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cgedvr: what the hell am i doing...
got a date tonite...she's even an attractive woman who has taken the interest in me
met her a month or so ago thru some friends and have seen each other in a group setting with friends a handfull of times...
i guess i'm wondering why the hell i agreed to go out with her when i know she's not the one...
she does'nt make me weak in the knees...
whats the point...
The point is good company,relax,enjoy the evening.Dont go with any pre-concieved ideas,and enjoy the moment.got a date tonite...she's even an attractive woman who has taken the interest in me
met her a month or so ago thru some friends and have seen each other in a group setting with friends a handfull of times...
i guess i'm wondering why the hell i agreed to go out with her when i know she's not the one...
she does'nt make me weak in the knees...
whats the point...
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cgedvr: what the hell am i doing...
got a date tonite...she's even an attractive woman who has taken the interest in me
met her a month or so ago thru some friends and have seen each other in a group setting with friends a handfull of times...
i guess i'm wondering why the hell i agreed to go out with her when i know she's not the one...
she does'nt make me weak in the knees...
whats the point...
got a date tonite...she's even an attractive woman who has taken the interest in me
met her a month or so ago thru some friends and have seen each other in a group setting with friends a handfull of times...
i guess i'm wondering why the hell i agreed to go out with her when i know she's not the one...
she does'nt make me weak in the knees...
whats the point...
Then make sure she's aware of how you feel. Otherwise, you are just playing with her emotions.
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Ok...she doesnt make you weak at the knees, but you admit shes an attractive woman?
Why wouldnt you? You would be crazy not to surely?
Its not all about meeting someone and "knowing" they are the one..its about learning, and getting to know them.
Relax...enjoy yourself.
Why wouldnt you? You would be crazy not to surely?
Its not all about meeting someone and "knowing" they are the one..its about learning, and getting to know them.
Relax...enjoy yourself.
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cgedvr: what the hell am i doing...
got a date tonite...she's even an attractive woman who has taken the interest in me
met her a month or so ago thru some friends and have seen each other in a group setting with friends a handfull of times...
i guess i'm wondering why the hell i agreed to go out with her when i know she's not the one...
she does'nt make me weak in the knees...
whats the point...
got a date tonite...she's even an attractive woman who has taken the interest in me
met her a month or so ago thru some friends and have seen each other in a group setting with friends a handfull of times...
i guess i'm wondering why the hell i agreed to go out with her when i know she's not the one...
she does'nt make me weak in the knees...
whats the point...
If you don't really want to go then don't go.Don't get her hopes up.
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Be honest Cagey. Its better for her and better for your own heart. If your bound to have a friendship that will happen anyway. 
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she's got the ideas...
nice gal...but i'm just not feelin it, so its like i'm leading her on when i know...it ain't happnin...
its like i'm dreading telling her that friendship is as far as its going...
nice gal...but i'm just not feelin it, so its like i'm leading her on when i know...it ain't happnin...
its like i'm dreading telling her that friendship is as far as its going...
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so she doesn't make you weak in the knees!
you will never know unless you get to know her
get the hell out of the house and enjoy the night
you will never know unless you get to know her
get the hell out of the house and enjoy the night
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you never know if she will become "the one" . you dont always get that weak in knees feeling right away.
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cgedvr: she's got the ideas...
nice gal...but i'm just not feelin it, so its like i'm leading her on when i know...it ain't happnin...
its like i'm dreading telling her that friendship is as far as its going...
nice gal...but i'm just not feelin it, so its like i'm leading her on when i know...it ain't happnin...
its like i'm dreading telling her that friendship is as far as its going...
Better she know upfront on your feelings now then not at all.
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cgedvr: she's got the ideas...
nice gal...but i'm just not feelin it, so its like i'm leading her on when i know...it ain't happnin...
its like i'm dreading telling her that friendship is as far as its going...
nice gal...but i'm just not feelin it, so its like i'm leading her on when i know...it ain't happnin...
its like i'm dreading telling her that friendship is as far as its going...
Thats because you are a good hearted man...Your also an honest one so be true to yourself
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gemeh22: you never know if she will become "the one" . you dont always get that weak in knees feeling right away.
no...i think i'm a freek that way...i know...its when you get that feeling...just the sight of them drives you up the wall...the butterflies feeling
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cgedvr: no...i think i'm a freek that way...
i know...its when you get that feeling...just the sight of them drives you up the wall...the butterflies feeling
i know...its when you get that feeling...just the sight of them drives you up the wall...the butterflies feeling
Me too And Im holding our for the real deal too
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You've already decided she is not the one so for heaven's sake call off the date.
