He is not really lying when he says .... (161)
pikengren: i really don't think this is something
that only applies to internet dating, or even
just to dating alone.
no matter how you meet someone, and no matter
if its for dating or friendship,
it can take time to really get to know someone.
that only applies to internet dating, or even
just to dating alone.
no matter how you meet someone, and no matter
if its for dating or friendship,
it can take time to really get to know someone.
I believe that we really dont know someone till we live with them..
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jahzah: Decent men wont meet internet dates
LOL I beg u pardon....LOL
I have met two very nice guys online, they just were not for me....But then I developed a chat with guy, love the same things I did, seems we had a lot in common, then moved to chatting on the phone....NOW, my profile clearly states NO DRAMA.....About the third telephone call, Lasted about a hour....All he did was complain....hates his ex, has bought two houses for his Ex'es while he lives in an Apt, taking his former company to the cleaner's for laying him off, yadda, yadda, yadda.....Well needless to say, when the next call came through I did not take the call. He left a voice mail, saying "thought Ur Tuesday's were a good time to call, guess u found urself a man that lives closer to u than me"...I sent him an email telling him that I was in fact home when he called but had no intention of ever talking to him again...further that life had made him a angry man and he appeared to love the drama....So yea, I think he saw himself as good and decent man, afterall, look at all those house payments he was making....
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I think calling men "not decent" seeking dates on the net,is an insult to the majority of men on dating sites,but a few thinking like you.
jahzah: We are not very good observers of ourselves, what most people are on the net is just the way they perceive themselves not what they are. Failiure to connect is imminent when meeting in person.
I rather go find a girl in the real world so i can observe her first.
I rather go find a girl in the real world so i can observe her first.
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scottyburd: I believe that we really dont know someone till we live with them..
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If i phone you,probably we finish talking on the phone for 24 hours,then i'll take the Tel.company to court for bankrupting me.
Buffy327: LOL I beg u pardon....LOL
I have met two very nice guys online, they just were not for me....But then I developed a chat with guy, love the same things I did, seems we had a lot in common, then moved to chatting on the phone....NOW, my profile clearly states NO DRAMA.....About the third telephone call, Lasted about a hour....All he did was complain....hates his ex, has bought two houses for his Ex'es while he lives in an Apt, taking his former company to the cleaner's for laying him off, yadda, yadda, yadda.....Well needless to say, when the next call came through I did not take the call. He left a voice mail, saying "thought Ur Tuesday's were a good time to call, guess u found urself a man that lives closer to u than me"...I sent him an email telling him that I was in fact home when he called but had no intention of ever talking to him again...further that life had made him a angry man and he appeared to love the drama....So yea, I think he saw himself as good and decent man, afterall, look at all those house payments he was making....
I have met two very nice guys online, they just were not for me....But then I developed a chat with guy, love the same things I did, seems we had a lot in common, then moved to chatting on the phone....NOW, my profile clearly states NO DRAMA.....About the third telephone call, Lasted about a hour....All he did was complain....hates his ex, has bought two houses for his Ex'es while he lives in an Apt, taking his former company to the cleaner's for laying him off, yadda, yadda, yadda.....Well needless to say, when the next call came through I did not take the call. He left a voice mail, saying "thought Ur Tuesday's were a good time to call, guess u found urself a man that lives closer to u than me"...I sent him an email telling him that I was in fact home when he called but had no intention of ever talking to him again...further that life had made him a angry man and he appeared to love the drama....So yea, I think he saw himself as good and decent man, afterall, look at all those house payments he was making....
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Merriweather: You know when you meet a fella over the net... he is not really lying when he says he’s nice... He is merely admitting that at one point in his life he had all the right intentions.... and is still judging himself by the way he once felt.....
Many, nearly all cannot see that this has been blurred by their experiences, and if their experiences have caused them to lose money, they cannot seem to grasp that a major shift has occurred, and the niceness is lost to perhaps selfishness.
Comments are welcome.
Many, nearly all cannot see that this has been blurred by their experiences, and if their experiences have caused them to lose money, they cannot seem to grasp that a major shift has occurred, and the niceness is lost to perhaps selfishness.
Comments are welcome.
You are being quite vague. People learn by experience, whether it’s trial and error or simply witnessing it. A person can be nice but in certain situations be more hesitant or cautious because of his/her experiences.
