lovelyliza: To DF, Just for curiousity...how old is your friend??//..Can't she find happiness in some other ways???...cuz not only man/guy can fulfill our happiness. In my opinion,and my experience since I been divorce for a long time..there's been a real hard blows in my entire life..i always asked God to heal my loneliness, but i am one of the high spirited person, that won't surrender to any calamities/bad circumstances that occured in my entire life here in US...Actually, I relied on my families(my two sons, and my granddaughter that wipes out my loneliness) and my friends(best friends)...I just had an"SPINAL CORD SURGERY"-THE ILLNESS FOR THE PEOPLE WHO PLAYS SPORTS...If I don't get that surgery I could be paralyzed for life...I am only 2 months and a half since the surgery..but I am ready to go back to the work force...But I can't go back lifting ppl/patients..so, I have to get a job for counseling...I resume for karaoke,,and just been on ballroom dancing tonight!!and met some new ppl....The mean thing I don't let someone ruin my life..nor an illness put me down...Pls..tell your friends to join a group..or find a hobby..
WOW... such a talented, social, and special woman.. Such education, personality, looks, social skills, and an amazing grasp of the human condition.. Most ignorant lil trouble makers like me wonder.. With all that going for you... are you just "slumming" or what the hell are you doing here..??? ---SoldierByte---
SoldierByte: I DO know of one for sure here... But the worst bunny-boilers I have dated were not from CS.. the three scariest were from POF, and the one with the 7 toes was from match, and the other ones with just minor "legal" and mental "discrepencies" in their life were from various other sites.. So now... I mainly stick with CS and okC for my dating and forum needs..
---SoldierByte---
WOW!!!yOU'VE BEEN AROUND THE WORLD SOLDIER!!!You said; as I qoute"the three scarest is in POF-PLENTY OF FISH"..i hope my friend don't talk to you..cuz she was/is in POF and who knows in many sites...ME..i wouldn't go anywhere..only here in CS...I love it here...No WONDER THE TONE OF YOUR VOICE HAS SUCH A RESENTMENTS TO EVERYONE...
mbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA16,449 posts
demonfairy: A good friend of mine wrote me asking,How can i find some one to love?No one will want me with my health problems.I don't get around as well as i used to,but i still want someone to love.I don't want to spend my last years alone. It broke my heart to hear her talk like this.I told her a lot of people had health problems,more so with age.Not to worry,they could help each other get threw any thing.That she would fine love,even with health issues.Would you be willing to commit to a person that wasn't 100% healthy?
Being in a similar situation as your friend, I understand how she feels. Maybe she should join the site and see what happens.
lovelyliza: WOW!!!yOU'VE BEEN AROUND THE WORLD SOLDIER!!!You said; as I qoute"the three scarest is in POF-PLENTY OF FISH"..i hope my friend don't talk to you..cuz she was/is in POF and who knows in many sites...ME..i wouldn't go anywhere..only here in CS...I love it here...No WONDER THE TONE OF YOUR VOICE HAS SUCH A RESENTMENTS TO EVERYONE...
Liza,Solder-byte is one of the nicest men on here if you get to know him.He likes to cut up,theirs nothing wrong with that,but he can be serious at times..
demonfairy: Liza,Solder-byte is one of the nicest men on here if you get to know him.He likes to cut up,theirs nothing wrong with that,but he can be serious at times..
Ms DemonFairy.. let her be.. iffin she really believes I dated a gal with seven toes.!! How long before you think the scammers will have her..?? --SB---
demonfairy: Liza,Solder-byte is one of the nicest men on here if you get to know him.He likes to cut up,theirs nothing wrong with that,but he can be serious at times..
