How can they love me with? ( Archived) (124)

Nov 14, 2010 2:06 PM CST How can they love me with?
demonfairy
demonfairydemonfairyNewton, North Carolina USA76 Threads 2 Polls 2,278 Posts
A good friend of mine wrote me asking,How can i find some one to love?No one will want me with my health problems.I don't get around as well as i used to,but i still want someone to love.I don't want to spend my last years alone.
It broke my heart to hear her talk like this.I told her a lot of people had health problems,more so with age.Not to worry,they could help each other get threw any thing.That she would fine love,even with health issues.Would you be willing to commit to a person that wasn't 100% healthy?teddybear
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Nov 14, 2010 2:08 PM CST How can they love me with?
time4fun4u
time4fun4utime4fun4uAlicante, Valencia Spain18 Threads 1 Polls 10,066 Posts
demonfairy: A good friend of mine wrote me asking,How can i find some one to love?No one will want me with my health problems.I don't get around as well as i used to,but i still want someone to love.I don't want to spend my last years alone.
It broke my heart to hear her talk like this.I told her a lot of people had health problems,more so with age.Not to worry,they could help each other get threw any thing.That she would fine love,even with health issues.Would you be willing to commit to a person that wasn't 100% healthy?
Yes, if i found a woman i loved,it wouldnt make any difference.If she couldnt walk,i would carry her,if she no arms, i would be her arms,if she was blind, i would be her eyes.
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Nov 14, 2010 2:09 PM CST How can they love me with?
JSuburbia
JSuburbiaJSuburbiaOrbisonia, Pennsylvania USA17 Threads 2,518 Posts
demonfairy: A good friend of mine wrote me asking,How can i find some one to love?No one will want me with my health problems.I don't get around as well as i used to,but i still want someone to love.I don't want to spend my last years alone.
It broke my heart to hear her talk like this.I told her a lot of people had health problems,more so with age.Not to worry,they could help each other get threw any thing.That she would fine love,even with health issues.Would you be willing to commit to a person that wasn't 100% healthy?



In all honesty, as far as myself, I would say it would depend on what exactly their health problem was. There are some things I could cope with more so than I could with others.
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Nov 14, 2010 2:10 PM CST How can they love me with?
StillOfTheNight
StillOfTheNightStillOfTheNightClarenville Area, Newfoundland Canada11 Threads 2,832 Posts
I hope there is someone who would commit to someone with less than perfect health because if not, I am pretty much wasting my time
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Nov 14, 2010 2:10 PM CST How can they love me with?
demonfairy
demonfairydemonfairyNewton, North Carolina USA76 Threads 2 Polls 2,278 Posts
If i loved that person i would.None of us are perfect,i think most people as they get older are on some kind of medicine.Me i have allergy's,i wake up every morning sneezing for about 5 mins.I go take my allergy pill,i am ok the rest of the day.
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Nov 14, 2010 2:11 PM CST How can they love me with?
Elmorya
ElmoryaElmoryaMidrand, Gauteng South Africa5 Threads 484 Posts
Introduce her to CS, give her a few lessons & you may never know!
She could beat us all to it!
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Nov 14, 2010 2:12 PM CST How can they love me with?
time4fun4u
time4fun4utime4fun4uAlicante, Valencia Spain18 Threads 1 Polls 10,066 Posts
demonfairy: If i loved that person i would.None of us are perfect,i think most people as they get older are on some kind of medicine.Me i have allergy's,i wake up every morning sneezing for about 5 mins.I go take my allergy pill,i am ok the rest of the day.
Cant you just stick the tablet up your nostril before you go to sleep?
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Nov 14, 2010 2:13 PM CST How can they love me with?
tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK289 Threads 7 Polls 17,106 Posts
I would, if I loved her,
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Nov 14, 2010 2:13 PM CST How can they love me with?
demonfairy
demonfairydemonfairyNewton, North Carolina USA76 Threads 2 Polls 2,278 Posts
time4fun4u: Cant you just stick the tablet up your nostril before you go to sleep?
rolling on the floor laughing i guess i could grind it up and sniff it,but that might make me sneeze to.rolling on the floor laughing
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Nov 14, 2010 2:14 PM CST How can they love me with?
FreddyFudpucker
FreddyFudpuckerFreddyFudpuckerObamaville, Indiana USA10,179 Posts
Once people hit their 50's health problems start cropping up.
I'm not in perfect health and really don't know too many that are.

It might be a problem for those "who will not settle". dunno
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Nov 14, 2010 2:15 PM CST How can they love me with?
xxDandelionxx
xxDandelionxxxxDandelionxxunknown, Hampshire, England UK8 Threads 2,525 Posts
demonfairy: A good friend of mine wrote me asking,How can i find some one to love?No one will want me with my health problems.I don't get around as well as i used to,but i still want someone to love.I don't want to spend my last years alone.
It broke my heart to hear her talk like this.I told her a lot of people had health problems,more so with age.Not to worry,they could help each other get threw any thing.That she would fine love,even with health issues.Would you be willing to commit to a person that wasn't 100% healthy?


I have not always been 100% healthy. I am fine now (I think) though nothing is guaranteed for any of us, is it?

Despite that, I have a fella who loves me and is wonderful. smitten

I'm not denying its not hard, it is. Not everyone has the steadfast resolve to deal with potential ill-health issues, it will definitely take the "right person".

Tell your friend that even when it seems totally hopeless..... you just never know - truly! It was the last thing I expected. It doesn't mean I am any less a worthy person, it just takes an enlightened man, with insight, a positive outlook on the future we could have together, and a little more about him, to see what someone truly has to offer?

