would you stay if (74)
maddog22blacktown, New South Wales Australia6 Threads 75 PostsShell225: heartbreaking as that is... you have a responsibility to yourself. At least this way you have a chance to move on
yes it hurts but i think its the only way and maybe with me being out of the house she will realize im the one for her but if not then its not in my face
yep ive downed a few today and dropped a few tears but thats life lol
maddog22: yes it hurts but i think its the only way and maybe with me being out of the house she will realize im the one for her but if not then its not in my face yep ive downed a few today and dropped a few tears but thats life lol
dont you dare light a candle in yer window
just be kind to you at the moment
Shell225: dont you dare light a candle in yer window just be kind to you at the moment
thanks shell,no im not lighting any candles,gonna try and do whats right by me and see whats around the corner lol may find someone to love me back for a changeWhen you wake up tomorrow; straighten your back, narrow your eyes and become Clint Eastwood. In any movie, from Dirty Harry to Gran Torino.
Life can't hurt you when you're Clint.
Life can't hurt you when you're Clint.
maddog22: thanks shell,no im not lighting any candles,gonna try and do whats right by me and see whats around the corner lol may find someone to love me back for a change
If you want some hard but constructive advice ... GET OUT and DON'T GO BACK ... or if it's your house, KICK HER OUT, LOCK IT UP AND GO ON HOLIDAY somewhere far away.
You have to remove yourself from the emotional destruction this woman intends to put you through. Understand this, you have given her great power over you and she would have to be a saint with no ego at all not to wield it against you with all her might. If the boot was on the other foot you would probably do the same.
Humans are not a nice animals. In fact out of all the animal world only dogs and cats will live with us. And that's only because they can freeload.
You were born alone, you'll die alone and you'll spend 80% or more of your life alone. Enjoy the good times you had in memory but try to find value out of the You time. Work, produce something that is only yours and find joy in that.
Love is just chemical activity in your body. It's over-rated and in some cases poisonous. My advice, contrary to my fellow philosophers Awesome and TwoDogs is that a paid rooty toot toot won't fix things, as you won't be getting what you want it will probably depress you more (with all due deference to Awesome's and TwoDog's sense of humor). No one has to be "in love" all the time, nor do they need to be "loved" all the time. What would be special about
All the best to you, you're in good company. We're all on this site too. Even Awesome and TwoDogs.
Darkhorseman: If you want some hard but constructive advice ... GET OUT and DON'T GO BACK ... or if it's your house, KICK HER OUT, LOCK IT UP AND GO ON HOLIDAY somewhere far away.
You have to remove yourself from the emotional destruction this woman intends to put you through. Understand this, you have given her great power over you and she would have to be a saint with no ego at all not to wield it against you with all her might. If the boot was on the other foot you would probably do the same.
Humans are not a nice animals. In fact out of all the animal world only dogs and cats will live with us. And that's only because they can freeload.
You were born alone, you'll die alone and you'll spend 80% or more of your life alone. Enjoy the good times you had in memory but try to find value out of the You time. Work, produce something that is only yours and find joy in that.
Love is just chemical activity in your body. It's over-rated and in some cases poisonous. My advice, contrary to my fellow philosophers Awesome and TwoDogs is that a paid rooty toot toot won't fix things, as you won't be getting what you want it will probably depress you more (with all due deference to Awesome's and TwoDog's sense of humor). No one has to be "in love" all the time, nor do they need to be "loved" all the time. What would be special about hormonal activity ... errr ... Lurv if it was there always (Hey look! I'm a freakin' romantic).
All the best to you, you're in good company. We're all on this site too. Even Awesome and TwoDogs.
lol i will be out by tuesday morning You have to remove yourself from the emotional destruction this woman intends to put you through. Understand this, you have given her great power over you and she would have to be a saint with no ego at all not to wield it against you with all her might. If the boot was on the other foot you would probably do the same.
Humans are not a nice animals. In fact out of all the animal world only dogs and cats will live with us. And that's only because they can freeload.
You were born alone, you'll die alone and you'll spend 80% or more of your life alone. Enjoy the good times you had in memory but try to find value out of the You time. Work, produce something that is only yours and find joy in that.
Love is just chemical activity in your body. It's over-rated and in some cases poisonous. My advice, contrary to my fellow philosophers Awesome and TwoDogs is that a paid rooty toot toot won't fix things, as you won't be getting what you want it will probably depress you more (with all due deference to Awesome's and TwoDog's sense of humor). No one has to be "in love" all the time, nor do they need to be "loved" all the time. What would be special about hormonal activity ... errr ... Lurv if it was there always (Hey look! I'm a freakin' romantic).
All the best to you, you're in good company. We're all on this site too. Even Awesome and TwoDogs.
Good man. We can't always be comfortable but we can always have dignity.
If you maintain your dignity other will see that and you will attract dignified people to you.
If you maintain your dignity other will see that and you will attract dignified people to you.
PERFECT. BLOODY PERFECT.
thank you all for your comments,you really have been a great help
maddog22: thank you all for your comments,you really have been a great help
What did you decide to do,after all our good advice?awesome71: What did you decide to do,after all our good advice?
He's goingto hide the body really well and leave town.
maddog22: i move into a flat on tuesday
Well done
maddog22: thanks i paid the bond and that today,move all my stuff in tuesday morning
Join some groups and try some CS functions if there are any happening in your area - get out and meet some new people - most of all enjoy this new phase in your life and don't look back!!!!
maddog22: well might have to,dont seem to be many woman on here interested in me lol
You didn't appear on here as available to women. How can you expect women to be interested in you if you are dwelling on some one else - would you be attracted to a lady who said that she was still pining over another man?
maddog22: thanks everyone and no im not a coward lol,old fool maybe but have never would do that,i told her this morning i cant stay in the same house and watch her go out with other man because of my love for her and that i would be moving out next week,
Bravo!!!!! well done !!
Big step brave step right choice !!!
Now watch life open the doors for you!!!
maddog22: thanks kizzy 27,yes a big step but the rite one to take,i need to get on with my life
Amen. And don't sit around moping, get out there. Life is good.
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