knowing we will probably never beable to be with one another the way we want ...what to do ...anyone have any answers ...........i'm so lost ..blues confused dunno
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Aug 12, 2010 11:28 PM CST so confused..................
plainlyjune
plainlyjuneplainlyjuneLegazpi City, Bicol Philippines12 Threads 2 Polls 8,175 Posts
LDRs does that. hug
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Aug 13, 2010 5:32 AM CST so confused..................
invinciblemuse
invinciblemuseinvinciblemuseDresden, Saxony Germany38 Threads 2 Polls 6,026 Posts
firewings316: Have you every wanted someone so much so deep inside of you that ,that special someone is all you feel and think about they make you feel so good all over just hearing their voice makes you feel good all over .... but at the same time you know you will never beable to have that special someone , but keep them so close in your heart and soul,you talk to him or her everyday it is your bestfriend the one that knows everything bout you the one that you laugh and smile with everyday...............
So hard and so confused knowing we will probably never beable to be with one another the way we want ...what to do ...anyone have any answers ...........i'm so lost ..


Is he married?
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Aug 13, 2010 5:43 AM CST so confused..................
Airotciv
AirotcivAirotcivMerthyr Tydfil, South Glamorgan, Wales UK41 Posts
That's Passion IMO
easy comes,easy goes
Although, if you feel like getting wings - fly!
Fly towards Love
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Aug 13, 2010 5:44 AM CST so confused..................
Grandepensees
GrandepenseesGrandepenseesVerviers, Liege Belgium45 Threads 1 Polls 3,691 Posts
firewings316: Have you every wanted someone so much so deep inside of you that ,that special someone is all you feel and think about they make you feel so good all over just hearing their voice makes you feel good all over .... but at the same time you know you will never beable to have that special someone , but keep them so close in your heart and soul,you talk to him or her everyday it is your bestfriend the one that knows everything bout you the one that you laugh and smile with everyday...............
So hard and so confused knowing we will probably never beable to be with one another the way we want ...what to do ...anyone have any answers ...........i'm so lost ..
Why torture yourselves? Arrange to see him and let him know how you feel if he doesn't know or change the way your situation is... Pee or get off the potty!
(respectfully)

wine
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Aug 13, 2010 5:46 AM CST so confused..................
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
firewings316: Have you every wanted someone so much so deep inside of you that ,that special someone is all you feel and think about they make you feel so good all over just hearing their voice makes you feel good all over .... but at the same time you know you will never beable to have that special someone , but keep them so close in your heart and soul,you talk to him or her everyday it is your bestfriend the one that knows everything bout you the one that you laugh and smile with everyday...............
So hard and so confused knowing we will probably never beable to be with one another the way we want ...what to do ...anyone have any answers ...........i'm so lost ..


hell no....nothing goes "inside of me...scold
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Aug 14, 2010 3:08 AM CST so confused..................
mjames
mjamesmjamesnapa, California USA2 Threads 1 Polls 779 Posts
firewings316: Have you every wanted someone so much so deep inside of you that ,that special someone is all you feel and think about they make you feel so good all over just hearing their voice makes you feel good all over .... but at the same time you know you will never beable to have that special someone , but keep them so close in your heart and soul,you talk to him or her everyday it is your bestfriend the one that knows everything bout you the one that you laugh and smile with everyday...............
So hard and so confused knowing we will probably never beable to be with one another the way we want ...what to do ...anyone have any answers ...........i'm so lost ..


The great state of SD where my dad was born;

I think it's obviously hard but it depends on the situation.

I don't know what you expect people to say. If you are never going to physically be with someone, then there is nothing to say that will make you be with someone.

If you can't have something romanticizing about it, or making it into this magical thing may be fun and make you feel good but it's not healthy. It's like me obsessing with playing in the NBA when I can't. You let it go and move on with whats real.

If it's a close friend, tell them how you feel and if you can't or he wont be with you, then you have to let it go.

You didn't give the whole vibe so it's hard to tell for sure. Hang in there.
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Aug 14, 2010 3:13 AM CST so confused..................
Softshell
SoftshellSoftshellGoodman, Missouri USA253 Posts
firewings316: Have you every wanted someone so much so deep inside of you that ,that special someone is all you feel and think about they make you feel so good all over just hearing their voice makes you feel good all over .... but at the same time you know you will never beable to have that special someone , but keep them so close in your heart and soul,you talk to him or her everyday it is your bestfriend the one that knows everything bout you the one that you laugh and smile with everyday...............
So hard and so confused knowing we will probably never beable to be with one another the way we want ...what to do ...anyone have any answers ...........i'm so lost ..
Yep that is all my man decide we can be, so hey it'sd what some immature men come up with in my opionion so dont' fret sweetie ther right guy will show up some day for you.teddybear wink
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Aug 14, 2010 4:34 AM CST so confused..................
sassy49senior
sassy49seniorsassy49seniorItty Bitty, Nebraska USA274 Threads 4,632 Posts
firewings316: Have you every wanted someone so much so deep inside of you that ,that special someone is all you feel and think about they make you feel so good all over just hearing their voice makes you feel good all over .... but at the same time you know you will never beable to have that special someone , but keep them so close in your heart and soul,you talk to him or her everyday it is your bestfriend the one that knows everything bout you the one that you laugh and smile with everyday...............
So hard and so confused knowing we will probably never beable to be with one another the way we want ...what to do ...anyone have any answers ...........i'm so lost ..




Hi hunwave I am not quite sure what you mean here L. Did you meet him on line? Have you been chatting for awhile? Is he married? Or is he someone that is so very far away?

You know L. if it is the distance that is keeping you apart and he feels the same way about you then you figure out someway to be together. I know your situation right now with your daughter but hopefully for the first meet he could come to you.

You know if you need to chat mail me okay? Love you and miss you hun. teddybear
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Aug 14, 2010 10:42 AM CST so confused..................
firewings316
firewings316firewings316south dakota, South Dakota USA4 Threads 80 Posts
well thanks for some imput on this and what you say is very true and i do need to tell him straight out and i have said things to him to let him know a little bit how i feel , but will just have to go for it all and then go from there!

thanks !!
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Aug 16, 2010 7:06 PM CST so confused..................
mjames
mjamesmjamesnapa, California USA2 Threads 1 Polls 779 Posts
firewings316: well thanks for some imput on this and what you say is very true and i do need to tell him straight out and i have said things to him to let him know a little bit how i feel , but will just have to go for it all and then go from there!

thanks !!


If he's near you then sure; tell him how you feel; the worst thing that can happen is for him to say no. Go for it and let us know whats up.
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