Lonely and disappointed (103)
Julia65: Hi I feel for you hunni, but don't chase him, from my experience guys hate that, maybe he just needs some space...if he loves you he'll come to you...if not although it may hurt move on it wasn't meant to be
Julia,
I like your heartfelt advice...I will do that gf...That's why I do lots of things to distract my wierd feeling about him...His still in my mind everytime...
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lovelyliza: Julia,
I like your heartfelt advice...I will do that gf...That's why I do lots of things to distract my wierd feeling about him...His still in my mind everytime...
I like your heartfelt advice...I will do that gf...That's why I do lots of things to distract my wierd feeling about him...His still in my mind everytime...
awwww
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LouiseDreaming: Ouch! That's a painfully accurate observation.
Definitely OUCH!!!....THAT'S WHY I AM HERE FOR THE PITY PARTY...
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one year and half ago, one guy said it to me... was only a lie to keep me apart...I was too near him country...so,he was only wanting to have no serious relation...is usual for men...
Sometimes I think:
Why have lot of men here looking for what ??
SO, dear, forget this man, maybe he had found another to play, is only this
..You're my freind..so friend don't advantage to each other but 
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lovelyliza: Hello!!!Friends,
I know that You guys out their have different perspectives of what's going on with a relationships when it become a sourgrapes..Well,,I was dating this guy that I found here in CS, when I was just new...We been seeing each other every week for 7 months even it seems like a distance is keeping Us apart..but he would faithfully calls me, emails me, and now, I feel like he keep distant to me..He emailed me yesterday saying that he was sick...But he promised to me that he would come thursday (11/04/10)to be with me...then I don't hear from him today, even I called him 2x and sent email...
I need your advice, especially coming from the guy's point of view.. we've been talking about lots of things suchas; going on vacation to the Philippines, or living together, then all of a sudden I felt the wind get shifted.. Lonely and cold in PA...
hi am steven all be fast for you is playing with your feeling i think your wasting time ovure him its very bad to juge a persone but is playing with you like he wants becose if he loved you sick hed sayy am not well can we get together a nother time cose am not well he shud not play with love its tha stongest thing that can hurt some one very bad dump him get a man thats onest and reely love you take care i wish you tha best.I know that You guys out their have different perspectives of what's going on with a relationships when it become a sourgrapes..Well,,I was dating this guy that I found here in CS, when I was just new...We been seeing each other every week for 7 months even it seems like a distance is keeping Us apart..but he would faithfully calls me, emails me, and now, I feel like he keep distant to me..He emailed me yesterday saying that he was sick...But he promised to me that he would come thursday (11/04/10)to be with me...then I don't hear from him today, even I called him 2x and sent email...
I need your advice, especially coming from the guy's point of view.. we've been talking about lots of things suchas; going on vacation to the Philippines, or living together, then all of a sudden I felt the wind get shifted.. Lonely and cold in PA...
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You know what?
We are all lost and disappointed
or we wouldn't be in the on-line dating sites
If, one doesn't work out
move on to the next.
It takes time to find the right
one
So,
hang in there
, and don't give up.
Good things come with patience and perserverance
We are all lost and disappointed
or we wouldn't be in the on-line dating sites If, one doesn't work out
move on to the next.It takes time to find the right
one So,
hang in there, and don't give up. Good things come with patience and perserverance
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faded_dino: You know what?
We are all lost and disappointed or we wouldn't be in the on-line dating sites
If, one doesn't work out move on to the next.
It takes time to find the right one
So, hang in there, and don't give up.
Good things come with patience and perserverance
We are all lost and disappointed or we wouldn't be in the on-line dating sites
If, one doesn't work out move on to the next.
It takes time to find the right one
So, hang in there, and don't give up.
Good things come with patience and perserverance
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Despite what anyone else said, If a Person cannot walk their talk, and do what they tell you they will do, This is A BIG RED SIGN....... yes somtimes things do happen, and that when they call and explain the problem, maybe a Car broke down, Yes he is sick but that dont stop the phone from working.....
Time will tell, But if he has games to play, You DO NOT NEED Him...
