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claudyaBucharest, Muntenia Romania287 Threads 9 Polls 4,018 PostsDo u really have trust in the person u met in net and chat with u many hours and says he is glad he met u and wants something serious with u??Ok ,I met someone on other site,we chat many hours there,he said he is glad everytime we chat,I know is not correct what I did but I wanted to check him and I made other profile there and he added me fast and start flirt with me and told me he is single.I know we didn't meet yet in real but is about trust ,so what do u think is normal we chat many people in same time?I know majority of men do this,but women are not like this,they put more soul in a relationship.
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hi claudya 
If chat just for talk as friend seem its common I do chat with some friends form here because basicly we just build as friendship. But never cover it up if you wanna serious relatioship with somebody, like you said trust is main base of relation. No matter in chat or real life we need to build a trust for each other.
But if a man say same thing to all woman that he chat, that he mention about want to serious but do same with other girl then he didn't really serious, better you move on your life & find a man who you can trust beside you love too.
If chat just for talk as friend seem its common I do chat with some friends form here because basicly we just build as friendship. But never cover it up if you wanna serious relatioship with somebody, like you said trust is main base of relation. No matter in chat or real life we need to build a trust for each other.
But if a man say same thing to all woman that he chat, that he mention about want to serious but do same with other girl then he didn't really serious, better you move on your life & find a man who you can trust beside you love too.
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claudya: Do u really have trust in the person u met in net and chat with u many hours and says he is glad he met u and wants something serious with u??Ok ,I met someone on other site,we chat many hours there,he said he is glad everytime we chat,I know is not correct what I did but I wanted to check him and I made other profile there and he added me fast and start flirt with me and told me he is single.I know we didn't meet yet in real but is about trust ,so what do u think is normal we chat many people in same time?I know majority of men do this,but women are not like this,they put more soul in a relationship.
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claudya: Do u really have trust in the person u met in net and chat with u many hours and says he is glad he met u and wants something serious with u??Ok ,I met someone on other site,we chat many hours there,he said he is glad everytime we chat,I know is not correct what I did but I wanted to check him and I made other profile there and he added me fast and start flirt with me and told me he is single.I know we didn't meet yet in real but is about trust ,so what do u think is normal we chat many people in same time?I know majority of men do this,but women are not like this,they put more soul in a relationship.
Oh lord...
If you search for signs of infidelity, you will find them!So, what exactly does your clever trick prove?? That someone, you had a few chats with, is also friendly to other people. Nothing else, IMO.
You are the one with the problem here, not the other person.
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Dear muse to be friendly is one thing and say to other women same things that u want to meet them is diffrent,excuse me but I don't like cheaters who say to all women same thing.
invinciblemuse: Oh lord... If you search for signs of infidelity, you will find them!
So, what exactly does your clever trick prove?? That someone, you had a few chats with, is also friendly to other people. Nothing else, IMO.
You are the one with the problem here, not the other person.
So, what exactly does your clever trick prove?? That someone, you had a few chats with, is also friendly to other people. Nothing else, IMO.
You are the one with the problem here, not the other person.
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Hi Liv,if he' s just a friend I don't care his private life,I was referring at a guy who says same thing to all women,and of course is not a good one.
lavina: hi claudya
If chat just for talk as friend seem its common I do chat with some friends form here because basicly we just build as friendship. But never cover it up if you wanna serious relatioship with somebody, like you said trust is main base of relation. No matter in chat or real life we need to build a trust for each other.
But if a man say same thing to all woman that he chat, that he mention about want to serious but do same with other girl then he didn't really serious, better you move on your life & find a man who you can trust beside you love too.
If chat just for talk as friend seem its common I do chat with some friends form here because basicly we just build as friendship. But never cover it up if you wanna serious relatioship with somebody, like you said trust is main base of relation. No matter in chat or real life we need to build a trust for each other.
But if a man say same thing to all woman that he chat, that he mention about want to serious but do same with other girl then he didn't really serious, better you move on your life & find a man who you can trust beside you love too.
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Real trust is earned.
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claudya: Do u really have trust in the person u met in net and chat with u many hours and says he is glad he met u and wants something serious with u??Ok ,I met someone on other site,we chat many hours there,he said he is glad everytime we chat,I know is not correct what I did but I wanted to check him and I made other profile there and he added me fast and start flirt with me and told me he is single.I know we didn't meet yet in real but is about trust ,so what do u think is normal we chat many people in same time?I know majority of men do this,but women are not like this,they put more soul in a relationship.
It would be kind of boring to make a commitment online before even meeting in person.
As long as the relationship has not passed the online stage who knows what it will lead to and I feel that there is not a problem with the other partie to communicate with others.
