Whats the proper etiquette for not awnsering mails (125)
lovelifegalway: Hi everyone,
I have a question please Ive just joined and am unsure whether I should awnser mails if I dont feel a connection with the person, is it better to leave it unawnsered ? Or what should I say, please help ? I dont want to be rude or hurt ppls feelings :-O
I have a question please Ive just joined and am unsure whether I should awnser mails if I dont feel a connection with the person, is it better to leave it unawnsered ? Or what should I say, please help ? I dont want to be rude or hurt ppls feelings :-O
I think there is nothing that hurts more than not getting an answer. A polite no thanks can't be as bad. Try to find something in the profile that differs from what you said you are looking for...
lovelifegalway: Hi everyone,
I have a question please Ive just joined and am unsure whether I should awnser mails if I dont feel a connection with the person, is it better to leave it unawnsered ? Or what should I say, please help ? I dont want to be rude or hurt ppls feelings :-O
I have a question please Ive just joined and am unsure whether I should awnser mails if I dont feel a connection with the person, is it better to leave it unawnsered ? Or what should I say, please help ? I dont want to be rude or hurt ppls feelings :-O
There's no right way to do it
It's nice getting a reply saying something like
I'm chatting with someone else but thanks for yer message
Goodluck in yer search
Thats what I thought so dont want to do that, thank you that helps alot, I think unfortunatly some might think Im rude already but will try and rectify that from now on.. thanks again :-)
skyblue43: I think there is nothing that hurts more than not getting an answer. A polite no thanks can't be as bad. Try to find something in the profile that differs from what you said you are looking for...
blipper2000: There's no right way to do it
It's nice getting a reply saying something like
I'm chatting with someone else but thanks for yer message
Goodluck in yer search
It's nice getting a reply saying something like
I'm chatting with someone else but thanks for yer message
Goodluck in yer search
Thank you that definatly helps :-)
lovelifegalway: Thats what I thought so dont want to do that, thank you that helps alot, I think unfortunatly some might think Im rude already but will try and rectify that from now on.. thanks again :-)
LOL. Maybe you could remove average from the body type that you are looking for in a man. Cant be too many modelesque, ripped, fit out there so it'll give you a handy exit route. LOL.
Thats why I didtn awnser some but had me feeling bad :-O thanks for your insight :-) 
yeah right
yeah right
blipper2000: There's no right way to do it
It's nice getting a reply saying something like
I'm chatting with someone else but thanks for yer message
Goodluck in yer search
It's nice getting a reply saying something like
I'm chatting with someone else but thanks for yer message
Goodluck in yer search
Actually ive been wondering same thing,but think what you just said is a nice way of saying thank you but no.Then again you will get some guys that keep mailing back no matter what you say,like a four yr old...but why,but why, but whylovelifegalway: Hi everyone,
I have a question please Ive just joined and am unsure whether I should awnser mails if I dont feel a connection with the person, is it better to leave it unawnsered ? Or what should I say, please help ? I dont want to be rude or hurt ppls feelings :-O
I have a question please Ive just joined and am unsure whether I should awnser mails if I dont feel a connection with the person, is it better to leave it unawnsered ? Or what should I say, please help ? I dont want to be rude or hurt ppls feelings :-O
Well it is a personnal choice I reply with a polite thank you and maybe wish them luck or something. Totally up to you though.
sugar77: Actually ive been wondering same thing,but think what you just said is a nice way of saying thank you but no.Then again you will get some guys that keep mailing back no matter what you say,like a four yr old...but why,but why, but why
Exactly makes me scared to awnser some of them, cause some I think think that any awnser is a yes Im interested :O
lovelifegalway: Exactly makes me scared to awnser some of them, cause some I think think that any awnser is a yes Im interested :O
By 'connection' i'm assuming you mean physical attraction?
sugar77: Thanks will do,but you know how shy i am sky... Might find that difficult.....not!
Oh the original shrinking violet you are!
lovelifegalway: Exactly makes me scared to awnser some of them, cause some I think think that any awnser is a yes Im interested :O
True some just dont take the hint even when you spell it out,and then sometimes can turn nasty..ive had a few like that but you can always block them,then they cant bother you again!
sugar77: True some just dont take the hint even when you spell it out,and then sometimes can turn nasty..ive had a few like that but you can always block them,then they cant bother you again!
I know the feeling. Every day I'm beating them off me with a stick. Why can't they just understand and stop pestering me? I hate blocking them but I have my standards to maintain..
skyblue43: Oh the original shrinking violet you are!
Little old me of course!All innocent and angelic
Thinking nuns outfit would suit me very well....sugar77: Actually ive been wondering same thing,but think what you just said is a nice way of saying thank you but no.Then again you will get some guys that keep mailing back no matter what you say,like a four yr old...but why,but why, but why
The fact of the matter is women get more emails than men
A lot more and men are more impatient too
Personally I will send one mail and if I don't get an answer I just leave it
I don't usually reply to peeps on here unless they're on the forums
blipper2000: The fact of the matter is women get more emails than men
A lot more and men are more impatient too
Personally I will send one mail and if I don't get an answer I just leave it
I don't usually reply to peeps on here unless they're on the forums
A lot more and men are more impatient too
Personally I will send one mail and if I don't get an answer I just leave it
I don't usually reply to peeps on here unless they're on the forums
Really,if a lady mails you,and isnt on the forums,you wouldnt be interested in her?Find that strange...explain yourself!
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I have a question please Ive just joined and am unsure whether I should awnser mails if I dont feel a connection with the person, is it better to leave it unawnsered ? Or what should I say, please help ? I dont want to be rude or hurt ppls feelings :-O