I'm thinking about "give up", am tired ! ( Archived) (83)

Oct 3, 2010 8:04 PM CST I'm thinking about "give up", am tired !
serrambi
serrambiserrambisantos, Sao Paulo Brazil5 Threads 303 Posts
I'm thinking about give up and keep my life alone!!
I had talked with nice and bad persons, but as the same, people talking, talking , make some promisses, but the "love story" end about one month, ever. If a man is talking with me, he keeps looking around for a "beter" woman, and this mean, lies...
I think nobody want a real commitment, want to talk, look your photos, and keep looking for others and talking, and on and on...

I have 50 years old, I never lie about my age. And don't want to waste time.Indee, my heart is broked, not only for one person, but for the beloved that I had never found... is so sad to me!
People says: Keep looking, live your life, don't care about it !
But i had my dream to find my soulmate! And am not a teen anymore!
I really don't know what to do anymore. Sometimes people said: you live too far from me! Others: I'll visit you (never come)!
Thank you if you read it!
sad flower
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Oct 3, 2010 8:07 PM CST I'm thinking about "give up", am tired !
NCC1968
NCC1968NCC1968Van Nuys, California USA3 Threads 3 Polls 839 Posts
There are many more people than just those here on this site. You may have to reach out a bit more away from here. You may be better meeting people in person as Internet does not work for everyone.

I wish you well and hope th e best for you...hug
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Oct 3, 2010 8:07 PM CST I'm thinking about "give up", am tired !
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
I share in your grief as you describe your experience the way I see it too. I try to remain positive and hope you do too sad flower hug
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Oct 3, 2010 8:09 PM CST I'm thinking about "give up", am tired !
Swissblueeyes
SwissblueeyesSwissblueeyesa lake, Michigan USA13 Threads 3,371 Posts
I'm sorry to hear you feel like giving up..Dont feel bad..A lot of people havent found their soulmate. I was married and am divorced now and I dont feel my ex was my soulmate but if I think about only negative then its just going to hurt me not anyone else..You have children right? Try to focus on family, friends and your career..The right man still could come into your life..
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Oct 3, 2010 8:15 PM CST I'm thinking about "give up", am tired !
lifeisadream
lifeisadreamlifeisadreamMexi Go, Mexico State Mexico156 Threads 20 Polls 16,713 Posts
serrambi: I'm thinking about give up and keep my life alone!!
I had talked with nice and bad persons, but as the same, people talking, talking , make some promisses, but the "love story" end about one month, ever. If a man is talking with me, he keeps looking around for a "beter" woman, and this mean, lies...
I think nobody want a real commitment, want to talk, look your photos, and keep looking for others and talking, and on and on...

I have 50 years old, I never lie about my age. And don't want to waste time.Indee, my heart is broked, not only for one person, but for the beloved that I had never found... is so sad to me!
People says: Keep looking, live your life, don't care about it !
But i had my dream to find my soulmate! And am not a teen anymore!
I really don't know what to do anymore. Sometimes people said: you live too far from me! Others: I'll visit you (never come)!
Thank you if you read it!


You are quite right darling, but DO NOT give up, if not in this site you will find someone to love and some to love you with all his heart!

If you want to share your life with someone special, YOU WILL!

be patient and I wish you hapiness.

teddybear
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Oct 3, 2010 8:17 PM CST I'm thinking about "give up", am tired !
hem23
hem23hem23Ipswich, Suffolk, England UK23 Threads 1,760 Posts
Maybe the words of peter gabriel will bring you some comfort

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Oct 3, 2010 8:26 PM CST I'm thinking about "give up", am tired !
serrambi
serrambiserrambisantos, Sao Paulo Brazil5 Threads 303 Posts
Thank you for all friend that post so nice words to me here!
You warm my broked heart !
Thank you Hem for the music, I love Peter Gabriel also!
Kisse in all hearts of yours ! teddybear
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Oct 3, 2010 8:26 PM CST I'm thinking about "give up", am tired !
spunkey272
spunkey272spunkey272Grangeville, Idaho USA53 Posts
I know exactly how you feel. My search for the right
guy has been a long two years. They promise to come and
meet you after telling you everything you want to hear.
I have been let down so much and its all online. I am
ready to go offline and start dating again. My advice is
for you to try other dating sites and offline dating to.hug
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Oct 3, 2010 8:29 PM CST I'm thinking about "give up", am tired !
jahzah
jahzahjahzahHappyfairygoblinland, Victoria Australia19 Threads 2 Polls 2,574 Posts
Don't give up hope, your not giving us younger folk much hope a future.
You look happy and content, you should know it will happen when you least expect it.
Sometime when we stop looking and are just happy being who we are the universe surprises us, but it won't be on here anyway it will be in real life. To me you seem like a good catch for a mature man.
Keep the faith and keep on loving yourself teddybear
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Oct 3, 2010 8:30 PM CST I'm thinking about "give up", am tired !
GoodHeartforYou
GoodHeartforYouGoodHeartforYouEarth, Alaska USA5 Threads 4 Polls 218 Posts
serrambi: I'm thinking about give up and keep my life alone!!
I had talked with nice and bad persons, but as the same, people talking, talking , make some promisses, but the "love story" end about one month, ever. If a man is talking with me, he keeps looking around for a "beter" woman, and this mean, lies...
I think nobody want a real commitment, ....... but for the beloved that I had never found... is so sad to me!

