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Lonely1: Why do women sometimes treat the father of their children worse than the man that help them to father those kids?
Sometimes I swear that they love the kids more than the man who came before the kids. They don't mind if the man goes, but not without my kids. After all they are mine too.
After all, who came first...
Sometimes I swear that they love the kids more than the man who came before the kids. They don't mind if the man goes, but not without my kids. After all they are mine too.
After all, who came first...
Why do women sometimes treat the father of their children worse than the man that help them to father those kids?
ot understand that part! well my mom told me,u will never know what a mother feels for their child unless u gave birth to one
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Lonely1: Why do women sometimes treat the father of their children worse than the man that help them to father those kids?
Sometimes I swear that they love the kids more than the man who came before the kids. They don't mind if the man goes, but not without my kids. After all they are mine too.
After all, who came first...
Sometimes I swear that they love the kids more than the man who came before the kids. They don't mind if the man goes, but not without my kids. After all they are mine too.
After all, who came first...
Lonely1...... I asked myself that question a few years ago and I never got an answer. So hopefully someone here will. Very good question though.
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chococherrie: Why do women sometimes treat the father of their children worse than the man that help them to father those kids?
ot understand that part! well my mom told me,u will never know what a mother feels for their child unless u gave birth to one
ot understand that part! well my mom told me,u will never know what a mother feels for their child unless u gave birth to one
I am sympathetic to what she felt. I understand and appreciate that very much. But if it was not for me....
Have you ever seen a chicken, an egg and no rooster?....
...fried chicken and fried eggs it would always be. No young chicks.
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In response to: Why do women sometimes treat the father of their children worse than the man that help them to father those kids?
Sometimes I swear that they love the kids more than the man who came before the kids. They don't mind if the man goes, but not without my kids. After all they are mine too.
After all, who came first...
Sometimes I swear that they love the kids more than the man who came before the kids. They don't mind if the man goes, but not without my kids. After all they are mine too.
After all, who came first...
There is not a man in the world worth my kids while they were under my roof. There still isn't but now that they can fend for their selves, I have my own life. I would never stand for a man to mistreat them, or them to mistreat the man I chose
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Lonely1: Why do women sometimes treat the father of their children worse than the man that help them to father those kids?
Sometimes I swear that they love the kids more than the man who came before the kids. They don't mind if the man goes, but not without my kids. After all they are mine too.
After all, who came first...
Sometimes I swear that they love the kids more than the man who came before the kids. They don't mind if the man goes, but not without my kids. After all they are mine too.
After all, who came first...
I have always found it rather strange when men are jealous of their own children... should you not want your children to be loved and taken care of?
So what you doing to piss her off in the first place?
It's rhetorical....but think about it..what you may think is small and not important may very well be important to her.
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Lonely1: Why do women sometimes treat the father of their children worse than the man that help them to father those kids?
Sometimes I swear that they love the kids more than the man who came before the kids. They don't mind if the man goes, but not without my kids. After all they are mine too.
After all, who came first...
Most women have already bonded with their child before birth. After all women carry this precious human for nine months. This tiny human is of their flesh, their blood. Theirs to protect and nurture forever. Sometimes I swear that they love the kids more than the man who came before the kids. They don't mind if the man goes, but not without my kids. After all they are mine too.
After all, who came first...
The father of the child may have already left the family (for whatever reasons). His emotional welfare is no longer a concern of the woman. After all he is an adult..he can look after himself. If a new man enters the mothers life, of course she is going to want him to like her children. If they become a family unit hopefully he would treat her child(ren) with affection.
What the bio-father of the child(ren) does with his life is no longer a concern of the mother. She would expect the bio-father to be a part of the child's life but not of hers anymore.
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I would put my kids ahead of anybody, including my wife, my siblings, parents and even myself. Next generation stuff etc.
Although I totally understand the very special birth bond and nurture of a mother and child, the father should have equal rights to that child also, assuming he is a worthy,loving parent/human being and a sharer of responsibilities, care and finances.
Although I totally understand the very special birth bond and nurture of a mother and child, the father should have equal rights to that child also, assuming he is a worthy,loving parent/human being and a sharer of responsibilities, care and finances.
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RDM59: I would put my kids ahead of anybody, including my wife, my siblings, parents and even myself. Next generation stuff etc.
Although I totally understand the very special birth bond and nurture of a mother and child, the father should have equal rights to that child also, assuming he is a worthy,loving parent/human being and a sharer of responsibilities, care and finances.
Although I totally understand the very special birth bond and nurture of a mother and child, the father should have equal rights to that child also, assuming he is a worthy,loving parent/human being and a sharer of responsibilities, care and finances.
Absolutely
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If the mother has split with the father its usually for a very good reason. Perhaps the father doesnt deserve respect. Impregnating someone does not make you a father. Good parenting does. 
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Lonely1: Why do women sometimes treat the father of their children worse than the man that help them to father those kids?
Sometimes I swear that they love the kids more than the man who came before the kids. They don't mind if the man goes, but not without my kids. After all they are mine too.