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Buffy327: LOL I beg u pardon....LOL
I have met two very nice guys online, they just were not for me....But then I developed a chat with guy, love the same things I did, seems we had a lot in common, then moved to chatting on the phone....NOW, my profile clearly states NO DRAMA.....About the third telephone call, Lasted about a hour....All he did was complain....hates his ex, has bought two houses for his Ex'es while he lives in an Apt, taking his former company to the cleaner's for laying him off, yadda, yadda, yadda.....Well needless to say, when the next call came through I did not take the call. He left a voice mail, saying "thought Ur Tuesday's were a good time to call, guess u found urself a man that lives closer to u than me"...I sent him an email telling him that I was in fact home when he called but had no intention of ever talking to him again...further that life had made him a angry man and he appeared to love the drama....So yea, I think he saw himself as good and decent man, afterall, look at all those house payments he was making....
I have met two very nice guys online, they just were not for me....But then I developed a chat with guy, love the same things I did, seems we had a lot in common, then moved to chatting on the phone....NOW, my profile clearly states NO DRAMA.....About the third telephone call, Lasted about a hour....All he did was complain....hates his ex, has bought two houses for his Ex'es while he lives in an Apt, taking his former company to the cleaner's for laying him off, yadda, yadda, yadda.....Well needless to say, when the next call came through I did not take the call. He left a voice mail, saying "thought Ur Tuesday's were a good time to call, guess u found urself a man that lives closer to u than me"...I sent him an email telling him that I was in fact home when he called but had no intention of ever talking to him again...further that life had made him a angry man and he appeared to love the drama....So yea, I think he saw himself as good and decent man, afterall, look at all those house payments he was making....
Why be so picky, nobodies perfect
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chris27292729: I think calling men "not decent" seeking dates on the net,is an insult to the majority of men on dating sites,but a few thinking like you.
You can choose to be insulted, i don't have a problem with that
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Onlyguy: You are being quite vague. People learn by experience, whether it’s trial and error or simply witnessing it. A person can be nice but in certain situations be more hesitant or cautious because of his/her experiences.
well put sir ....
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jahzah: Indeed it does, but i think it makes it harder if there is already 3 months worth of fantasy built up before you meet
i suppose that could play a big factor.
are you saying that you feel that it is a waste of time,
because you can't truly start an asessment until
you begin physically dating?
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pikengren: i suppose that could play a big factor.
are you saying that you feel that it is a waste of time,
because you can't truly start an asessment until
you begin physically dating?
are you saying that you feel that it is a waste of time,
because you can't truly start an asessment until
you begin physically dating?
For me it is a waist of time
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jahzah: You can choose to be insulted, i don't have a problem with that
i skipped by that.
i didn't think that was an intentional slight.
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Your post is very arrogant,nd posts like yours only come from arrogant people.
jahzah: You can choose to be insulted, i don't have a problem with that
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tomcatwarne: Why be so picky, nobodies perfect
Well, I guess when he starts making my house payments I will make some allowances for him...Soon as I make him an EX that is...
U know, we all have history, perspective, ideals and ideas. Guess we all just c things differently. My history is me and the choices that I made, no one else is responsible for that but me....
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chris27292729: Your post is very arrogant,nd posts like yours only come from arrogant people.
Ahhhh Chris, some folks c things differently is all...Now myself, I would love to share that meal and bottle of wine with u...so when can I pencil u n?
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chris27292729: Your post is very arrogant,nd posts like yours only come from arrogant people.
Why are you getting personal, i didn't direct anything at you specifically
Have you had a bad experience?
You are house bound?
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jahzah: Why are you getting personal, i didn't direct anything at you specifically
Have you had a bad experience?
You are house bound?
Have you had a bad experience?
You are house bound?
Have U had a bad experience jahzah? So if this site offers u little to nothing, do u still search for possibilities online, or just like posting? While I don't expect Mr. Right to fall in my lap, I don't rule it out either...
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This is a good example of why I dont believe you can "fall in love" online...Until you meet face to face and get to know someone, its all illusion 
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RDM59: Reverse psychology....
So if you say you only have a 2" nob do think that could be a benefit ? ...
So if you say you only have a 2" nob do think that could be a benefit ? ...
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that only applies to internet dating, or even
just to dating alone.
no matter how you meet someone, and no matter
if its for dating or friendship,
it can take time to really get to know someone.
Indeed it does, but i think it makes it harder if there is already 3 months worth of fantasy built up before you meet