But i had my dream to find my soulmate!


Really - you can find happiness in your own town or nearby...the internet thing is only good for some people....
Pick up a guy at the grocery store - the book store - anywhere

My thoughts: the "soulmate" "beloved" "real commitment" words are mostly idealistic and not based on reality - Happiness comes from your attitude and outlook - not from your partner / lover / mate

Wish you the best
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Oct 3, 2010 8:32 PM CST I'm thinking about "give up", am tired !
hem23
hem23hem23Ipswich, Suffolk, England UK23 Threads 1,760 Posts
serrambi: Thank you for all friend that post so nice words to me here!
You warm my broked heart !
Thank you Hem for the music, I love Peter Gabriel also!
Kisse in all hearts of yours !


hug hope it helped you
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Oct 3, 2010 8:33 PM CST I'm thinking about "give up", am tired !
jahzah
jahzahjahzahHappyfairygoblinland, Victoria Australia19 Threads 2 Polls 2,574 Posts
And you have nice tastes in music

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Oct 3, 2010 8:39 PM CST I'm thinking about "give up", am tired !
linzy
linzylinzyIndonesia, Jakarta Indonesia126 Posts
u may give up now but u'll never know wat u'll b missing if u give up now...

as for man keep looking for the better one, i guess its human nature... besides if its truly love, it will b tested by time... if it can pass the test then it's worth it!

u know someone told me these once "stop looking for love, let it find u", "stop thinking that love is everything n everything will be right in its due time" but "dont stop dreaming bout love coz if u stop dreaming bout love, it will froze ur heart"

hug
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Oct 3, 2010 8:39 PM CST I'm thinking about "give up", am tired !
ballerina9
ballerina9ballerina9belfast, Antrim Ireland1,404 Posts
GoodHeartforYou: Really - you can find happiness in your own town or nearby...the internet thing is only good for some people....
Pick up a guy at the grocery store - the book store - anywhere

My thoughts: the "soulmate" "beloved" "real commitment" words are mostly idealistic and not based on reality - Happiness comes from your attitude and outlook - not from your partner / lover / mate

Wish you the best
thumbs up what he said wink


bouquet
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Oct 3, 2010 8:40 PM CST I'm thinking about "give up", am tired !
serrambi
serrambiserrambisantos, Sao Paulo Brazil5 Threads 303 Posts
You are "half" right...
If I'm at dating website, is because I realized is dificult to find some person to me here, around...
Most brazilian men think that woman with 50 years old are too old for they... Cause have a lot of young girls here...
And I think other reason is my mind? I'm too seletive, I need a man who have a good brain, open mind, who likes to think...
Is dificult anyway, on web, or real world...
I write about scientific Fiction, so, for most of persons, am a kind of a "nerd", people sometimes don't like to hear me!lol
Only to have idea, I watch "The Big Bang Theory", and I love it, in my age ! What a mand in my age or more will understand me??
Peace and prosperity ! am kind a "alien" !But thanks anyway!
comfort
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Oct 3, 2010 8:42 PM CST I'm thinking about "give up", am tired !
serrambi
serrambiserrambisantos, Sao Paulo Brazil5 Threads 303 Posts
Thank you ! I'm the generation of Woodstock, and I learned music too! You are very nice!
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Oct 3, 2010 8:43 PM CST I'm thinking about "give up", am tired !
serrambi
serrambiserrambisantos, Sao Paulo Brazil5 Threads 303 Posts
Thank you ! I'm the generation of Woodstock, and I learned music too! You are very nice!
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Oct 3, 2010 8:44 PM CST I'm thinking about "give up", am tired !
Christmas1
Christmas1Christmas1Peterborough, Ontario Canada31 Threads 2,419 Posts
Hi darling...I too know how you feel. I have "met" a lot of nice people on the threads, but alas no match. I don't expect to anymore. Just here for the laughs, excitement and camaraderie.
I too don't think I will find my soul mate and actually it is too late now. Ah! baby..I am gonna cry. I cry at the drop of a hat. I have made a couple of dear friends and I hope they are here for me for a while yet. Best of luck darling. Take care of yourself.teddybear
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Oct 3, 2010 8:47 PM CST I'm thinking about "give up", am tired !
serrambi
serrambiserrambisantos, Sao Paulo Brazil5 Threads 303 Posts
sorry, my answer is on the bottom now, after "Ballerina"!
GoodHeartforYou: Really - you can find happiness in your own town or nearby...the internet thing is only good for some people....
Pick up a guy at the grocery store - the book store - anywhere

My thoughts: the "soulmate" "beloved" "real commitment" words are mostly idealistic and not based on reality - Happiness comes from your attitude and outlook - not from your partner / lover / mate

Wish you the best
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Oct 3, 2010 8:50 PM CST I'm thinking about "give up", am tired !
FreddyFudpucker
FreddyFudpuckerFreddyFudpuckerObamaville, Indiana USA10,179 Posts
I don't blame ya. Good luck~
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