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Feb 20, 2011 11:08 PM CST feeling of depression....
getcarter
getcartergetcarterchicago, Illinois USA2 Threads 383 Posts
Yo niceneasy, Opinions are like a**hole. Everyone has one and they all stink.

Run don't walk, or wait to a medical physician. Post haste kid. Get to bed wake up call into work and get to a doctor. scold
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Feb 20, 2011 11:10 PM CST feeling of depression....
muchachito
muchachitomuchachitoRegina, Saskatchewan Canada10 Threads 165 Posts
muchachito: you have to read the book firstif you are thinking in doing it in adganistan,stop now.
and go to Libia as soon as you can,

I though I should leave my problem at home and not bring it to CStoo late
sorry if you find it insultant

You bunch of overpaid useless tie wearing adolescentsA tourist walks into a pet shop and is browsing around the cages on display. While he's there, another customer walks in and says to the shopkeeper, "I'll have a CS monkey, please."



The shopkeeper nods, goes over to a cage at the side of the shop and takes out a monkey. He fits a collar and leash and hands it to the customer, saying "That'll be $5000." The customer pays and walks out with his monkey. Startled, the tourist goes over to the shopkeeper and says "That was a very expensive monkey. Most of them are only a few hundred dollars. Why did it cost so much?"



"Ah!, that monkey can program the CS, very fast, tight code, no bugs or , well worth the money." The tourist looks at the monkey in another cage. "That one's even more expensive, $10.000! What does he do?" "Oh!, that one's a CS monkey. It can manage object-oriented programming, Pscodes, Visualise CS, even some Java, all the real useful stuff."



The tourist looks around for a little longer and sees a third monkey in a cage of its own The price tag around its neck says $50.000. He gasps to the shopkeeper, "That one costs more than all the others put together! What on earth does it do?"



"Well, I haven't actually seen him do anything, but he says he's a

consultant."
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Feb 20, 2011 11:10 PM CST feeling of depression....
My life is good and sometimes I feel a dark cloud hanging over me.
A woman once told me to fake it, tell yourself everything is wonderful.
Let me remind you. I hate fake people.
After awhile I started to believe everything was wonderful, and it was.grin
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Feb 20, 2011 11:11 PM CST feeling of depression....
thewall2
thewall2thewall2montreal, Quebec Canada61 Threads 10,499 Posts
getcarter: Yo niceneasy, Opinions are like a**hole. Everyone has one and they all stink.

Run don't walk, or wait to a medical physician. Post haste kid. Get to bed wake up call into work and get to a doctor.



You just said everybodys opinion stinks,and you just gave your own opinion on what she should do.laugh
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Feb 20, 2011 11:14 PM CST feeling of depression....
thewall2
thewall2thewall2montreal, Quebec Canada61 Threads 10,499 Posts
thewall2: You just said everybodys opinion stinks,and you just gave your own opinion on what she should do.


WHAT works for me..and I DON'T always practice what I PREACH..but I do a gratitude list to sometimes counter such feelings.

There's lots of tools and help out there,but its up to the individual to use them.
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Feb 20, 2011 11:16 PM CST feeling of depression....
getcarter
getcartergetcarterchicago, Illinois USA2 Threads 383 Posts
thewall2: You just said everybodys opinion stinks,and you just gave your own opinion on what she should do.
thumbs up thumbs up thumbs up YES some got it out there.
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Feb 20, 2011 11:23 PM CST feeling of depression....
thewall2
thewall2thewall2montreal, Quebec Canada61 Threads 10,499 Posts
thewall2: WHAT works for me..and I DON'T always practice what I PREACH..but I do a gratitude list to sometimes counter such feelings.

There's lots of tools and help out there,but its up to the individual to use them.



and also trying not to identify with the depression,it's usually,in the past,when I identified with it,that it hurt the most.


Today I'm aware that even if I do sometimes get depressed..that I AM NOT MY DEPRESSION.

YOU ARE NOT YOUR DEPRESSION.

