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one date doesnt make a relationship though does it? maybe she is just looking for a nice evening out.
I wouldnt look into it too seriously theres nothing wrong with going out and having a nice evening, unless you know that she is looking at you like your "the one" I don't see the harm in it.
I know from my experience when I go out with someone Im definitely not thinking Im starting a serious relationship with this person. Im thinking it would be nice to have a nice time with this person.
JMO of course
I wouldnt look into it too seriously theres nothing wrong with going out and having a nice evening, unless you know that she is looking at you like your "the one" I don't see the harm in it.
I know from my experience when I go out with someone Im definitely not thinking Im starting a serious relationship with this person. Im thinking it would be nice to have a nice time with this person.
JMO of course
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yabbadabbadont: It would make a bit anxious too if I was feeling like you.....Like you're lying in some weird way...and yet you aren't....
Tricky..... Like the ladies said...guess you got to be honest with her....
How to do that in the right way....adds a bit of pressure tho ay Cgevr .... Good luck...
yeah...really weirdTricky..... Like the ladies said...guess you got to be honest with her....
How to do that in the right way....adds a bit of pressure tho ay Cgevr .... Good luck...
not my idea...just went along with it like no harm no foul...
you know how "friends" can be...
but really not that tricky...got the idea that she may only want to be friends too...
its the benefits she's after...
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cgedvr: what are you smokin...
i'm using her??? for what???
mutual friends have initiated this and i've gone along with it but already said will dread telling her that a friendship is as far as it will go...
yeah...its just a date...without the friends around...
i'm using her??? for what???
mutual friends have initiated this and i've gone along with it but already said will dread telling her that a friendship is as far as it will go...
yeah...its just a date...without the friends around...
I didn't get that either, maybe she read a different thread and replied here.
I don't see what the big deal is, go out and enjoy your time with her. If something more comes of it, great, if not, great!
Why do so many people put so much emphasis on dating, and finding the one? Why can't people just enjoy each other's company for what it is, and leave all the high pressure BS out of it?
Why dread anything, why start hammering nails into a coffin that might not even exist?
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cgedvr: yeah...really weird
not my idea...just went along with it like no harm no foul...
you know how "friends" can be...
but really not that tricky...got the idea that she may only want to be friends too...
its the benefits she's after...
not my idea...just went along with it like no harm no foul...
you know how "friends" can be...
but really not that tricky...got the idea that she may only want to be friends too...
its the benefits she's after...
Did you ever just for a moment think that she just may want to be a friend with no benefits and just enjoys your company ?
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cgedvr: what are you smokin...
i'm using her??? for what???
mutual friends have initiated this and i've gone along with it but already said will dread telling her that a friendship is as far as it will go...
yeah...its just a date...without the friends around...
If you already know that she "isn't the one" you will be leading her on, no matter what you might say. Don't turn on the stove if you're not planning to make the tea.i'm using her??? for what???
mutual friends have initiated this and i've gone along with it but already said will dread telling her that a friendship is as far as it will go...
yeah...its just a date...without the friends around...
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cgedvr: yeah...really weird
not my idea...just went along with it like no harm no foul...
you know how "friends" can be...
but really not that tricky...got the idea that she may only want to be friends too...
its the benefits she's after...
not my idea...just went along with it like no harm no foul...
you know how "friends" can be...
but really not that tricky...got the idea that she may only want to be friends too...
its the benefits she's after...
Ahhh...The old benefits.... But you don't want that with her....
That's easier.... Just tell her you not that way inclined....
Looking for someone that you can have MORE with.... and that may well be true....
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rohaan: If you already know that she "isn't the one" you will be leading her on, no matter what you might say. Don't turn on the stove if you're not planning to make the tea.
First of all Cgedvr, I'm not smoking anything
And I certainly didn't mean to infuriate you
The reason I said you are using her is because I am thinking how I would feel if I was in her shoes
There's a date between a man who really doesn't care if he goes on the date and a woman who might be thinking, he's the one
If sai that you told her upfront you're not ready for a romantic relationshp but asked her if she'd like to go out for whatever, that would be different
In your original post you didn't say that friends set this date up. You implied that you asked her to go out
In my opinion, your conscience is telling you to do the right thing. It's up to you if you do.