SoldierByte: WOW... such a talented, social, and special woman.. Such education, personality, looks, social skills, and an amazing grasp of the human condition.. Most ignorant lil trouble makers like me wonder.. With all that going for you... are you just "slumming" or what the hell are you doing here..??? ---SoldierByte---
JUST ANSWERING BACK YOUR SARCASTIC REMARK!!!SOLDIER!!!i AM NO LIAR OR WHAT SO EVER..I AM TELLING YOU THE TRUTH...aND ONE THING i HATE..IF SOMEONE AIRS OUT A PROBLEM..AND THAT MEANS ASKING FOR A LITTLE COMPASSION..AND SOMEONE LIKE YOUR ATTITUDE CAME OUT..AND RUINS IT BEC..OF YOUR STUPIDITY..AND FOOLISH PRIDE...BUT I TELL YOU WHAT MY JOB IS REALLY IN THE HEALTHCARE,AND SOC, WORK..IF YOU DON'T BELIEVE..I COULD CARELESS..BUT YOOUR ARROGANT CHARACTER THAT MAKES ME
In response to: A good friend of mine wrote me asking,How can i find some one to love?No one will want me with my health problems.I don't get around as well as i used to,but i still want someone to love.I don't want to spend my last years alone. It broke my heart to hear her talk like this.I told her a lot of people had health problems,more so with age.Not to worry,they could help each other get threw any thing.That she would fine love,even with health issues.Would you be willing to commit to a person that wasn't 100% healthy?
I did . He was the funniest person ive ever met in my life...
For the last 11 years I have had Fibromyalgia, basically chronic pain. It won't kill me but it can make life difficult at times. I have found for me that as long as I avoid stress, eat right and take my vitamins I do ok, but I can't hold a job due to catching colds and flu too easy and missing to much work. Men I have dated even before my getting sick only seemed to care about how much money I have or how much I can bring home...
I guess the best way to look at it is it weeds out the insincere and shallow a lot faster.
demonfairy: Liza,Solder-byte is one of the nicest men on here if you get to know him.He likes to cut up,theirs nothing wrong with that,but he can be serious at times..
To DF, I don't know HIm...but I don't want to hear someone saying something bad bec, I am also an "UMBUDSMAN"--I work for the state, and defended those elderly, mentally,and physically disadvantage..and report those abusers...and I think HIS one of themmmm...Sorry, DF. but I am with the people who are unfortunate..I want the world to be friendly..not insulting,and demeaning words to someone....
SoldierByte: Ms DemonFairy.. let her be.. iffin she really believes I dated a gal with seven toes.!! How long before you think the scammers will have her..?? --SB---
For your INFO..I ALREADY GRADUATED FOR SCAMMERS/PLAYERS 101..HE,HE,HE
I am the guy your mama warned you about.. the man the police advise you about.. and the kind that continually put you in your place cause you are so incapable of getting, much less keeping a man that you turned into a man hater.. I have NO sympathy for the likes of you.. and I love putting you where you belong.. RIGHT BACK in the corner with the rest of the wanna be's.... ---SB---
SoldierByte: I am the guy your mama warned you about.. the man the police advise you about.. and the kind that continually put you in your place cause you are so incapable of getting, much less keeping a man that you turned into a man hater.. I have NO sympathy for the likes of you.. and I love putting you where you belong.. RIGHT BACK in the corner with the rest of the wanna be's.... ---SB---
Nov 14, 2010 8:24 PM CST How can they love me with?
HarlerPalmerston North, Manawatu-Wanganui New Zealand1 Posts
HarlerPalmerston North, Manawatu-Wanganui New Zealand1 posts
Well I Am 60 With Health Problems And Have Had No Problem Finding Love You Just Have To Put Youself Out There With Confidence Where There Is A Will There Is A Way Good Luck
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Just for curiousity...how old is your friend??//..Can't she find happiness in some other ways???...cuz not only man/guy can fulfill our happiness. In my opinion,and my experience since I been divorce for a long time..there's been a real hard blows in my entire life..i always asked God to heal my loneliness, but i am one of the high spirited person, that won't surrender to any calamities/bad circumstances that occured in my entire life here in US...Actually, I relied on my families(my two sons, and my granddaughter that wipes out my loneliness) and my friends(best friends)...I just had an"SPINAL CORD SURGERY"-THE ILLNESS FOR THE PEOPLE WHO PLAYS SPORTS...If I don't get that surgery I could be paralyzed for life...I am only 2 months and a half since the surgery..but I am ready to go back to the work force...But I can't go back lifting ppl/patients..so, I have to get a job for counseling...I resume for karaoke,,and just been on ballroom dancing tonight!!and met some new ppl....The mean thing I don't let someone ruin my life..nor an illness put me down...Pls..tell your friends to join a group..or find a hobby..
WOW...
such a talented, social, and special woman..
Such education, personality, looks, social skills,
and an amazing grasp of the human condition..
Most ignorant lil trouble makers like me wonder..
With all that going for you...
are you just "slumming" or
what the hell are you doing here..???
---SoldierByte---