Now it up to you to decide, if it Lies and games, Run...
Thats from a Man...
Some Guys, are true, some are just alot of air...
Theirs your sign...
Time will tell, But if he has games to play, You DO NOT NEED Him...
Now it up to you to decide, if it Lies and games, Run...
Thats from a Man...
Some Guys, are true, some are just alot of air...
Theirs your sign...
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steven1965: hi am steven all be fast for you is playing with your feeling i think your wasting time ovure him its very bad to juge a persone but is playing with you like he wants becose if he loved you sick hed sayy am not well can we get together a nother time cose am not well he shud not play with love its tha stongest thing that can hurt some one very bad dump him get a man thats onest and reely love you take care i wish you tha best.
To Steven,
Thanks!!for the caring advice...that's my next move if i don't hear from him for a month....I always give people the benefits of the doubts...I think it comes from my being a care giver/work in health care that we have to find out the cuase in a problem...I knew that I am talking about my heart being broken, it's not fair
but I still want to know what's on his side if ever he sends me email...or calls me just ones..cuz we don't have a fight or anything..except that maybe he find someone better than ME!!!..------ This thread is Archived ------
faded_dino: You know what?
We are all lost and disappointed or we wouldn't be in the on-line dating sites If, one doesn't work out move on to the next.
It takes time to find the right one
So, hang in there, and don't give up.
Good things come with patience and perserverance
We are all lost and disappointed or we wouldn't be in the on-line dating sites If, one doesn't work out move on to the next.
It takes time to find the right one
So, hang in there, and don't give up.
Good things come with patience and perserverance
Where did you get that impression from? Well, you can count me out as I most certainly do not fall in the lost and disappointed category, off the beam and different, yes, definately.
People are here for all different kinds of reasons and not just the obvious, such as dating.
I hope you have a nice day, feeling lost and disappointed, each time you logon to CS.
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Veritaas: Where did you get that impression from? Well, you can count me out as I most certainly do not fall in the lost and disappointed category, off the beam and different, yes, definately.
People are here for all different kinds of reasons and not just the obvious, such as dating.
I hope you have a nice day, feeling lost and disappointed, each time you logon to CS.
People are here for all different kinds of reasons and not just the obvious, such as dating.
I hope you have a nice day, feeling lost and disappointed, each time you logon to CS.
I agree, if you were just on here for dating it may be dissapointing judging by what people post
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tomcatwarne: I agree, if you were just on here for dating it may be dissapointing judging by what people post
I agree.I do not think that it is wise to invest too much time,hope and emotion in online dating,especially when you have no idea what can be just around the corner in your real life.I have only met one person from cs in all of the time that I have been in the site. I do not feel bitter or cheated in any way.
What will be will be.
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tightboxers: I agree.I do not think that it is wise to invest too much time,hope and emotion in online dating,especially when you have no idea what can be just around the corner in your real life.I have only met one person from cs in all of the time that I have been in the site. I do not feel bitter or cheated in any way.
What will be will be.
What will be will be.
True! The old saying about not putting all your eggs in one basket definitely applies to online dating!!! Quite honestly, the forums are what keep me here....
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tightboxers: I agree.I do not think that it is wise to invest too much time,hope and emotion in online dating,especially when you have no idea what can be just around the corner in your real life.I have only met one person from cs in all of the time that I have been in the site. I do not feel bitter or cheated in any way.
What will be will be.
What will be will be.
Agree'd....I'd say in my 3 years or so...I've met maybe 3 people that I've REALLY been intrigued by enough to develop a crush over...but in the end, that's all they ever were (although I could have seen me with one of them if it hadn't been for a few obstacles that got in the way)
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tightboxers: I agree.I do not think that it is wise to invest too much time,hope and emotion in online dating,especially when you have no idea what can be just around the corner in your real life.I have only met one person from cs in all of the time that I have been in the site. I do not feel bitter or cheated in any way.
What will be will be.
What will be will be.
Well that's one more than I have met, and I certainely won't change that in the near future. I only stay here for the discussion and interaction with OP.
