Just being honest and talking straight from my heart.... (22)
mnowsaRajshahi, Rajshahi Division Bangladesh145 Threads 3 Polls 7,536 PostsI must admit that i don't really know much about women, as far as being romantically involved with them is concerned, due to some cultural and religious 'constraints'. So, in real life, i am more 'intrigued' by them as opposed to being 'critical' even though i do have a few complains about them once in a while. And i understand that i "complain" about them because of my 'limited' knowledge and interaction with them. But what about those people who complain about women even though they 'interact/mingle' with them, let's say, more than one could bargain for?! Should we assume that they know 'more' about women than one ought to do?(i am deriving this conclusion because i have always believed that there are something in this world which should rather be left unseen and unheard)
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By the way, the same goes for women also who 'complain' so much about men
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mnowsa: I must admit that i don't really know much about women, as far as being romantically involved with them is concerned, due to some cultural and religious 'constraints'. So, in real life, i am more 'intrigued' by them as opposed to being 'critical' even though i do have a few complains about them once in a while. And i understand that i "complain" about them because of my 'limited' knowledge and interaction with them. But what about those people who complain about women even though they 'interact/mingle' with them, let's say, more than one could bargain for?! Should we assume that they know 'more' about women than one ought to do?(i am deriving this conclusion because i have always believed that there are something in this world which should rather be left unseen and unheard)
Well I assume you had a mother, maybe sisters? Or maybe not. If you haven't had some sisters I can understand your quandary.... after all woman can seem quite different... especially in your culture.
I'd say the easiest way is to ask some female relative... just what would make them happy with a mate. And acknowledge that males and females would both like happy relationships.
I've found in life, that MUTUAL respect and consideration go a long way in creating a positive atmosphere. Whether east or west, many times this is not the case when we project onto other people what THEIR role should be. And I think that everyone being seen and heard is a very important part of a relationship, if you don't make the effort to hear and know someone and who they are and what their wants and wishes are... you are not communicating, that creates a negative atmosphere. Allow yourself to love someone else without the need to feel superior and you will be respected for it... I truly believe this.
If you treat others as you would like to be treated, whatever future relationship will probably flourish to the benefit of all; wife, husband and children.
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you have again to much thoughts in your mind...
sorry..teasing you about your another thread...
sorry..teasing you about your another thread...
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gininitaly: Well I assume you had a mother, maybe sisters? Or maybe not. If you haven't had some sisters I can understand your quandary.... after all woman can seem quite different... especially in your culture.
I'd say the easiest way is to ask some female relative... just what would make them happy with a mate. And acknowledge that males and females would both like happy relationships.
I've found in life, that MUTUAL respect and consideration go a long way in creating a positive atmosphere. Whether east or west, many times this is not the case when we project onto other people what THEIR role should be. And I think that everyone being seen and heard is a very important part of a relationship, if you don't make the effort to hear and know someone and who they are and what their wants and wishes are... you are not communicating, that creates a negative atmosphere. Allow yourself to love someone else without the need to feel superior and you will be respected for it... I truly believe this.
If you treat others as you would like to be treated, whatever future relationship will probably flourish to the benefit of all; wife, husband and children.
I'd say the easiest way is to ask some female relative... just what would make them happy with a mate. And acknowledge that males and females would both like happy relationships.
I've found in life, that MUTUAL respect and consideration go a long way in creating a positive atmosphere. Whether east or west, many times this is not the case when we project onto other people what THEIR role should be. And I think that everyone being seen and heard is a very important part of a relationship, if you don't make the effort to hear and know someone and who they are and what their wants and wishes are... you are not communicating, that creates a negative atmosphere. Allow yourself to love someone else without the need to feel superior and you will be respected for it... I truly believe this.
If you treat others as you would like to be treated, whatever future relationship will probably flourish to the benefit of all; wife, husband and children.
oh...i am not really complaining about women because i just don't really know 'much' about them, i think. And i am very much cool with it. I am just talking about those men/women who do seem to 'mingle' quite a lot with each other and yet complain so much about each other! why complaining if you know that you will 'need' each other to 'enjoy'?!
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lucynad: you have again to much thoughts in your mind... sorry..teasing you about your another thread...
i dare you to stop me thinking!
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mnowsa: I must admit that i don't really know much about women, as far as being romantically involved with them is concerned, due to some cultural and religious 'constraints'. So, in real life, i am more 'intrigued' by them as opposed to being 'critical' even though i do have a few complains about them once in a while. And i understand that i "complain" about them because of my 'limited' knowledge and interaction with them. But what about those people who complain about women even though they 'interact/mingle' with them, let's say, more than one could bargain for?! Should we assume that they know 'more' about women than one ought to do?(i am deriving this conclusion because i have always believed that there are something in this world which should rather be left unseen and unheard)
A woman, like children, should be seen and not heard.
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celibate: A woman, like children, should be seen and not heard.
oh..wow..i mean do u really mean that?
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She was being sarcastic.... something we often are 
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gininitaly: She was being sarcastic.... something we often are
Because many men have a hard time understanding what's going on between fact and fantasy
.Go back to my first response where I was trying to be nice
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kidatheart: Uh oh, now I'm wondering who or what that was that I slept with.
Do tell?????!!!!
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lucynad: you have again to much thoughts in your mind... sorry..teasing you about your another thread...
just trying to steer one in the right direction 
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leostartingover: Do tell?????!!!!
you look as lovely as ever leo! well..hello to you!
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gininitaly: just trying to steer one in the right direction .... if that was pertaining to me
you ladies sounds kinda 'secretive'. so do i need to be scared now?
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mnowsa: you ladies sounds kinda 'secretive'. so do i need to be scared now?
Be afraid, BE VERY AFRAID. 
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leostartingover: Do tell?????!!!!
All I remember is sounds, smells and a wet spot.
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So my instinct was right about you. Lol everyday is a learning experience both gender will never understand each other. But we do give it a try every now and then. 
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Put everything aside about cultural differences.
Put everything aside.
How would you like to be treated? With respect and kindness. We are no different than man.
Put everything aside.
How would you like to be treated? With respect and kindness. We are no different than man.
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Christmas1: Put everything aside about cultural differences.
Put everything aside.
How would you like to be treated? With respect and kindness. We are no different than man.
Put everything aside.
How would you like to be treated? With respect and kindness. We are no different than man.
thank you and i agree with you there. But i was more interested in learning why men/women complain about each other even though they seem to 'interact/mingle' with each other a lot!
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