Lonely and disappointed ( Archived) (103)

lovelyliza: TO ROBBIE,
Thanks, for responding on my topic..and you give me an honest answer..I like that...

invinciblemuse: Oh, aren't you lovely...

JSuburbia:

FunRedhead: When I hear about situations like this, it makes me think of a quote by Neil Gaiman:

“Have you ever been in love? Horrible isn't it? It makes you so vulnerable. It opens your chest and it opens up your heart and it means that someone can get inside you and mess you up. You build up all these defences, you build up a whole suit of armour, so that nothing can hurt you, then one stupid person, no different from any other stupid person, wanders into your stupid life... You give them a piece of you. They didn't ask for it. They did something dumb one day, like kiss you or smile at you, and then your life isn't your own anymore. Love takes hostages. It gets inside you. It eats you out and leaves you crying in the darkness, so simple a phrase like 'maybe we should be just friends' turns into a glass splinter working its way into your heart. It hurts. Not just in the imagination. Not just in the mind. It's a soul-hurt, a real gets-inside-you-and-rips-you-apart pain. I hate love.”

Love is like a roller coaster but we always want to ride again.

lovelyliza: Hello!!!Friends,
I know that You guys out their have different perspectives of what's going on with a relationships when it become a sourgrapes..Well,,I was dating this guy that I found here in CS, when I was just new...We been seeing each other every week for 7 months even it seems like a distance is keeping Us apart..but he would faithfully calls me, emails me, and now, I feel like he keep distant to me..He emailed me yesterday saying that he was sick...But he promised to me that he would come thursday (11/04/10)to be with me...then I don't hear from him today, even I called him 2x and sent email...

I need your advice, especially coming from the guy's point of view.. we've been talking about lots of things suchas; going on vacation to the Philippines, or living together, then all of a sudden I felt the wind get shifted.. Lonely and cold in PA...

jonnt: Maybe he has died ,,

like you said ,he did email to say he was kinda sick ....

kcuc0574: sorry to hear your sad sorry, i think you need to take rest for a few of weeks, take care of yourself healthy, and pls dont contact with him anymore, when you feel your mood okay then will reconsider the things again, ..., i think he is not the only one who can make you feel happy, then let the time decide everything, if he doesnt come back, then you pls move on,...

stefonline: Give it time honey a week or more without you contacting him....and when he is better he will get in touch....just be patient and quiet for now......it will turn around....wait you will see....

Newgirl10: Hi, Lisa... Let me tell you what I think. In the past, men could always act like this but in the past there was a romantic culture where such disrespectfull things ( like dissapearing or saying things they don´t really mean) were hidden (or better covered...). Nowadays, things become more dry, there´s no sensation of guilty anymore, so people simply say things they don´t really mean just to get whatever they want ( sometimes it is just a bit of attention for their egos)or do whatever to make themselves satisfield ( which includes not staying with anyone in specific but with all!). So, if you are true ( i feel that you are) and you made yourself clear to him and he dissapeared, i would thank God to take this kind of imature person away from you. It happens to me all the time ( i think i am in a relationship...) and I leraned to give less, expect less, but still look for what is true. Believe me, you were not for him (it´s a compliment for you, girl!).
Warm hug, dear!

JSuburbia: I bet I know something that will cheer you up....A womans best friend...chocolate