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lovelyliza: Hello!!!Friends,
I know that You guys out their have different perspectives of what's going on with a relationships when it become a sourgrapes..Well,,I was dating this guy that I found here in CS, when I was just new...We been seeing each other every week for 7 months even it seems like a distance is keeping Us apart..but he would faithfully calls me, emails me, and now, I feel like he keep distant to me..He emailed me yesterday saying that he was sick...But he promised to me that he would come thursday (11/04/10)to be with me...then I don't hear from him today, even I called him 2x and sent email...
I need your advice, especially coming from the guy's point of view.. we've been talking about lots of things suchas; going on vacation to the Philippines, or living together, then all of a sudden I felt the wind get shifted.. Lonely and cold in PA...
I know that You guys out their have different perspectives of what's going on with a relationships when it become a sourgrapes..Well,,I was dating this guy that I found here in CS, when I was just new...We been seeing each other every week for 7 months even it seems like a distance is keeping Us apart..but he would faithfully calls me, emails me, and now, I feel like he keep distant to me..He emailed me yesterday saying that he was sick...But he promised to me that he would come thursday (11/04/10)to be with me...then I don't hear from him today, even I called him 2x and sent email...
I need your advice, especially coming from the guy's point of view.. we've been talking about lots of things suchas; going on vacation to the Philippines, or living together, then all of a sudden I felt the wind get shifted.. Lonely and cold in PA...
dont give up, it takes a bit of time to work out the good people from the time wasters on this site but there are good people here mainly on the forums so stick with us.
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Goddess4u: Here's a hug
To Goddess4u,
Thanks!!!for the hug....
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lovelyliza: To DF,
First of all let me say to you,,,GOOD TO SEE YOU AGAIN!!!..I know the consequences but somehow, I have to gamble...Everything in life takes courage...So, for my situation right now!!!...I look at this way..when I take love and relationship, I take it to heart..i don't have time to play games cuz I am not a kid anymore, and so do ppl in here..If, HE does happened to read my "pity me" forum/blog, either He gets mad at me and don't write nor call me. I just take it as a stride in my life it's not the end of the world for me..As the saying says"ONE DOOR CLOSE AND ANOTHER DOOR WILL OPEN"..I thank God that He gives ME this positive attitude outlook in life...::cheering: :
TY for your heartfelt advice..
First of all let me say to you,,,GOOD TO SEE YOU AGAIN!!!..I know the consequences but somehow, I have to gamble...Everything in life takes courage...So, for my situation right now!!!...I look at this way..when I take love and relationship, I take it to heart..i don't have time to play games cuz I am not a kid anymore, and so do ppl in here..If, HE does happened to read my "pity me" forum/blog, either He gets mad at me and don't write nor call me. I just take it as a stride in my life it's not the end of the world for me..As the saying says"ONE DOOR CLOSE AND ANOTHER DOOR WILL OPEN"..I thank God that He gives ME this positive attitude outlook in life...::cheering: :
TY for your heartfelt advice..
Good for you Liza. The best way to handle this situation is to back off a bit. See if he then wonders why you have. If he never answers ,you have what it takes to get anyone you are interested in and it's his loss. Best wishes and Good luck! you always have a great attitude.Holly
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I've been in that position myself, where i had to let go for someone elses benefit, and put me last, but it seemed the right thing to do.
I've also been in the position of within 7 days of returning from a girlfriends home (abroad) i was on morphine, and about to suffer double lung failure (which i did) and subsequently very nearly died in hospital....so believe me, although unlikely something might well have come up.
I even had to get someone on the site to pass some messages for me, as i actually expected to die in hospital....so you really don't know what is around the corner!
Live and learn, lifes short, so don't waste your time with anyone who will make you unhappy or drag you down...and that's what my journey now is all about....never want to feel like i did ever again.
Good luck.
To ROBB,
I feel so sudden sad with your story...Are you really sick that bad???..I knew, sometimes I think I am is/ was only in HIS convenient...but i give my heart and soul for this guy...Now,,I'm learning and try to shut my broken heart...But good luck to you also...here's to you my friend