I THINK PART of the problem sometimes is people identify too much with their feelings of depression and believe THEY ARE their DEPRESSION...and THEY ARE NOT.


AND I think it's important to be aware of that.
JMO
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Feb 20, 2011 11:26 PM CST feeling of depression....
kcuc0574
kcuc0574kcuc0574Ho Chi Minh, Southeast Vietnam Vietnam10 Threads 3 Polls 2,003 Posts
jahzah: Suicide bombing can be a immediate relief


laugh laugh scold

soft and sentimental words from man can help the situation get much better hug
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Feb 20, 2011 11:27 PM CST feeling of depression....
emmaline
emmalineemmalineatlanta, Georgia USA6 Threads 1,685 Posts
thewall2: and also trying not to identify with the depression,it's usually,in the past,when I identified with it,that it hurt the most.Today I'm aware that even if I do sometimes get depressed..that I AM NOT MY DEPRESSION.

YOU ARE NOT YOUR DEPRESSION.

I THINK PART of the problem sometimes is people identify too much with their feelings of depression and believe THEY ARE their DEPRESSION...and THEY ARE NOT.AND I think it's important to be aware of that.
JMO


applause thumbs up
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Feb 20, 2011 11:30 PM CST feeling of depression....
thewall2
thewall2thewall2montreal, Quebec Canada61 Threads 10,499 Posts
'BEFORE ENLIGHTENMENT...I USED TO BE DEPRESSED.AFTER ENLIGHTENMENT...I CONTINUE TO BE DEPRESSED...BUT THERE'S A BIG DIFFERENCE...I DON'T IDENTIFY WITH IT ANYMORE.'

-Tony De Mello
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Feb 20, 2011 11:31 PM CST feeling of depression....
langleygirl
langleygirllangleygirlWestlock, Alberta Canada70 Threads 8,202 Posts
NAKEDMUDPEOPLE: My life is good and sometimes I feel a dark cloud hanging over me.
A woman once told me to fake it, tell yourself everything is wonderful.
Let me remind you. I hate fake people.
After awhile I started to believe everything was wonderful, and it was.
If only it was that easy. Personally I think that there have been some good tips and suggestions given by some posters, but I would encourage the OP to seek medical treatment to access the proper care for her particular situation. Everyone is different and their experiences can vary greatly. For some it can be a quick fix for others its a longer journey to recovery.
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Feb 20, 2011 11:32 PM CST feeling of depression....
kcuc0574
kcuc0574kcuc0574Ho Chi Minh, Southeast Vietnam Vietnam10 Threads 3 Polls 2,003 Posts
thewall2: and also trying not to identify with the depression,it's usually,in the past,when I identified with it,that it hurt the most.Today I'm aware that even if I do sometimes get depressed..that I AM NOT MY DEPRESSION.

YOU ARE NOT YOUR DEPRESSION.

I THINK PART of the problem sometimes is people identify too much with their feelings of depression and believe THEY ARE their DEPRESSION...and THEY ARE NOT.AND I think it's important to be aware of that.
JMO

this is the saint's words,grin bouquet

sometime i also feel depressed, then pls dont say im a pretender, rolling on the floor laughing at that moment i will really need someone's true words, laugh maybe someone can say " pls dont die, i love you baby " rolling on the floor laughing grin wave
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Feb 20, 2011 11:35 PM CST feeling of depression....
thewall2
thewall2thewall2montreal, Quebec Canada61 Threads 10,499 Posts
A wise man once told me,that if you look real closely..the answers are everywhere..AND SOMETIMES CLOSER THAN YOU THINK.

What can a person do...you ask NICE AND EASY?

The answer,or part of it,might be in your username..

be gentle with yourself through it...and take it..

NICE AND EASY.

Best of Luck..

