julsangel: I get sent messages and I reply making it crystal clear about what I am looking for, a man with old fashion values and they are off like a shot.
Looking at Your Profile Says NOTHING, about Looking for old fashioned Values, Maybe putting this in your profile, could Eliminate some of the wrong ones from mailing You,
Many dont say enough in a profile, Then we must GUESS, I hate to see a Profile that says so little... Kinda scare me, as I wonder if they have someting to hide, or in it for wrong reasons, Not that Mine is any better, but I do put JUST what I desire in My Profile... Hope this Helps...
julsangel: I get sent messages and I reply making it crystal clear about what I am looking for, a man with old fashion values and they are off like a shot.
Swissblueeyes: dont feel bad..i just got a message yesterday from a 64 year old man who has a 10 year old photo up of himself and his profile says hes looking for age 25-50..lol..i mean really..does he think a 25 year old girl is going to want him? plus he has a 10 year old photo up and he doesnt look so good 10 years ago..i can only imagine what hes like currently..the lengths some guys go to, to deceive women is pathetic.. but i just delete those types and move on..no sense in us letting the bad ones ruin things..right?
God I thought I looked good for 85 .....What do folk think? what if you ever meet? Is the poor lass supposed to cart your oxygen bottle ?
As for the OP,s question old fashioned values how back...To the days of the Vikings and a bit of old fashioned Pillaging ...Only kidding.
Nothing wrong with what you want, it will happen one day,but, you cannot strike it lucky without meeting a few chancers...As always JMO
ya he certainly was..i mean really, i talked to him on the phone 3 different days and every time he came across as a nice guy and insisted he was a "nice guy"..then we meet and he acted like that? lol i guess some people think they can trick us? or that we dont mean what we say?
Swissblueeyes: ya he certainly was..i mean really, i talked to him on the phone 3 different days and every time he came across as a nice guy and insisted he was a "nice guy"..then we meet and he acted like that? lol i guess some people think they can trick us? or that we dont mean what we say?
yes but testing the waters is pretty much the developmental stage of a 5 year old
Swissblueeyes: ya he certainly was..i mean really, i talked to him on the phone 3 different days and every time he came across as a nice guy and insisted he was a "nice guy"..then we meet and he acted like that? lol i guess some people think they can trick us? or that we dont mean what we say?
Some people have an over inflated ego and they think they can twist people to their own ends.
Its a pity cause people start to think all men are like that, and they miss out on what a real relationship is like.
vinny1967: Some people have an over inflated ego and they think they can twist people to their own ends.
Its a pity cause people start to think all men are like that, and they miss out on what a real relationship is like.
i agree but unfortnately in michigan there are at least half the male population like him here..so yes most women think all the men here in this state are bad
HotrodLarrys: I agree, a phone call makes alot of sence, and gives opportunity to really be able to ask questions, and truely find out so much more that E-mails....Tho Anyone who has to INSIST that they are a good person, is a RED FLAG, a True Person with a True heart, dont have to Insist, The will just be themselves...
don't agree necessarily. I think we have a sense if mistrust that is somewhat legit because of all the scammers out there - when we meet people IRL we often have some context for knowing them & have enough knowledge of them to know if we can trust them, but not on here, necessarily
In another context (not on here) I have been accused of things that there is NO FRIGGIN WAY I would have done - I think we prolly all have. Then you do have to protest that ur trustworthy. to say nothing is like an admission
felixis99: I agree, I think it boils down to preferences a good bit and if the OP is going to be here she will need to exercize her delete key finger like the rest of us do
True, But it does take a while on Here to experience these things... when I first came on here it was awful Decieving, Now i see more Clearly...
So Nothing wrong with the OP, she is probably just less experienced to Players, and yes it is sad to be Misled by Anyone...
Swissblueeyes: i agree but unfortnately in michigan there are at least half the male population like him here..so yes most women think all the men here in this state are bad
Never been so couldn't comment but it sure dont sound good
HotrodLarrys: True, But it does take a while on Here to experience these things... when I first came on here it was awful Decieving, Now i see more Clearly...
So Nothing wrong with the OP, she is probably just less experienced to Players, and yes it is sad to be Misled by Anyone...
yes I think that's true - agreed - she seems a little naieve to eve nbe surprised about any of this
felixis99: don't agree necessarily. I think we have a sense if mistrust that is somewhat legit because of all the scammers out there - when we meet people IRL we often have some context for knowing them & have enough knowledge of them to know if we can trust them, but not on here, necessarily
In another context (not on here) I have been accused of things that there is NO FRIGGIN WAY I would have done - I think we prolly all have. Then you do have to protest that ur trustworthy. to say nothing is like an admission
Good point, To me, as I said earlier, slow is the best way that I have found, Anyone who seems to want to rush you, as their is not a tomorrow, Is another flag, I sure dont have all the answers, for sure, and not so quick to Give out My Number, or e adress, I only learned to move slowly, If they are in a rush, they can pass me by... and many have, Lol Im Not Desperate, or in a Hurry, just await a Sincere True Love for the right reason, I have time, and rather be alone, than with the wrong one..
vinny1967: Some people have an over inflated ego and they think they can twist people to their own ends.
Its a pity cause people start to think all men are like that, and they miss out on what a real relationship is like.
well I think we all know that genralisations about either gender is a fool's errand...I know that all men aren't like that (even tho I tease about it sometimes - I try to make it clear I'm joking)
times are I don't know what I'd do with out my male friends.
And I have male friends & relatives who are wonderful husbands & fathers
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