I really don't understand...seriously! ( Archived) (27)

Aug 19, 2010 6:56 PM CST I really don't understand...seriously!
clear36
clear36clear36Toronto, Ontario Canada1 Threads 5 Posts
I read someone's recent post saying that men need to step it up and start pursuing the women on here. I guess some women like that. Cool! I get it.

What I don't understand is how someone on here can send YOU a msg, you respond respectfully and appropriately (being yourself) and they don't even get back to you. Are people here just to play games?!?confused dunno Is anyone actually trying to get to know someone or just pass the time????


help
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Aug 19, 2010 7:00 PM CST I really don't understand...seriously!
demonfairy
demonfairydemonfairyNewton,hickory, North Carolina USA120 Threads 17 Polls 5,654 Posts
I have had that a few times,i e-mail them back right away...i see there on line,but they dont answer me back for a day or two...then guess whats in the 2nd e-mail...it says can i have your yahoo address so we can talk more...so you are probley talking to a scammer,not saying they all are...but most
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Aug 19, 2010 7:03 PM CST I really don't understand...seriously!
clear36
clear36clear36Toronto, Ontario Canada1 Threads 5 Posts
Huh!! Well I guess my bad luck is continuing........
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Aug 19, 2010 7:06 PM CST I really don't understand...seriously!
demonfairy
demonfairydemonfairyNewton,hickory, North Carolina USA120 Threads 17 Polls 5,654 Posts
clear36: Huh!! Well I guess my bad luck is continuing........
Not all are,some just don't have time to answer,so they answer later.Some people pop on line at work and only have a few minutes.
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Aug 19, 2010 7:08 PM CST I really don't understand...seriously!
plainlyjune
plainlyjuneplainlyjuneLegazpi City, Bicol Philippines12 Threads 2 Polls 8,175 Posts
pass the time while getting to know some wonderful people dunno
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Aug 19, 2010 7:08 PM CST I really don't understand...seriously!
Merri
MerriMerriDefiance, Ohio USA531 Posts
clear36: Huh!! Well I guess my bad luck is continuing........


Sometimes a person will come on line, read your e-mail but not have a lot of time to reply so they will make a few posts and get off. They will save your e-mail for later when they have more time to reply wave Give it time.
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Aug 19, 2010 7:10 PM CST I really don't understand...seriously!
wordsmith99
wordsmith99wordsmith99Lyon, Rhone-Alpes France2 Threads 399 Posts
I'm sorry but I think it's a numbers game, that's all. You have to say hi to loads of people at a party before you bump into someone who is going to turn into a real friend... and often you go to a party and you don't meet anyone.

It's the same here. You have loads of conversations that go nowhere... loads of people just disappear in the middle of what you thought was a conversation...

You just have to shrug and move on. The more people you chat to, the more chance you have of meeting a keeper!
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Aug 19, 2010 7:13 PM CST I really don't understand...seriously!
StressFree
StressFreeStressFreesmall city, Kalmar Sweden176 Threads 16 Polls 8,986 Posts
clear36: I read someone's recent post saying that men need to step it up and start pursuing the women on here. I guess some women like that. Cool! I get it.

What I don't understand is how someone on here can send YOU a msg, you respond respectfully and appropriately (being yourself) and they don't even get back to you. Are people here just to play games?!? Is anyone actually trying to get to know someone or just pass the time????


If you get a msg address, or yahoo address in your first mail, that is a blatant sign of a scammer.
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Aug 19, 2010 7:15 PM CST I really don't understand...seriously!
plainlyjune
plainlyjuneplainlyjuneLegazpi City, Bicol Philippines12 Threads 2 Polls 8,175 Posts
Merri: Sometimes a person will come on line, read your e-mail but not have a lot of time to reply so they will make a few posts and get off. They will save your e-mail for later when they have more time to reply Give it time.
thumbs up
we do the same thing huh? hi merri wave
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Aug 19, 2010 7:17 PM CST I really don't understand...seriously!
StillOfTheNight
StillOfTheNightStillOfTheNightClarenville Area, Newfoundland Canada11 Threads 2,832 Posts
I was on CS for a month or longer before I actually started talking to anyone.

