You can't fall in love with a person you've never met. You can meet interesting and nice people on the internet, meet them and then fall in love with them. But falling through a computer screen straight into 7th heaven and happily ever after? Nope!
Shocking... just shocking. Practically the whole of the UK thought he was marvellous and now we know we were wrong. It just goes to show how false and deceitful some people can be...
Go v.e.r.y SLOWLY! Don't ask for commitment. Just ask for the next date, and the next phone call. Be reliable, be secure and strong. Commitment happens when no-one is looking. You can't force it! So stop panicking and just enjoy what you have.
And in the end, if she tells you she doesn't want you, then move on gracefully.
Loads of people here have terrific senses of humour. That joke just wasn't funny. (Sorry mate, but that one stunk.) If you want funny, look at the Fenton fan vids on Youtube... now THAT'S funny!
Stop thinking about your own shyness and think about her. How is she feeling, who is she, where is she going in life... Ask questions beginning with What, Where, Who, How, When so that she can't just answer "yes" or "no" and listen to what she says. Then you won't be shy any more.
Bloody awful. Went there on a press trip once (when frankly you'd think they'd be making an effort) and it was three days of Hell. Never met such surly horrible unhelpful people. Total yuk. Wild horses wouldn't drag me there ever again.
Go to Sardinia. Or Gozo or Malta... or anywhere! Just don't go to Corsica.
I reckon Belgium's pretty good. It's not expensive, you get appointments and treatment double-quick and they've got all the gizmos etc. France is ok. Both are better than the UK in my experience, although UK nurses have got to be the NICEST...
Of course Santa exists! But he won't bring you a car because he wouldn't be able to get it down the chimney. I'm hoping for sugar mice and a loud whistle.
Nope. We're talking washing up done, kitchen spic and span, floor clean, table laid, hot food, large glass of wine and then respectful silence while we watch the news... and YOU wash the plates.
Now that gets Brownie Points... that melts hearts. That might just get you a good helping of pudding... but smarmy romance when a gal is straight in from work? Forget it!
Not at all. Haven't been ill in years. The point I'm making is that sweet-talking hunks usually disappear the minute you're busy doing unromantic stuff in life.
I could have used example like emptying the bins or getting to car to the MOT... the thing is, real life is always there and I'm (sorry all you nice chaps on CS) sick of guys who disappear the minute there's a job to be done.
There is nothing any man could say that would have the slightest effect on me at all.
But if he turned up when I was in bed with flu and hoovered...! Or brought sustenance (chicken korma, for example)... or just came round with Kleenex and aspirin...
Or if he drove me to the dentist, and waited and took me and my bruised swollen mouth to the pub for restorative brandies afterwards...
You see, words are easy, but when the chips are down and Real Life pops his head up, that's when you need an ACTION man.
Make bacon sarnies. Then go running with the dog. Repeat until exhausted. Then sleep, then repeat as above... doesn't take long before you're back on form!
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RE: Can you really fall in love with someone on the internet??
You can't fall in love with a person you've never met. You can meet interesting and nice people on the internet, meet them and then fall in love with them. But falling through a computer screen straight into 7th heaven and happily ever after? Nope!