I'm thinking about give up and keep my life alone!! I had talked with nice and bad persons, but as the same, people talking, talking , make some promisses, but the "love story" end about one month, ever. If a man is talking with me, he keeps looking around for a "beter" woman, and this mean, lies... I think nobody want a real commitment, want to talk, look your photos, and keep looking for others and talking, and on and on...
I have 50 years old, I never lie about my age. And don't want to waste time.Indee, my heart is broked, not only for one person, but for the beloved that I had never found... is so sad to me! People says: Keep looking, live your life, don't care about it ! But i had my dream to find my soulmate! And am not a teen anymore! I really don't know what to do anymore. Sometimes people said: you live too far from me! Others: I'll visit you (never come)! Thank you if you read it!
There are many more people than just those here on this site. You may have to reach out a bit more away from here. You may be better meeting people in person as Internet does not work for everyone.
I'm sorry to hear you feel like giving up..Dont feel bad..A lot of people havent found their soulmate. I was married and am divorced now and I dont feel my ex was my soulmate but if I think about only negative then its just going to hurt me not anyone else..You have children right? Try to focus on family, friends and your career..The right man still could come into your life..
lifeisadreamMexi Go, Mexico State Mexico16,713 posts
serrambi: I'm thinking about give up and keep my life alone!! I had talked with nice and bad persons, but as the same, people talking, talking , make some promisses, but the "love story" end about one month, ever. If a man is talking with me, he keeps looking around for a "beter" woman, and this mean, lies... I think nobody want a real commitment, want to talk, look your photos, and keep looking for others and talking, and on and on...
I have 50 years old, I never lie about my age. And don't want to waste time.Indee, my heart is broked, not only for one person, but for the beloved that I had never found... is so sad to me! People says: Keep looking, live your life, don't care about it ! But i had my dream to find my soulmate! And am not a teen anymore! I really don't know what to do anymore. Sometimes people said: you live too far from me! Others: I'll visit you (never come)! Thank you if you read it!
You are quite right darling, but DO NOT give up, if not in this site you will find someone to love and some to love you with all his heart!
If you want to share your life with someone special, YOU WILL!
Thank you for all friend that post so nice words to me here! You warm my broked heart ! Thank you Hem for the music, I love Peter Gabriel also! Kisse in all hearts of yours !
I know exactly how you feel. My search for the right guy has been a long two years. They promise to come and meet you after telling you everything you want to hear. I have been let down so much and its all online. I am ready to go offline and start dating again. My advice is for you to try other dating sites and offline dating to.
jahzahHappyfairygoblinland, Victoria Australia2,574 posts
Don't give up hope, your not giving us younger folk much hope a future. You look happy and content, you should know it will happen when you least expect it. Sometime when we stop looking and are just happy being who we are the universe surprises us, but it won't be on here anyway it will be in real life. To me you seem like a good catch for a mature man. Keep the faith and keep on loving yourself
serrambi: I'm thinking about give up and keep my life alone!! I had talked with nice and bad persons, but as the same, people talking, talking , make some promisses, but the "love story" end about one month, ever. If a man is talking with me, he keeps looking around for a "beter" woman, and this mean, lies... I think nobody want a real commitment, ....... but for the beloved that I had never found... is so sad to me!
But i had my dream to find my soulmate!
Really - you can find happiness in your own town or nearby...the internet thing is only good for some people.... Pick up a guy at the grocery store - the book store - anywhere
My thoughts: the "soulmate" "beloved" "real commitment" words are mostly idealistic and not based on reality - Happiness comes from your attitude and outlook - not from your partner / lover / mate
serrambi: Thank you for all friend that post so nice words to me here! You warm my broked heart ! Thank you Hem for the music, I love Peter Gabriel also! Kisse in all hearts of yours !
u may give up now but u'll never know wat u'll b missing if u give up now...
as for man keep looking for the better one, i guess its human nature... besides if its truly love, it will b tested by time... if it can pass the test then it's worth it!
u know someone told me these once "stop looking for love, let it find u", "stop thinking that love is everything n everything will be right in its due time" but "dont stop dreaming bout love coz if u stop dreaming bout love, it will froze ur heart"
GoodHeartforYou: Really - you can find happiness in your own town or nearby...the internet thing is only good for some people.... Pick up a guy at the grocery store - the book store - anywhere
My thoughts: the "soulmate" "beloved" "real commitment" words are mostly idealistic and not based on reality - Happiness comes from your attitude and outlook - not from your partner / lover / mate
You are "half" right... If I'm at dating website, is because I realized is dificult to find some person to me here, around... Most brazilian men think that woman with 50 years old are too old for they... Cause have a lot of young girls here... And I think other reason is my mind? I'm too seletive, I need a man who have a good brain, open mind, who likes to think... Is dificult anyway, on web, or real world... I write about scientific Fiction, so, for most of persons, am a kind of a "nerd", people sometimes don't like to hear me!lol Only to have idea, I watch "The Big Bang Theory", and I love it, in my age ! What a mand in my age or more will understand me?? Peace and prosperity ! am kind a "alien" !But thanks anyway!
Hi darling...I too know how you feel. I have "met" a lot of nice people on the threads, but alas no match. I don't expect to anymore. Just here for the laughs, excitement and camaraderie. I too don't think I will find my soul mate and actually it is too late now. Ah! baby..I am gonna cry. I cry at the drop of a hat. I have made a couple of dear friends and I hope they are here for me for a while yet. Best of luck darling. Take care of yourself.
sorry, my answer is on the bottom now, after "Ballerina"!
GoodHeartforYou: Really - you can find happiness in your own town or nearby...the internet thing is only good for some people.... Pick up a guy at the grocery store - the book store - anywhere
My thoughts: the "soulmate" "beloved" "real commitment" words are mostly idealistic and not based on reality - Happiness comes from your attitude and outlook - not from your partner / lover / mate
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I had talked with nice and bad persons, but as the same, people talking, talking , make some promisses, but the "love story" end about one month, ever. If a man is talking with me, he keeps looking around for a "beter" woman, and this mean, lies...
I think nobody want a real commitment, want to talk, look your photos, and keep looking for others and talking, and on and on...
I have 50 years old, I never lie about my age. And don't want to waste time.Indee, my heart is broked, not only for one person, but for the beloved that I had never found... is so sad to me!
People says: Keep looking, live your life, don't care about it !
But i had my dream to find my soulmate! And am not a teen anymore!
I really don't know what to do anymore. Sometimes people said: you live too far from me! Others: I'll visit you (never come)!
Thank you if you read it!