Claudya! Take my advice and stop taking things so unbelievably serious. If you finally agree to meet a person in real life and it clicks, then you can start to set boundaries to what or what not he is allowed to do.
The way you acted now is kind of childish, sorry to say.
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Unless you are exclusive with them, people will chat, flirt, webcam with whomever they wish online.
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claudya: Do u really have trust in the person u met in net and chat with u many hours and says he is glad he met u and wants something serious with u??Ok ,I met someone on other site,we chat many hours there,he said he is glad everytime we chat,I know is not correct what I did but I wanted to check him and I made other profile there and he added me fast and start flirt with me and told me he is single.I know we didn't meet yet in real but is about trust ,so what do u think is normal we chat many people in same time?I know majority of men do this,but women are not like this,they put more soul in a relationship.
The moment you made another profile, you were guilty of deception. Its a bit late to get in a huff about other's possible deception, isn't it?
invinciblemuse: Oh lord... If you search for signs of infidelity, you will find them!
So, what exactly does your clever trick prove?? That someone, you had a few chats with, is also friendly to other people. Nothing else, IMO.
You are the one with the problem here, not the other person.
I agree with Musey, sorry.So, what exactly does your clever trick prove?? That someone, you had a few chats with, is also friendly to other people. Nothing else, IMO.
You are the one with the problem here, not the other person.
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claudya: Dear muse to be friendly is one thing and say to other women same things that u want to meet them is diffrent,excuse me but I don't like cheaters who say to all women same thing.
Hm, I see what you mean. But then again, I would like to meet a few people from here, and I say that quite openly. That doesn´t mean that it´s going to happen...
I personally would not expect a person I correspond with to stop saying what he wants or to stop flirting with others, especially when no meeting between him and me has taken place yet.
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Listen was a mistake to post here ,u come just judge,thanks,I will not answer anyone,write what u wantu know just judge,not give a right answer.
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claudya: Do u really have trust in the person u met in net and chat with u many hours and says he is glad he met u and wants something serious with u??Ok ,I met someone on other site,we chat many hours there,he said he is glad everytime we chat,I know is not correct what I did but I wanted to check him and I made other profile there and he added me fast and start flirt with me and told me he is single.I know we didn't meet yet in real but is about trust ,so what do u think is normal we chat many people in same time?I know majority of men do this,but women are not like this,they put more soul in a relationship.
Yes ,I have two best Cyber friends and we trust each otheri sure they are realy Nice persons
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Veritaas: Unless you are exclusive with them, people will chat, flirt, webcam with whomever they wish online.
Do U have Webcam ? 
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claudya: Listen was a mistake to post here ,u come just judge,thanks,I will not answer anyone,write what u wantu know just judge,not give a right answer.
At least you are honest about this C and how you dealt with a situation, whether people agree or disagree with your actions.
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ali110: Do U have Webcam ?
It had a blow out.
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jovisst: Oh Claudya, Claudya, I don't defend anyone. It's just how things work online. You are just very sensitive and pick up on everything like it's pointed directly to you.
Look, are you happy with your situation with men?
If not, really take some advice and loosen up. It's not going to hurt you unless you push it in that direction.
I know you don't want to be the way you are know otherwise you wouldn't be here.
We are all miserable human beings wishing for more human contact.
Look, are you happy with your situation with men?
If not, really take some advice and loosen up. It's not going to hurt you unless you push it in that direction.
I know you don't want to be the way you are know otherwise you wouldn't be here.
We are all miserable human beings wishing for more human contact.
Where did you get permission to speak for the whole human race about happiness, David Cameron?
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I hope I am not all together miserable
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claudya: Do u really have trust in the person u met in net and chat with u many hours and says he is glad he met u and wants something serious with u??Ok ,I met someone on other site,we chat many hours there,he said he is glad everytime we chat,I know is not correct what I did but I wanted to check him and I made other profile there and he added me fast and start flirt with me and told me he is single.I know we didn't meet yet in real but is about trust ,so what do u think is normal we chat many people in same time?I know majority of men do this,but women are not like this,they put more soul in a relationship.
Sorry,i think the problem may lie within yourself.You have not met this person,and he does not owe you anything.He is not your lover,boyfriend or husband.He is free and single,as you are.
By using another profile,to "catch him out",to me,you have shown a side of your character that i would not like.
You say "women are not like this". Of course you dont know all women,so its a rather silly statement to make in all honesty.
Both men and women write,chat and flirt with people on dating sites,but that does not mean they are cheats,dishonest or whatever.They are having harmless fun,as single adults.
Your post comes across to me as desperation i am sorry to say.
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