Whats the proper etiquette for not awnsering mails (125)
Godsgift: Oh, I got shot down for this before. I personally wouldn't date more than 1 person at a time but about 2 years ago I started something with someone who was dating 3 others at the same time. Then she picked the most suitable person who needless to say wasn't me.
I was quite hurt when I found out but the general consensus on here was that I should go away and grow up and that this was a dating site after all!
I wonder as a man, if the roles had been reversed, if CS members would have the same opinion.
Well personally I would happily chat and email away to other members off the site but wouldn't arrange dates with anyone else if I was keen on someone that I had met on a date already.......but ya know I think that people like me are few and far between and we are usually the one's who end up being hurt albeit through our own in/actions.I was quite hurt when I found out but the general consensus on here was that I should go away and grow up and that this was a dating site after all!
I wonder as a man, if the roles had been reversed, if CS members would have the same opinion.
I mean it's not nice having to ask as well as it's not nice wondering either. Seems that a few people have this issue and I think its a topical subject.....possible thread idea.
blipper2000: Did she tell you that from the off gg?
No. I just assumed she was only dating me. Seems I was wrong.
skyblue43: I suppose for some people its the thrill of the chase and once they have caught you they lose interest...
Got it in one,the downside to dating sites...guys/girls always no there is more on offer,maybe ive just been unfortunate to have same situation twice in a row...or maybe its more common than i think...as for the old delete profile when your with someone arguement...dont even get me started....
Omurchu65: Personaly I like to lie , oh and not just any lie A lie that they can see thru Kinda adds a bit of Personal insult to their wounded pride
Hope you enjoy the forums ( or was that a lie)
Hope you enjoy the forums ( or was that a lie)
Is this a lie or is it not
the wittyone she does think not
or maybe she just wants to believe
that this omurchu guy would not deceive
then again he is but a man
and they lie just because they can
wittyone: Is this a lie or is it not
the wittyone she does think not
or maybe she just wants to believe
that this omurchu guy would not deceive
then again he is but a man
and they lie just because they can
the wittyone she does think not
or maybe she just wants to believe
that this omurchu guy would not deceive
then again he is but a man
and they lie just because they can
That was a great Poem
Now your going to be wondering for ages was i telling the truth or not
sugar77: Got it in one,the downside to dating sites...guys/girls always no there is more on offer,maybe ive just been unfortunate to have same situation twice in a row...or maybe its more common than i think...as for the old delete profile when your with someone arguement...dont even get me started....
I don't think its unique to dating sites, there is more on offer in the real world too. Its a personality trait that will only stop when he/she meets 'the one'! And its not always badness. Should you only agree to date someone if you're head over heels. If you date someone, have a very enjoyable time, but if you were totally honest with yourself you could not see a future with the person, is it wrong to date them again??
Omurchu65: That was a great Poem
Now your going to be wondering for ages was i telling the truth or not
Now your going to be wondering for ages was i telling the truth or not
No wondering you have a honest face.
lovelifegalway: Hi everyone,
I have a question please Ive just joined and am unsure whether I should awnser mails if I dont feel a connection with the person, is it better to leave it unawnsered ? Or what should I say, please help ? I dont want to be rude or hurt ppls feelings :-O
I have a question please Ive just joined and am unsure whether I should awnser mails if I dont feel a connection with the person, is it better to leave it unawnsered ? Or what should I say, please help ? I dont want to be rude or hurt ppls feelings :-O
you have no responsibility to reply to mails, we all pick and choose that's how it is on a dating site
SereneGreen: Here's one for ye to answer,
If you have been on a date with someone and continue to chat to them online afterwards, do you assume or ask if they are arranging dates with other people also or do you think that most people concentrate on one person at a time? Interested in peoples opinions on this subject
If you have been on a date with someone and continue to chat to them online afterwards, do you assume or ask if they are arranging dates with other people also or do you think that most people concentrate on one person at a time? Interested in peoples opinions on this subject
I tend to concentrate on one. But I didn't always... I was dating 5 different girls at the same time at one stage...
Never againIf I'm dating a girl it wouldn't bother me if she was dating other people. Tbh, it wouldn't even cross my mind. As long as she was still dating me I'm cool with it and if I really like her, by that stage I'd pressume she'd have stopped dating.
skyblue43: I don't think its unique to dating sites, there is more on offer in the real world too. Its a personality trait that will only stop when he/she meets 'the one'! And its not always badness. Should you only agree to date someone if you're head over heels. If you date someone, have a very enjoyable time, but if you were totally honest with yourself you could not see a future with the person, is it wrong to date them again??
Personally if there wasnt a connection,although i thought they were nice or ive had an enjoyable time,i would be straight out with them and honest.Otherwise i would think im leading them on..The honesty bit hasnt always gone down too well but id rather do that than give someone false hope.As for meeting 'the one'....ive been told im the one while he was also telling others at the same time..that they were the one!
seriously i give up!sugar77: Personally if there wasnt a connection,although i thought they were nice or ive had an enjoyable time,i would be straight out with them and honest.Otherwise i would think im leading them on..The honesty bit hasnt always gone down too well but id rather do that than give someone false hope.As for meeting 'the one'....ive been told im the one while he was also telling others at the same time..that they were the one! seriously i give up!
'The one' isn't whats said its whats felt inside. Two timing is wrong whatever way its dressed up. You've been unlucky thats all. Don't be giving up ....
blipper2000: Well I don't know what to say
Awwwwww
Omurchu65: Awwwwww
Are you takin the piss
I much preferred you as a paleface
That pic
It's nasty
blipper2000: Are you takin the piss
I much preferred you as a paleface
That pic
It's nasty
I much preferred you as a paleface
That pic
It's nasty
He knows I'm jolin I hope
He knows I'm jolin I hope
ladylumps: If someone takes the time to send a mail I'll always try to reply and say thanks but no thanks. Some appreciate the reply and some get thick and insulting wondering what you are doing here if you're not looking so those ones just get blocked.
Ya I hear ya.. would like to avoid the nastiness though but I guess with some ppl you cant :-O
blipper2000: He knows I'm jolin I hope
Jokin I meant
lovelifegalway: Ya I hear ya.. would like to avoid the nastiness though but I guess with some ppl you cant :-O
You've no chance of that
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I was quite hurt when I found out but the general consensus on here was that I should go away and grow up and that this was a dating site after all!
I wonder as a man, if the roles had been reversed, if CS members would have the same opinion.
Did she tell you that from the off gg?