Finding a good man (46)
leostartingover: Hey ladies, have you heard the saying:
Before you marry a man (or get into a long-term relationship with him) you should watch very carefully how he treats the women in his life - like his mother, his sisters and his women friends... If he is disrespectful, head for the hills because chances are very good he will be disrespectful to you too.
Thoughts? Have you found this to be true? It definitely was the case with my ex. I noticed, but did not follow my gut feel at the time... perhaps because my step father was exactly the same, so I kinda thought it was par for the course!
Before you marry a man (or get into a long-term relationship with him) you should watch very carefully how he treats the women in his life - like his mother, his sisters and his women friends... If he is disrespectful, head for the hills because chances are very good he will be disrespectful to you too.
Thoughts? Have you found this to be true? It definitely was the case with my ex. I noticed, but did not follow my gut feel at the time... perhaps because my step father was exactly the same, so I kinda thought it was par for the course!
Surely the same must work for the men, how does the g/f treat her parents and siblings..
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I've heard the following: Before you marry a woman, have a careful look at her mother, coz she'll look similar in 20-30 years from now 
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deadbutwhy: I've heard the following: Before you marry a woman, have a careful look at her mother, coz she'll look similar in 20-30 years from now
My mum was a beauty dbw..
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scottyburd: My mum was a beauty dbw..
I can see that 
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deadbutwhy: I've heard the following: Before you marry a woman, have a careful look at her mother, coz she'll look similar in 20-30 years from now
I recently visited some relatives of my mom's I hadn't seen in years now and the first thing the said to me was how much i am looking like my mom the older I get
My big brother keep telling me that and at times i catch him staring at me and I asked him What ??? he goes..........you are looking just like Mom more and more each day.....especially how I had my hair that day
she was a sweet Mother
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leostartingover: Hey ladies, have you heard the saying:
Before you marry a man (or get into a long-term relationship with him) you should watch very carefully how he treats the women in his life - like his mother, his sisters and his women friends... If he is disrespectful, head for the hills because chances are very good he will be disrespectful to you too.
Thoughts? Have you found this to be true? It definitely was the case with my ex. I noticed, but did not follow my gut feel at the time... perhaps because my step father was exactly the same, so I kinda thought it was par for the course!
as you may know/ or not know .i have looked after my invalid mother ,for the past twenty two yrs.with no social life to speak of. she is my gem .does that count for any thing.????????????.Before you marry a man (or get into a long-term relationship with him) you should watch very carefully how he treats the women in his life - like his mother, his sisters and his women friends... If he is disrespectful, head for the hills because chances are very good he will be disrespectful to you too.
Thoughts? Have you found this to be true? It definitely was the case with my ex. I noticed, but did not follow my gut feel at the time... perhaps because my step father was exactly the same, so I kinda thought it was par for the course!
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deadbutwhy: I've heard the following: Before you marry a woman, have a careful look at her mother, coz she'll look similar in 20-30 years from now
Yes, I've also heard that one! Probably some truth in it too....???
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trueheart1941: as you may know/ or not know .i have looked after my invalid mother ,for the past twenty two yrs.with no social life to speak of. she is my gem .does that count for any thing.????????????.
Actually I didn't know, but YES it counts for a lot! I hope my sons are as caring with me when I get old!
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sultryash: I recently visited some relatives of my mom's I hadn't seen in years now and the first thing the said to me was how much i am looking like my mom the older I get
My big brother keep telling me that and at times i catch him staring at me and I asked him What ??? he goes..........you are looking just like Mom more and more each day.....especially how I had my hair that day
she was a sweet Mother
My big brother keep telling me that and at times i catch him staring at me and I asked him What ??? he goes..........you are looking just like Mom more and more each day.....especially how I had my hair that day
she was a sweet Mother
.... and yes, in many ways I am like my mother (now deceased)!
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leostartingover: Hey ladies, have you heard the saying:
Before you marry a man (or get into a long-term relationship with him) you should watch very carefully how he treats the women in his life - like his mother, his sisters and his women friends... If he is disrespectful, head for the hills because chances are very good he will be disrespectful to you too.
Thoughts? Have you found this to be true? It definitely was the case with my ex. I noticed, but did not follow my gut feel at the time... perhaps because my step father was exactly the same, so I kinda thought it was par for the course!
Before you marry a man (or get into a long-term relationship with him) you should watch very carefully how he treats the women in his life - like his mother, his sisters and his women friends... If he is disrespectful, head for the hills because chances are very good he will be disrespectful to you too.
Thoughts? Have you found this to be true? It definitely was the case with my ex. I noticed, but did not follow my gut feel at the time... perhaps because my step father was exactly the same, so I kinda thought it was par for the course!
Hey LSO. There's a old saying "The apple doesn't fall far from the tree"?