It was worth the wait though.
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Aug 19, 2010 7:17 PM CST I really don't understand...seriously!
menu2
menu2menu2Near Galveston Island, Texas USA2,106 Posts
StressFree: If you get a msg address, or yahoo address in your first mail, that is a blatant sign of a scammer.
thumbs up cheers
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Aug 19, 2010 7:19 PM CST I really don't understand...seriously!
StressFree
StressFreeStressFreesmall city, Kalmar Sweden176 Threads 16 Polls 8,986 Posts
plainlyjune: we do the same thing huh? hi merri


Just answer the mails! Only takes a couple of minuteslaugh

I'm so bad at replying to mails. I get them once in a while and have an exchange, then I get another mail and usually forget to reply. I even do that with my pen pals---I should get back to them.

Sorry to those of you btwsad flower teddybear I'll get back to some of your mails, but you did say when I have timelaugh
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Aug 19, 2010 7:19 PM CST I really don't understand...seriously!
plainlyjune
plainlyjuneplainlyjuneLegazpi City, Bicol Philippines12 Threads 2 Polls 8,175 Posts
StressFree: If you get a msg address, or yahoo address in your first mail, that is a blatant sign of a scammer.


or in a rush dunno
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Aug 19, 2010 7:20 PM CST I really don't understand...seriously!
Raven0
Raven0Raven0Right here, Alberta Canada28 Threads 3,454 Posts
StillOfTheNight: I was on CS for a month or longer before I actually started talking to anyone.

It was worth the wait though.

Me too.
I lurked, read the forums, got to see what it was like, what others were like.
Then I went post crazy.
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Aug 19, 2010 7:20 PM CST I really don't understand...seriously!
plainlyjune
plainlyjuneplainlyjuneLegazpi City, Bicol Philippines12 Threads 2 Polls 8,175 Posts
StressFree: Just answer the mails! Only takes a couple of minutes

I'm so bad at replying to mails. I get them once in a while and have an exchange, then I get another mail and usually forget to reply. I even do that with my pen pals---I should get back to them.

Sorry to those of you btw I'll get back to some of your mails, but you did say when I have time

did you really have to quote me tongue

but yeah take your time cool
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Aug 19, 2010 7:21 PM CST I really don't understand...seriously!
plainlyjune
plainlyjuneplainlyjuneLegazpi City, Bicol Philippines12 Threads 2 Polls 8,175 Posts
Raven0: Me too.
I lurked, read the forums, got to see what it was like, what others were like.
Then I went post crazy.


hello lurker wave
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Aug 19, 2010 7:21 PM CST I really don't understand...seriously!
plainlyjune
plainlyjuneplainlyjuneLegazpi City, Bicol Philippines12 Threads 2 Polls 8,175 Posts
StillOfTheNight: I was on CS for a month or longer before I actually started talking to anyone.

It was worth the wait though.


hehehe hug
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Aug 19, 2010 7:22 PM CST I really don't understand...seriously!
StillOfTheNight
StillOfTheNightStillOfTheNightClarenville Area, Newfoundland Canada11 Threads 2,832 Posts
Raven0: Me too.
I lurked, read the forums, got to see what it was like, what others were like.
Then I went post crazy.


Pretty much like myself, when I come here now and in the right mood, I will drive everyone nuts with crap :)
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Aug 19, 2010 7:22 PM CST I really don't understand...seriously!
menu2
menu2menu2Near Galveston Island, Texas USA2,106 Posts
plainlyjune: or in a rush
confused
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Aug 19, 2010 7:23 PM CST I really don't understand...seriously!
StressFree
StressFreeStressFreesmall city, Kalmar Sweden176 Threads 16 Polls 8,986 Posts
plainlyjune: did you really have to quote me

but yeah take your time


Sarcasm? laugh I don't recall any mail from you. I only remember the ones where I'm told I'm so handsome and funny etc...innocent
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