dont underestimate not having to deal with other peoples expectations. doing things in your own time at your own convenience. im lucky not to be given to lonelyness,i dont need another person just for the sake of having someone with me all the time. of coure its wonderful to have someone there you really care about but its at a price of personal freedom.
the best part of being single is that you can dream again the worst part you don't pursuit them I guess.I am thinking I want another live.I am tired of the sleeping,eating,working,eating,sometim funcking,sleeping-routine.But in a way I am just a puppet with strings pulling me in the same routine over and over again.Why?I would like to live somewhere else but why don't I do that?
trueheart1941brentwood essex, Essex, England UK8,005 posts
to me...lonelieness....when all your family dies.is one of the most...devastating..thing that can happen to a person.all i have is memories.....thats all..i have got...i live in a small village...where nothings happens....evenings are the worst.i dont recommend...it.the weather ,theses last few weeks has not helped.i have just resently lost the love of my life.so this is all new to me.has anybody who has been though this have any suggestions....you never know it might help.......
trueheart1941: to me...lonelieness....when all your family dies.is one of the most...devastating..thing that can happen to a person.all i have is memories.....thats all..i have got...i live in a small village...where nothings happens....evenings are the worst.i dont recommend...it.the weather ,theses last few weeks has not helped.i have just resently lost the love of my life.so this is all new to me.has anybody who has been though this have any suggestions....you never know it might help.......
I lost my daughter True Heart she was 29, my boyfriend died too we only had 3 n a 1/2 years - if you ever want to talk, just message me
Nothing compares when we speak loss, it is personal and subjective and I feel for you
trueheart1941: to me...lonelieness....when all your family dies.is one of the most...devastating..thing that can happen to a person.all i have is memories.....thats all..i have got...i live in a small village...where nothings happens....evenings are the worst.i dont recommend...it.the weather ,theses last few weeks has not helped.i have just resently lost the love of my life.so this is all new to me.has anybody who has been though this have any suggestions....you never know it might help.......
trueheart1941: to me...lonelieness....when all your family dies.is one of the most...devastating..thing that can happen to a person.all i have is memories.....thats all..i have got...i live in a small village...where nothings happens....evenings are the worst.i dont recommend...it.the weather ,theses last few weeks has not helped.i have just resently lost the love of my life.so this is all new to me.has anybody who has been though this have any suggestions....you never know it might help.......
Hi trueheart I don't have any suggestions but I do know all to well how you feel.4 yrs ago I lost my husband and then Sept 12, 2010 I lost my older brother who was also my best friend as well.
I just took and still take one day at a time.I also try to think about and recall the good times too and what an important roll they played in my life.I've chosen to just remember that even they've both gone to alot better place that they'll always be with me in spirit.
trueheart1941brentwood essex, Essex, England UK8,005 posts
Ccincy: Hi trueheart I don't have any suggestions but I do know all to well how you feel.4 yrs ago I lost my husband and then Sept 12, 2010 I lost my older brother who was also my best friend as well.
I just took and still take one day at a time.I also try to think about and recall the good times too and what an important roll they played in my life.I've chosen to just remember that even they've both gone to alot better place that they'll always be with me in spirit.
hi...C?C....thats very true. for me thinking of allthe good times...thats what hurts the most...i cannot remember any bad times..they were few and far apart.i suppose...i was ..lucky......thanks C/C.
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