Moral Dilemma...... (94)

Oct 27, 2010 4:46 PM CST Moral Dilemma......
kielybear
kielybearkielybearLimerick, Ireland58 Threads 731 Posts
So you meet someone and start and there's and instant spark,you become friend's but the person has just told you that they have only a matter of years to live,due to illness,as many as 10 years or as little as 1 year.Now i'm not posting this tread as a way to reincarnate peoples personal trauma at the hands of disease and death,just wonder what would you do if in that situation,would you run or let true love run its course....?????

teddybear
Oct 27, 2010 4:49 PM CST Moral Dilemma......
Neenaw
NeenawNeenawcork, Cork Ireland51 Threads 3 Polls 3,888 Posts
kielybear: So you meet someone and start and there's and instant spark,you become friend's but the person has just told you that they have only a matter of years to live,due to illness,as many as 10 years or as little as 1 year.Now i'm not posting this tread as a way to reincarnate peoples personal trauma at the hands of disease and death,just wonder what would you do if in that situation,would you run or let true love run its course....?????




of course id let it run its course.
Oct 27, 2010 4:50 PM CST Moral Dilemma......
wexlady41
wexlady41wexlady41Wexford, Ireland47 Threads 5 Polls 7,935 Posts
Wow that's a tough one. I would like to think I would take a chance on that person. But in reality I'm not sure what I would do.
Oct 27, 2010 4:52 PM CST Moral Dilemma......
kielybear
kielybearkielybearLimerick, Ireland58 Threads 731 Posts
Neenaw: of course id let it run its course.


Fall in love even knowing that any day could be the last??? The hospitals,the trauma,would you allow yourself to go through it????
Oct 27, 2010 4:52 PM CST Moral Dilemma......
salanky
salankysalankydublin, Dublin Ireland90 Threads 1 Polls 9,888 Posts
let it run its course for sure. you never know when things are gonna change. my whole world changed 13 weeks ago when we lost my brother in law suddenly and there is such a void in all our lives but im so glad i knew him
Oct 27, 2010 4:53 PM CST Moral Dilemma......
kielybear
kielybearkielybearLimerick, Ireland58 Threads 731 Posts
blipper2000: ---



I'm delighted to see you can bring some sunshine to this thread,even when its got such grim subject matter handshake
Oct 27, 2010 4:54 PM CST Moral Dilemma......
Neenaw
NeenawNeenawcork, Cork Ireland51 Threads 3 Polls 3,888 Posts
kielybear: Fall in love even knowing that any day could be the last??? The hospitals,the trauma,would you allow yourself to go through it????


you cant stop who ya fall in love with ffs, unless you are superhero unemotional... if i loved them, it would be in sickness and health..

so if i have already answered please dont make me justify my answer till you get what makes you feel better. that aint me.
Oct 27, 2010 4:56 PM CST Moral Dilemma......
kielybear
kielybearkielybearLimerick, Ireland58 Threads 731 Posts
Neenaw: you cant stop who ya fall in love with ffs, unless you are superhero unemotional... if i loved them, it would be in sickness and health..

so if i have already answered please dont make me justify my answer till you get what makes you feel better. that aint me.



Wow,that told me.
Oct 27, 2010 4:57 PM CST Moral Dilemma......
kielybear
kielybearkielybearLimerick, Ireland58 Threads 731 Posts
salanky: let it run its course for sure. you never know when things are gonna change. my whole world changed 13 weeks ago when we lost my brother in law suddenly and there is such a void in all our lives but im so glad i knew him



I like that way of looking at it,i am also deeply sorry for your loss. hug
Oct 27, 2010 4:57 PM CST Moral Dilemma......
baldydude
baldydudebaldydudefermoy, Cork Ireland164 Threads 4,643 Posts
kielybear: Fall in love even knowing that any day could be the last??? The hospitals,the trauma,would you allow yourself to go through it????
any day could be a last for anyone .... i know its a daunting thought but hey if you can experience real happyness be it one year or ten it be well worth it thumbs up
Oct 27, 2010 4:58 PM CST Moral Dilemma......
Primula
PrimulaPrimulaDublin, Ireland15 Threads 1 Polls 496 Posts
kielybear: So you meet someone and start and there's and instant spark,you become friend's but the person has just told you that they have only a matter of years to live,due to illness,as many as 10 years or as little as 1 year.Now i'm not posting this tread as a way to reincarnate peoples personal trauma at the hands of disease and death,just wonder what would you do if in that situation,would you run or let true love run its course....?????


