blipper2000: I'm always right shar You know that from crossing swords on the political threads Hehe I love being right It gives me a warm fuzzy feeling inside
another man who thinks he is right. The world is full of them.
I have a question please Ive just joined and am unsure whether I should awnser mails if I dont feel a connection with the person, is it better to leave it unawnsered ? Or what should I say, please help ? I dont want to be rude or hurt ppls feelings :-O
If someone takes the time to send a mail I'll always try to reply and say thanks but no thanks. Some appreciate the reply and some get thick and insulting wondering what you are doing here if you're not looking so those ones just get blocked.
sugar77: Ah i understand what your saying now...and using the forums can give you a good insight to what a person is really like too...ive never been to a meet so look forward to meeting people, putting a face to the name so to speak....now go get a coffee..
I'm drinkin tea I'd have to write 10 pages to explain my thinking about online dating The bottom line is ya have to have a thick skin and not take things personally Although I have to say there's nothing worse than putting time and effort into talkin to a girl and it doesn't work out Ya build a mental pic in yer head what ya think that person will be like and that image is never the same if ya meet Or ya talk to someone for a while and then they blank ya for no reason ya can fathom That's annoying bit that's life
blipper2000: I'm drinkin tea I'd have to write 10 pages to explain my thinking about online dating The bottom line is ya have to have a thick skin and not take things personally Although I have to say there's nothing worse than putting time and effort into talkin to a girl and it doesn't work out Ya build a mental pic in yer head what ya think that person will be like and that image is never the same if ya meet Or ya talk to someone for a while and then they blank ya for no reason ya can fathom That's annoying bit that's life
Believe me im with you on that one...i really dont understand people...How is it so hard for people to be honest?....im actually thinking of changing my profile to not looking....just stay on here for the social aspect,forums,banter etc....
blipper2000: Women are worse but in a more subtle way In real life if I'm with a girl I just agree blindly Women like to be in charge so i let them think theyaree
sugar77: Believe me im with you on that one...i really dont understand people...How is it so hard for people to be honest?....im actually thinking of changing my profile to not looking....just stay on here for the social aspect,forums,banter etc....
Its not always that they are not honest its often ourselves that fill in a lot of the blanks when chatting online to someone and then are let down when the reality doesn't match the expectation..
sugar77: Believe me im with you on that one...i really dont understand people...How is it so hard for people to be honest?....im actually thinking of changing my profile to not looking....just stay on here for the social aspect,forums,banter etc....
I'm always had on my profile that interested in friends Even though o would gonpn a date from here bit I usually spend a long time chattin on cs before a mee Change it It's defo less hassle So of ya get hounded ya can just politely say Look at my profile meatball
If you have been on a date with someone and continue to chat to them online afterwards, do you assume or ask if they are arranging dates with other people also or do you think that most people concentrate on one person at a time? Interested in peoples opinions on this subject
skyblue43: Its not always that they are not honest its often ourselves that fill in a lot of the blanks when chatting online to someone and then are let down when the reality doesn't match the expectation..
I understand what you mean but i actually ment when you move past the online chatting and are seeing them in the real world....ive just lost the interest now to put the effort in yet again...
I have a question please Ive just joined and am unsure whether I should awnser mails if I dont feel a connection with the person, is it better to leave it unawnsered ? Or what should I say, please help ? I dont want to be rude or hurt ppls feelings :-O
Personaly I like to lie , oh and not just any lie
A lie that they can see thru Kinda adds a bit of Personal insult to their wounded pride
sugar77: I understand what you mean but i actually ment when you move past the online chatting and are seeing them in the real world....ive just lost the interest now to put the effort in yet again...
I suppose for some people its the thrill of the chase and once they have caught you they lose interest...
If you have been on a date with someone and continue to chat to them online afterwards, do you assume or ask if they are arranging dates with other people also or do you think that most people concentrate on one person at a time? Interested in peoples opinions on this subject
Thank you serene great thread session this morning....its like your reading my mind...these are the exact subjects ive been racking my brains over the last few days....
If you have been on a date with someone and continue to chat to them online afterwards, do you assume or ask if they are arranging dates with other people also or do you think that most people concentrate on one person at a time? Interested in peoples opinions on this subject
I reckon there are all sorts. The person who really likes you and would like it to continue, the person who likes having a safety net there if nothing better comes along, and the total player who may be dating all round him.
If you have been on a date with someone and continue to chat to them online afterwards, do you assume or ask if they are arranging dates with other people also or do you think that most people concentrate on one person at a time? Interested in peoples opinions on this subject
Oh, I got shot down for this before. I personally wouldn't date more than 1 person at a time but about 2 years ago I started something with someone who was dating 3 others at the same time. Then she picked the most suitable person who needless to say wasn't me.
I was quite hurt when I found out but the general consensus on here was that I should go away and grow up and that this was a dating site after all!
I wonder as a man, if the roles had been reversed, if CS members would have the same opinion.
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You know that from crossing swords on the political threads
Hehe
I love being right
It gives me a warm fuzzy feeling inside
another man who thinks he is right. The world is full of them.