Frankly I think you haven't even given it a chance. Friendship can grow into a beautiful relationship but you're not willing to put in the effort so cancel for her sake...or are you afraid you'll fall short without your other friends around?
Good luck.
Frankly I think you haven't even given it a chance. Friendship can grow into a beautiful relationship but you're not willing to put in the effort so cancel for her sake...or are you afraid you'll fall short without your other friends around?
Good luck.
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venusenvy: Thats because you are a good hearted man...Your also an honest one so be true to yourself
thanks E...its the mutual friends putting on the pressure...
go for it...have fun, and we will but not the kind of fun people are wanting to rope me into...
its like wtf is wrong with me...i should be so lucky that this gal is interested in me...
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Ccincy: If you don't really want to go then don't go.Don't get her hopes up.
You're using her and that's not nice.
You're bored. Lots of other things to do than use this woman.
My guess is, you are infatuated with her looks and that's why you have a date with her
By asking her to go out you are giving her the hope that you are the one
On the other hand, she might be wondering why she's going out with you, cause she knows you're not the one
I'm in New Jersey and it's 5.45 pm
In California it's 2:45 pm
You can still be a good guy and call her to call off the date
Don't tell her you're sick, don't tell her your grandmother is is sick
Tell her the truth !!
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time4fun4u: The point is good company,relax,enjoy the evening.Dont go with any pre-concieved ideas,and enjoy the moment.
Take his advise although I wouldn't myself.
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cgedvr: what the hell am i doing...
got a date tonite...she's even an attractive woman who has taken the interest in me
met her a month or so ago thru some friends and have seen each other in a group setting with friends a handfull of times...
i guess i'm wondering why the hell i agreed to go out with her when i know she's not the one...
she does'nt make me weak in the knees...
whats the point...
got a date tonite...she's even an attractive woman who has taken the interest in me
met her a month or so ago thru some friends and have seen each other in a group setting with friends a handfull of times...
i guess i'm wondering why the hell i agreed to go out with her when i know she's not the one...
she does'nt make me weak in the knees...
whats the point...
why the panic - just go out have fun be upfront and honest with her and enjoy the evening !!
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cgedvr: thanks E...
its the mutual friends putting on the pressure...
go for it...have fun, and we will but not the kind of fun people are wanting to rope me into...
its like wtf is wrong with me...i should be so lucky that this gal is interested in me...
its the mutual friends putting on the pressure...
go for it...have fun, and we will but not the kind of fun people are wanting to rope me into...
its like wtf is wrong with me...i should be so lucky that this gal is interested in me...
It would make a bit anxious too if I was feeling like you.....Like you're lying in some weird way...and yet you aren't....
Tricky..... Like the ladies said...guess you got to be honest with her....
How to do that in the right way....adds a bit of pressure tho ay Cgevr .... Good luck...
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Snuggs09: You're using her and that's not nice.
You're bored. Lots of other things to do than use this woman.
My guess is, you are infatuated with her looks and that's why you have a date with her
By asking her to go out you are giving her the hope that you are the one
On the other hand, she might be wondering why she's going out with you, cause she knows you're not the one
I'm in New Jersey and it's 5.45 pm
In California it's 2:45 pm
You can still be a good guy and call her to call off the date
Don't tell her you're sick, don't tell her your grandmother is is sick
Tell her the truth !!
You're bored. Lots of other things to do than use this woman.
My guess is, you are infatuated with her looks and that's why you have a date with her
By asking her to go out you are giving her the hope that you are the one
On the other hand, she might be wondering why she's going out with you, cause she knows you're not the one
I'm in New Jersey and it's 5.45 pm
In California it's 2:45 pm
You can still be a good guy and call her to call off the date
Don't tell her you're sick, don't tell her your grandmother is is sick
Tell her the truth !!
what are you smokin...i'm using her??? for what???
mutual friends have initiated this and i've gone along with it but already said will dread telling her that a friendship is as far as it will go...
yeah...its just a date...without the friends around...
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got a date tonite...she's even an attractive woman who has taken the interest in me
met her a month or so ago thru some friends and have seen each other in a group setting with friends a handfull of times...
i guess i'm wondering why the hell i agreed to go out with her when i know she's not the one...
she does'nt make me weak in the knees...
whats the point...