I do believe that one can generally get a good idea, when you are dating someone, and see them interact with their family's siblings, and close friends, however some people I am convinced have a split personality
My ex was great at hiding his affairs and relationships, in fact he completedly detested people that led a life like that. He was at most times very kind with his mother, and terrified of his sisters, so this left very little room for arguments. He has this incredible ability in showing the world how truly amazing he is, when in fact he can be quite selfish and hurtful. Often its not what he said, but his actions that were like a piercing arrow in my heart.
So needless to say, it takes all kinds....and ironically his dad was exactly the same as him, a charmer and complete womanizer
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trueheart1941: as you may know/ or not know .i have looked after my invalid mother ,for the past twenty two yrs.with no social life to speak of. she is my gem .does that count for any thing.????????????.
To me thats real love and devotion and such a sense of security for you're mum trueheart..
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leostartingover: Hey ladies, have you heard the saying:
Before you marry a man (or get into a long-term relationship with him) you should watch very carefully how he treats the women in his life - like his mother, his sisters and his women friends... If he is disrespectful, head for the hills because chances are very good he will be disrespectful to you too.
Thoughts? Have you found this to be true? It definitely was the case with my ex. I noticed, but did not follow my gut feel at the time... perhaps because my step father was exactly the same, so I kinda thought it was par for the course!
Before you marry a man (or get into a long-term relationship with him) you should watch very carefully how he treats the women in his life - like his mother, his sisters and his women friends... If he is disrespectful, head for the hills because chances are very good he will be disrespectful to you too.
Thoughts? Have you found this to be true? It definitely was the case with my ex. I noticed, but did not follow my gut feel at the time... perhaps because my step father was exactly the same, so I kinda thought it was par for the course!
Hmmmmmmmmmm... probably true.
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scottyburd: To me thats real love and devotion and such a sense of security for you're mum trueheart..
thanks S/B.and may i say .you are one lovely lady yourself .....true. ------ This thread is Archived ------
i have heard this saying, but i personally watch how the person i am interested in treats other people without compartmentilizing it by gender...
it seems to me one of those women vs men (or men vs women..it is the same) things when the one of the two is trying to be smarter than another in managing the relationship...
it seems to me one of those women vs men (or men vs women..it is the same) things when the one of the two is trying to be smarter than another in managing the relationship...
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I think that it really goes both ways...Ive met both genders with no manners or totally self absorbed...I think things like that are red flags for both genders ...Rose coloured glasses are not limited to the ladies
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trueheart1941: thanks S/B.and may i say .you are one lovely lady yourself .....true.
Thank you trueheart my mother brought us up well..
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leostartingover: Actually I didn't know, but YES it counts for a lot! I hope my sons are as caring with me when I get old!
HI L/S/o.
you little.....
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leostartingover: Hey ladies, have you heard the saying:
Before you marry a man (or get into a long-term relationship with him) you should watch very carefully how he treats the women in his life - like his mother, his sisters and his women friends... If he is disrespectful, head for the hills because chances are very good he will be disrespectful to you too.
Thoughts? Have you found this to be true? It definitely was the case with my ex. I noticed, but did not follow my gut feel at the time... perhaps because my step father was exactly the same, so I kinda thought it was par for the course!
my ex husband was good to his mom but he was a total mommas boy, spoiled and demanding..so not in every case is a man who appers to be good to his mom a good catch..Before you marry a man (or get into a long-term relationship with him) you should watch very carefully how he treats the women in his life - like his mother, his sisters and his women friends... If he is disrespectful, head for the hills because chances are very good he will be disrespectful to you too.
Thoughts? Have you found this to be true? It definitely was the case with my ex. I noticed, but did not follow my gut feel at the time... perhaps because my step father was exactly the same, so I kinda thought it was par for the course!
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leostartingover: Hey ladies, have you heard the saying:
Before you marry a man (or get into a long-term relationship with him) you should watch very carefully how he treats the women in his life - like his mother, his sisters and his women friends... If he is disrespectful, head for the hills because chances are very good he will be disrespectful to you too.
Thoughts? Have you found this to be true? It definitely was the case with my ex. I noticed, but did not follow my gut feel at the time... perhaps because my step father was exactly the same, so I kinda thought it was par for the course!
Before you marry a man (or get into a long-term relationship with him) you should watch very carefully how he treats the women in his life - like his mother, his sisters and his women friends... If he is disrespectful, head for the hills because chances are very good he will be disrespectful to you too.
Thoughts? Have you found this to be true? It definitely was the case with my ex. I noticed, but did not follow my gut feel at the time... perhaps because my step father was exactly the same, so I kinda thought it was par for the course!
Absolutely. It has everything to do with his character and sense of decency. And face it, either he has it, or he doesn't.
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Before you marry a man (or get into a long-term relationship with him) you should watch very carefully how he treats the women in his life - like his mother, his sisters and his women friends... If he is disrespectful, head for the hills because chances are very good he will be disrespectful to you too.
Thoughts? Have you found this to be true? It definitely was the case with my ex. I noticed, but did not follow my gut feel at the time... perhaps because my step father was exactly the same, so I kinda thought it was par for the course!