After all, who came first...
Sometimes I swear that they love the kids more than the man who came before the kids. They don't mind if the man goes, but not without my kids. After all they are mine too.
After all, who came first...
We all grow and change over the years and sometimes that means simply growing apart from your partner.However a mother,especially,grows with her children as they are none negotiable.
It is a fact of life that does not need to include apportioning blame,but has to simply be excepted in order to fully move on.
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Lonely1: Why do women sometimes treat the father of their children worse than the man that help them to father those kids?
Sometimes I swear that they love the kids more than the man who came before the kids. They don't mind if the man goes, but not without my kids. After all they are mine too.
After all, who came first...
Sometimes I swear that they love the kids more than the man who came before the kids. They don't mind if the man goes, but not without my kids. After all they are mine too.
After all, who came first...
Of course people would love their kids more.Partners come and go but your kids are your kids forever.
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Christmas1: Most women have already bonded with their child before birth. After all women carry this precious human for nine months. This tiny human is of their flesh, their blood. Theirs to protect and nurture forever.
The father of the child may have already left the family (for whatever reasons). His emotional welfare is no longer a concern of the woman. After all he is an adult..he can look after himself. If a new man enters the mothers life, of course she is going to want him to like her children. If they become a family unit hopefully he would treat her child(ren) with affection.
What the bio-father of the child(ren) does with his life is no longer a concern of the mother. She would expect the bio-father to be a part of the child's life but not of hers anymore.
The father of the child may have already left the family (for whatever reasons). His emotional welfare is no longer a concern of the woman. After all he is an adult..he can look after himself. If a new man enters the mothers life, of course she is going to want him to like her children. If they become a family unit hopefully he would treat her child(ren) with affection.
What the bio-father of the child(ren) does with his life is no longer a concern of the mother. She would expect the bio-father to be a part of the child's life but not of hers anymore.
Do not agree. Wouldn't a Mum want a Dad to be the best Dad he could be? Aside from any personal problem she may now have with him, she should still put the interests of her children before her own.
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TrueBlue1986: Do not agree. Wouldn't a Mum want a Dad to be the best Dad he could be? Aside from any personal problem she may now have with him, she should still put the interests of her children before her own.
Wanting your children to have a relationship with their father is putting their interest ahead of your own.The person you quoted already said this.Didn't you read what you quoted from her?
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Lonely1: Why do women sometimes treat the father of their children worse than the man that help them to father those kids?
Sometimes I swear that they love the kids more than the man who came before the kids. They don't mind if the man goes, but not without my kids. After all they are mine too.
After all, who came first...
Sometimes I swear that they love the kids more than the man who came before the kids. They don't mind if the man goes, but not without my kids. After all they are mine too.
After all, who came first...
I don't know for other's,but I loved my children's Father,he was always above my children in the pecking order,but since he was a deeply integral person,he put his children first.So there was a natural ballance to things.
I couldn't love someone just because I had children with him or just because he came first..your acts/behaviour/character define if you are worthy of my love.
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ColonelBogey: We all grow and change over the years and sometimes that means simply growing apart from your partner.However a mother,especially,grows with her children as they are none negotiable.
It is a fact of life that does not need to include apportioning blame,but has to simply be excepted in order to fully move on.
It is a fact of life that does not need to include apportioning blame,but has to simply be excepted in order to fully move on.
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Lonely1: Why do women sometimes treat the father of their children worse than the man that help them to father those kids?
Sometimes I swear that they love the kids more than the man who came before the kids. They don't mind if the man goes, but not without my kids. After all they are mine too.
After all, who came first...
Sometimes I swear that they love the kids more than the man who came before the kids. They don't mind if the man goes, but not without my kids. After all they are mine too.
After all, who came first...
Usually the man
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sasyecats: I have always found it rather strange when men are jealous of their own children... should you not want your children to be loved and taken care of?
So what you doing to piss her off in the first place?
It's rhetorical....but think about it..what you may think is small and not important may very well be important to her.
So what you doing to piss her off in the first place?
It's rhetorical....but think about it..what you may think is small and not important may very well be important to her.
It is not a matter of being jealous of my kids. It does not mean that I pissed her off either. Those are stereotypical views.
Women do use the children as a pawn in any issues with their kid(s) father. When the act was being accomplished it was a 50/50 arrangement, but whenever there are problems the kids become 100% hers.
There are bad moms and bad dads. If the dad is a bad father I have no problem in the kids being kept away (and vice versa) but most times it is just a ball of yarn as to who is evil and who is not.
Parenting/nurturing/disciplining should forever remain a 50/50 relationship with the kids.
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maryrachelle: Of course people would love their kids more.Partners come and go but your kids are your kids forever.
The partner you are referring to may very well have been the father of the kids. How can they 'come and go'
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cynicalorange: Usually the man
Helps with the parenting of the child too.
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Sometimes I swear that they love the kids more than the man who came before the kids. They don't mind if the man goes, but not without my kids. After all they are mine too.
After all, who came first...