Again, I apologize if you thought I was beating you up
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Snuggs09: First of all Cgedvr, I'm not smoking anything
And I certainly didn't mean to infuriate you
The reason I said you are using her is because I am thinking how I would feel if I was in her shoes
There's a date between a man who really doesn't care if he goes on the date and a woman who might be thinking, he's the one
If sai that you told her upfront you're not ready for a romantic relationshp but asked her if she'd like to go out for whatever, that would be different
In your original post you didn't say that friends set this date up. You implied that you asked her to go out
In my opinion, your conscience is telling you to do the right thing. It's up to you if you do.
Again, I apologize if you thought I was beating you up
not to worry snuggs...And I certainly didn't mean to infuriate you
The reason I said you are using her is because I am thinking how I would feel if I was in her shoes
There's a date between a man who really doesn't care if he goes on the date and a woman who might be thinking, he's the one
If sai that you told her upfront you're not ready for a romantic relationshp but asked her if she'd like to go out for whatever, that would be different
In your original post you didn't say that friends set this date up. You implied that you asked her to go out
In my opinion, your conscience is telling you to do the right thing. It's up to you if you do.
Again, I apologize if you thought I was beating you up
she just wants to DO me...and i should be so lucky...
just not what i'm lookin for...
its off to the races soon...i may have to be able to run faster than the horses...lol
just shoot me...
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Go with a pair of crutches,so to avoid colapsing
cgedvr: what the hell am i doing...
got a date tonite...she's even an attractive woman who has taken the interest in me
met her a month or so ago thru some friends and have seen each other in a group setting with friends a handfull of times...
i guess i'm wondering why the hell i agreed to go out with her when i know she's not the one...
she does'nt make me weak in the knees...
whats the point...
got a date tonite...she's even an attractive woman who has taken the interest in me
met her a month or so ago thru some friends and have seen each other in a group setting with friends a handfull of times...
i guess i'm wondering why the hell i agreed to go out with her when i know she's not the one...
she does'nt make me weak in the knees...
whats the point...
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A fiver on number 9
cgedvr: not to worry snuggs...
she just wants to DO me...and i should be so lucky...
just not what i'm lookin for...
its off to the races soon...i may have to be able to run faster than the horses...lol
just shoot me...
she just wants to DO me...and i should be so lucky...
just not what i'm lookin for...
its off to the races soon...i may have to be able to run faster than the horses...lol
just shoot me...
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chris27292729: A fiver on number 9
win,place or "show"... 
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cgedvr: is that an offer gem...
wth...maybe i outta go get me some...
you know it wth...maybe i outta go get me some...
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anyone wanna take odds on me fightin this woman off...
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cgedvr: not to worry snuggs...
she just wants to DO me...and i should be so lucky...
just not what i'm lookin for...
its off to the races soon...i may have to be able to run faster than the horses...lol
just shoot me...
she just wants to DO me...and i should be so lucky...
just not what i'm lookin for...
its off to the races soon...i may have to be able to run faster than the horses...lol
just shoot me...
Good on you for not taking advantage of her Cagey. Youve got some good love karma headed your way for that
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A fiver each,win and place,race No 5
cgedvr: win,place or "show"...
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chris27292729: A fiver each,win and place,race No 5
race 5...
1 Sumspeed...opening line 20-1
2 Swiss Sweepstakes ol 4-1
3 Golden Fruit ol 4-1
4 K Tarib ol 10-1
5 Smokin Mojo ol 2-1
6 Wetaskiwim ol 8/5
sorry chris...only 6 horses in the field in the 5th
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venusenvy: Good on you for not taking advantage of her Cagey. Youve got some good love karma headed your way for that
hmmm...i could use some...
bet i'm home by 10 o'clock...
ok 10:30 lol
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cgedvr: hmmm...i could use some...
bet i'm home by 10 o'clock...
ok 10:30 lol
bet i'm home by 10 o'clock...
ok 10:30 lol
O Man Cagey I came limping in bloody and bruised by 9:30 the other night after my date...it was all I could take.
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wetaskiwin...
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To be honest i kept it sweet and friendly and made sure that his terms of endearment where just a sign of his friendship and i made it clear again i wasnt interested and i didn't see beyond it .