matt1wt: whats your theory as a species are we meant to live alone or in pair bonds is it bad for us to live alone conversly is it bad for us to be pair bonded
na im starting to think the only species that stay monogamus for life are swans..
matt1wt: whats your theory as a species are we meant to live alone or in pair bonds is it bad for us to live alone conversly is it bad for us to be pair bonded
Better for us to live alone Leave the pairs for Noahs Ark I say
matt1wt: whats your theory as a species are we meant to live alone or in pair bonds is it bad for us to live alone conversly is it bad for us to be pair bonded
I see every kind of relationship as a tool to evolve. If I meet somebody and we're on the same path, similar or same destinations, have plenty of passion and laughs to keep us going and connected then we're a team for as long it serves both of us. People change, paths and goals change and to stay true to ourselves at times means to say goodbye to each other at a cross road. It's all about connecting, nurturing and sharing for the purpose of evolving. I've learned also that the longer I'm traveling on my own the faster I'm able to move and the less I'm willing to slow down for anybody or even stand still.
Unfortunately majority of pair bonds is based on need and not love.
AngelinBali: I see every kind of relationship as a tool to evolve. If I meet somebody and we're on the same path, similar or same destinations, have plenty of passion and laughs to keep us going and connected then we're a team for as long it serves both of us. People change, paths and goals change and to stay true to ourselves at times means to say goodbye to each other at a cross road. It's all about connecting, nurturing and sharing for the purpose of evolving. I've learned also that the longer I'm traveling on my own the faster I'm able to move and the less I'm willing to slow down for anybody or even stand still.
Unfortunately majority of pair bonds is based on need and not love.
lifeisadreamMexi Go, Mexico State Mexico16,713 posts
AngelinBali: I see every kind of relationship as a tool to evolve. If I meet somebody and we're on the same path, similar or same destinations, have plenty of passion and laughs to keep us going and connected then we're a team for as long it serves both of us. People change, paths and goals change and to stay true to ourselves at times means to say goodbye to each other at a cross road. It's all about connecting, nurturing and sharing for the purpose of evolving. I've learned also that the longer I'm traveling on my own the faster I'm able to move and the less I'm willing to slow down for anybody or even stand still.
Unfortunately majority of pair bonds is based on need and not love.
"......A new form of love, or more love, has a new features and meaning. It aims for the coming together of two wholes, and not the union of two halves. And this is only possible for those who manage to work on their individuality. The more an individual is capable to live alone, the more prepared s/he will be for an affectionate relationship.
Every brain is unique. Our way of thinking and acting do not serve as a reference to evaluate anyone. Many times, we think that the other is our soul mate and, actually, what we did was to reinvent him/her to our taste.
Everyone should spend some time alone every now and again, to establish an inner dialogue and discover your personal force. In solitude, the individual understands that harmony and peace of the spirit can only be found inside him/her and not from the other person. To realise this, s/he becomes less critical and more understanding of differences, respecting the way of each person........"
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