WALL.
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Feb 20, 2011 11:37 PM CST feeling of depression....
kcuc0574
kcuc0574kcuc0574Ho Chi Minh, Southeast Vietnam Vietnam10 Threads 3 Polls 2,003 Posts
rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing

my friend nearly equal to my age, but his words are the saint's words, grin
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Feb 20, 2011 11:38 PM CST feeling of depression....
joyaepace
joyaepacejoyaepaceGalway, Ireland11 Threads 2 Polls 958 Posts
emmaline: the problem is that your brain RELEASES seratonin.

neurons in the brain emit seratonin. in depression, sometimes it is being reabsorbed immediately, thus, no 'feel good' hormones are being relayed.it is wonderful that you have overcome your feelings of despair by your will, but it is not as simple for others.

depression can be a complex medium of many factors.


Antidepressants made me sick, and after two days of trying I threw them into the bin and thought that there are two options - whether I change my attitude and get rid of depression or there will be no life for me, since I can't go on like before. So, I did a good revision of my beliefs and ideas, and continue doing it. Turning down huge expectations, arrogance, vanity and ideas of how the other people and all the world should be, can be quite therapeutic. Forget about that 'should be' thing, and take things as they are. So far, so good, about 15 years I was depression free. Of course, not all people are so analytical and it is not a way to go for everyone, but when somebody asks, I tell about my experience. That said, therapy is a great option if one can pay for it. I couldn't pay for it, but if I was able, I would have gone for it. Probably in cases of clinical depression treatment is covered by medical card and the patient does not pay anything. There may be different situations in different countries, but here in Ireland one visit to a doctor costs €50-60. If you don't have medical card, you can hardly afford any therapy. dunno
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Feb 20, 2011 11:43 PM CST feeling of depression....
getcarter
getcartergetcarterchicago, Illinois USA2 Threads 383 Posts
langleygirl: If only it was that easy. Personally I think that there have been some good tips and suggestions given by some posters, but I would encourage the OP to seek medical treatment to access the proper care for her particular situation. Everyone is different and their experiences can vary greatly. For some it can be a quick fix for others its a longer journey to recovery.


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May 28, 2011 12:59 AM CST feeling of depression....
thewall2
thewall2thewall2montreal, Quebec Canada61 Threads 10,499 Posts
nice_and_easy: what can a person do...????


I just don't know sometimes..but its an intersting topic that i'M GONNA LOOK MORE INTO.
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May 28, 2011 1:00 AM CST feeling of depression....
Ladefoss23
Ladefoss23Ladefoss23Langen, Hessen Germany79 Threads 26 Polls 1,898 Posts
nice_and_easy: what can a person do...????


one can try to be more compassionate. if the inside is full of negativity towards others, for any reason , then the inside would be polluted and depression fills the space withinthumbs up
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May 28, 2011 1:01 AM CST feeling of depression....
Ladefoss23
Ladefoss23Ladefoss23Langen, Hessen Germany79 Threads 26 Polls 1,898 Posts
joyaepace: Antidepressants made me sick, and after two days of trying I threw them into the bin and thought that there are two options - whether I change my attitude and get rid of depression or there will be no life for me, since I can't go on like before. So, I did a good revision of my beliefs and ideas, and continue doing it. Turning down huge expectations, arrogance, vanity and ideas of how the other people and all the world should be, can be quite therapeutic. Forget about that 'should be' thing, and take things as they are. So far, so good, about 15 years I was depression free. Of course, not all people are so analytical and it is not a way to go for everyone, but when somebody asks, I tell about my experience. That said, therapy is a great option if one can pay for it. I couldn't pay for it, but if I was able, I would have gone for it. Probably in cases of clinical depression treatment is covered by medical card and the patient does not pay anything. There may be different situations in different countries, but here in Ireland one visit to a doctor costs €50-60. If you don't have medical card, you can hardly afford any therapy.


how abour compassion and love for others. haven't u ever hurt someone? just askingdunno
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May 30, 2011 7:18 AM CST feeling of depression....
mjames
mjamesmjamesnapa, California USA2 Threads 1 Polls 779 Posts
nice_and_easy: what can a person do...????


stop feeling sorry for themselves and do something to make themselves happy.

We live in an internet society where everyone wants things done for themselves and they want it now.

Get out and live, be active and you will be happy.
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