Good luck to her.... her time WILL come! And give her these from me? -----> bouquet
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Nov 14, 2010 2:15 PM CST How can they love me with?
BellaTheRebel48
BellaTheRebel48BellaTheRebel48Minneapolis, Minnesota USA7 Threads 2 Polls 242 Posts
Since I get all my dates from nursing homes and senior assisted living communities, I would have to state that...yes, I would be willing to commit to a person that is not 100% healthy.

None of us are getting any younger and many of us just can't stand to be reminded of our mortality. So, I think that some people would have a problem with dating someone who has health problems, especially if they are severe.

I, do however, draw the line at dating people with STDs, for obvious reasons.professor
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Nov 14, 2010 2:16 PM CST How can they love me with?
time4fun4u
time4fun4utime4fun4uAlicante, Valencia Spain18 Threads 1 Polls 10,066 Posts
xxDandelionxx: I have not always been 100% healthy. I am fine now (I think) though nothing is guaranteed for any of us, is it?

Despite that, I have a fella who loves me and is wonderful.

I'm not denying its not hard, it is. Not everyone has the steadfast resolve to deal with potential ill-health issues, it will definitely take the "right person".

Tell your friend that even when it seems totally hopeless..... you just never know - truly! It was the last thing I expected. It doesn't mean I am any less a worthy person, it just takes an enlightened man, with insight, a positive outlook on the future we could have together, and a little more about him, to see what someone truly has to offer?

Good luck to her.... her time WILL come! And give her these from me? ----->
thumbs up bouquet
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Nov 14, 2010 2:18 PM CST How can they love me with?
scottyburd
scottyburdscottyburdglasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK6,016 Posts
No one can explain why they fall in love,love is a very powerful emotion that we cant control,love has no conditions, love has no class,love has no disabilities love brings out the very best in us no matter what condition we are in..bouquet
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Nov 14, 2010 2:21 PM CST How can they love me with?
patmac
patmacpatmacglasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK730 Threads 6 Polls 9,662 Posts
Given the age of most of the folk on CS I doubt very much there is many who have not had or is having a problem ....

That is probably the most realistic way of looking at things

As always JMO ....grin cheers
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Nov 14, 2010 2:21 PM CST How can they love me with?
demonfairy
demonfairydemonfairyNewton, North Carolina USA76 Threads 2 Polls 2,278 Posts
It makes you think,we all could get sick tomorrow.Would the person you love, that says they love you still stay around and help you threw it,or would they pick up and leave for some one else.Me i would stay,some want,that's life,its about ones personality i guess.
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Nov 14, 2010 2:22 PM CST How can they love me with?
RobbieM
RobbieMRobbieMHertford, Hertfordshire, England UK115 Threads 6 Polls 4,553 Posts
You never know what will happen with your health, or love life.

I speak from experience, as not so long ago i came home from my intendeds, to find a misdiagnosed case of pneumonia, and 5 days later had double lung failure!

I'm fine now, but the week before i was sat on a beach feeling tired eating icecream, and the following sunday throwing up blood.

There fore the grace of god etc etc.

Hopefully, touch wood i won't have any health problems again, as that case of being misdiagnosed very nearly killed me! Thanks doc!!doh
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Nov 14, 2010 2:25 PM CST How can they love me with?
demonfairy
demonfairydemonfairyNewton, North Carolina USA76 Threads 2 Polls 2,278 Posts
RobbieM: You never know what will happen with your health, or love life.

I speak from experience, as not so long ago i came home from my intendeds, to find a misdiagnosed case of pneumonia, and 5 days later had double lung failure!

I'm fine now, but the week before i was sat on a beach feeling tired eating icecream, and the following sunday throwing up blood.

There fore the grace of god etc etc.

Hopefully, touch wood i won't have any health problems again, as that case of being misdiagnosed very nearly killed me! Thanks doc!!

I for one am glad you are still with us.hug wave
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Nov 14, 2010 2:25 PM CST How can they love me with?
Sunnydaze14
Sunnydaze14Sunnydaze14Dublin, Ireland105 Threads 3 Polls 2,870 Posts
demonfairy: A good friend of mine wrote me asking,How can i find some one to love?No one will want me with my health problems.I don't get around as well as i used to,but i still want someone to love.I don't want to spend my last years alone.
It broke my heart to hear her talk like this.I told her a lot of people had health problems,more so with age.Not to worry,they could help each other get threw any thing.That she would fine love,even with health issues.Would you be willing to commit to a person that wasn't 100% healthy?


I'm sorry to say that there is one form of illness that I could not live with - severe mental illness.
I have seen the devastation it causes and while I sympathise with sufferers (who are not to blame for there illness) I just know that I could not live with someone who suffers from it severely.

Any other illness can be dealt with.
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Nov 14, 2010 2:26 PM CST How can they love me with?
time4fun4u
time4fun4utime4fun4uAlicante, Valencia Spain18 Threads 1 Polls 10,066 Posts
RobbieM: You never know what will happen with your health, or love life.

I speak from experience, as not so long ago i came home from my intendeds, to find a misdiagnosed case of pneumonia, and 5 days later had double lung failure!

I'm fine now, but the week before i was sat on a beach feeling tired eating icecream, and the following sunday throwing up blood.

There fore the grace of god etc etc.

Hopefully, touch wood i won't have any health problems again, as that case of being misdiagnosed very nearly killed me! Thanks doc!!
Close call mate cheers
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