jealousy or insercurity ( Archived) (17)

Aug 16, 2010 4:11 AM CST jealousy or insercurity
mmanika
mmanikammanikapretoria, Gauteng South Africa2 Threads 473 Posts
i found out my on line date gave my number to a friend to anonymously call me.my date finally admitted .his excuse was he wanted to make sure im a one man woman
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Aug 16, 2010 4:59 AM CST jealousy or insercurity
Dagosto
DagostoDagostoKnoxville, Tennessee USA74 Threads 15 Polls 3,076 Posts
I'm sorry but that just sounds inexcusable. I'd ditch the guy before you get further involved. He's suspicious of you, so he gives your number to a stranger you don't know? What will he do the next time he's suspicious, try to beat the truth out of you? The guy's a loser. Dump him.

wine 24
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Aug 16, 2010 5:02 AM CST jealousy or insercurity
cincity
cincitycincitytoronto, Ontario Canada9 Threads 2,496 Posts
Dagosto: I'm sorry but that just sounds inexcusable. I'd ditch the guy before you get further involved. He's suspicious of you, so he gives your number to a stranger you don't know? What will he do the next time he's suspicious, try to beat the truth out of you? The guy's a loser. Dump him.

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totally agree with that... Sounds like insecurity to me and that can lead to possesive / obsessive behaviour...Not something you really want in your life..
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Aug 16, 2010 5:07 AM CST jealousy or insercurity
plainlyjune
plainlyjuneplainlyjuneLegazpi City, Bicol Philippines12 Threads 2 Polls 8,175 Posts
scary...uh oh
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Aug 16, 2010 5:08 AM CST jealousy or insercurity
enjay
enjayenjaywairarapa, Wellington New Zealand192 Posts
when in dout get outdunno
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Aug 16, 2010 5:09 AM CST jealousy or insercurity
Raynew1959
Raynew1959Raynew1959Barrington, New Hampshire USA120 Threads 2 Polls 2,218 Posts
cincity: totally agree with that... Sounds like insecurity to me and that can lead to possesive / obsessive behaviour...Not something you really want in your life..


Been on the receiving end of that once. It is not healthy for a relationship
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Aug 16, 2010 5:09 AM CST jealousy or insercurity
dawndeb
dawndebdawndebCHICAGO IL, Illinois USA5 Threads 1 Polls 77 Posts
FULLY AGREE!!!!!!
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Aug 16, 2010 5:12 AM CST jealousy or insercurity
cincity
cincitycincitytoronto, Ontario Canada9 Threads 2,496 Posts
Raynew1959: Been on the receiving end of that once. It is not healthy for a relationship
me too...it is very scarey..and can be very dangerous...
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Aug 16, 2010 5:13 AM CST jealousy or insercurity
Jake_J
Jake_JJake_JCurrently in Zurich, Sri Lanka4 Threads 179 Posts
RUN....

NOW
hole
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Aug 16, 2010 5:16 AM CST jealousy or insercurity
anblu45
anblu45anblu45treviso, Veneto Italy31 Threads 2 Polls 731 Posts
this kind of mania or obsession can become severe, it need medical therapy
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Aug 16, 2010 5:21 AM CST jealousy or insercurity
ybfayl
ybfaylybfaylBrisbane, Queensland Australia13 Threads 2 Polls 589 Posts
mmanika: i found out my on line date gave my number to a friend to anonymously call me.my date finally admitted .his excuse was he wanted to make sure im a one man woman
do you really want to date such a immature person. Sound like his momma is still tucking him at night. wave
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Aug 16, 2010 5:43 AM CST jealousy or insercurity
tomboygirl
tomboygirltomboygirllarnaca, Larnaca Cyprus3 Threads 1,555 Posts
mmanika: i found out my on line date gave my number to a friend to anonymously call me.my date finally admitted .his excuse was he wanted to make sure im a one man woman


I've had similar problems in the past...I'm very cautious about giving my no. out,and keep a cheap phone and separate sim card,in case I decide to give my no. Which I can also switch off if I have any problems.
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Aug 16, 2010 6:21 AM CST jealousy or insercurity
taff1
taff1taff1Malta, Majjistral Malta18 Threads 1,592 Posts
tomboygirl: I've had similar problems in the past...I'm very cautious about giving my no. out,and keep a cheap phone and separate sim card,in case I decide to give my no. Which I can also switch off if I have any problems.


Always thinking ahead eh hun? You rock. laugh hug
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Aug 16, 2010 6:29 AM CST jealousy or insercurity
Thegr8pr10dr
Thegr8pr10drThegr8pr10drPhoenix, Arizona USA29 Threads 289 Posts
mmanika: i found out my on line date gave my number to a friend to anonymously call me.my date finally admitted .his excuse was he wanted to make sure im a one man woman
He might have lost interest and decided to pass you off to a friend rather than tell you outright. Whether it's the truth he told you or a lie it's equally bad. You could be wise and dump him like yesterday's trash or give him your bank account numbers and see what happens next. If you get serious with him and live together, he WILL have access to that info. cool
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Aug 16, 2010 6:33 AM CST jealousy or insercurity
viva007
viva007viva007HYDERABAD, Telangana India41 Threads 8 Polls 7,447 Posts
tomboygirl: I've had similar problems in the past...I'm very cautious about giving my no. out,and keep a cheap phone and separate sim card,in case I decide to give my no. Which I can also switch off if I have any problems.
I know ur number nowtongue
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Aug 16, 2010 6:54 AM CST jealousy or insercurity
Thegr8pr10dr
Thegr8pr10drThegr8pr10drPhoenix, Arizona USA29 Threads 289 Posts
A responsible person will ALWAY'S ask first before giving out personal info. If I'm asked to give out somebody's number I tell them to give me their number to pass on to the person whose number their asking for and that person will contact them if they are interested. I have a phone number block feature on my phone for those who manage to get my number and shouldn't have it and I don't answer calls with caller number hidden. cool
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Aug 16, 2010 10:40 AM CST jealousy or insercurity
Laura25
Laura25Laura25Somewhere, New York USA50 Threads 6 Polls 8,178 Posts
mmanika:

jealousy or insercurity

i found out my on line date gave my number to a friend to anonymously call me.my date finally admitted .his excuse was he wanted to make sure im a one man woman


Neither.

No ethics/dignity.

No excuses.

I would not get involved.

Good luck.
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