No cut all ties, no point falling madly in love knowing full well it will be short lived, imagine how hurt you would be when the person does diecomfort
Oct 27, 2010 4:58 PM CST Moral Dilemma......
kielybear
kielybearkielybearLimerick, Ireland58 Threads 731 Posts
baldydude: any day could be a last for anyone .... i know its a daunting thought but hey if you can experience real happyness be it one year or ten it be well worth it



I think its such a bittersweet situation,no one could answer it until they were faced with making it. handshake
Oct 27, 2010 4:59 PM CST Moral Dilemma......
Neenaw
NeenawNeenawcork, Cork Ireland51 Threads 3 Polls 3,888 Posts
erm... i think i have already answered it.
Oct 27, 2010 5:00 PM CST Moral Dilemma......
kielybear
kielybearkielybearLimerick, Ireland58 Threads 731 Posts
Primula: No cut all ties, no point falling madly in love knowing full well it will be short lived, imagine how hurt you would be when the person does die




The other side of the argument,well put might i add thumbs up
Oct 27, 2010 5:00 PM CST Moral Dilemma......
salanky
salankysalankydublin, Dublin Ireland90 Threads 1 Polls 9,888 Posts
Primula: No cut all ties, no point falling madly in love knowing full well it will be short lived, imagine how hurt you would be when the person does die

heres hoping you dont fall in love with someone and then god forbid you tell them you are ill and they leave you to die with a broken heart aswell
Oct 27, 2010 5:00 PM CST Moral Dilemma......
Omurchuwho
OmurchuwhoOmurchuwhoDunDealgan, Louth Ireland2 Threads 192 Posts
well im back an hour from a house wake and have a different funeral on friday as well so for once cant think of anything positive to say since im emotianally compromised ..Sorry ...blues blues

Good thread though thumbs up
Oct 27, 2010 5:00 PM CST Moral Dilemma......
blipper2000
blipper2000blipper2000dublin, Dublin Ireland69 Threads 9 Polls 6,900 Posts
kielybear: I'm delighted to see you can bring some sunshine to this thread,even when its got such grim subject matter

im cryin me little heart out here
i am a bringer of sunshine
theyre serious questions i think about before commiting myself to a serious relationship brohandshake
Oct 27, 2010 5:01 PM CST Moral Dilemma......
kielybear
kielybearkielybearLimerick, Ireland58 Threads 731 Posts
Omurchuwho: well im back an hour from a house wake and have a different funeral on friday as well so for once cant think of anything positive to say since im emotianally compromised ..Sorry ...

Good thread though


Thanks handshake


And i am also sorry for your loss.
Oct 27, 2010 5:02 PM CST Moral Dilemma......
blipper2000
blipper2000blipper2000dublin, Dublin Ireland69 Threads 9 Polls 6,900 Posts
Omurchuwho: well im back an hour from a house wake and have a different funeral on friday as well so for once cant think of anything positive to say since im emotianally compromised ..Sorry ...

Good thread though

would it be cruel of me to take the piss
im only askin nowhelp
Oct 27, 2010 5:02 PM CST Moral Dilemma......
blipper2000
blipper2000blipper2000dublin, Dublin Ireland69 Threads 9 Polls 6,900 Posts
kielybear: Thanks And i am also sorry for your loss.

thats what i meant to say
yeah
sorry for yer loss
thats itthumbs up
Post Comment - Post a comment on this Forum Thread

Stats for this Thread

2,688 Views
93 Comments
by kielybear (58 Threads)
Created: Oct 2010
Last Viewed: 11 hrs ago
Last Commented: Oct 2010

Share this Thread

We use cookies to ensure that you have the best experience possible on our website. Read Our Privacy Policy Here