wils0n: guy usually only cheat if he's not getting treated properly in the first place...
ummm no. that;s not only an assumption but it is also blaming the victim which is a no-no
I think that if a woman cheats it's because she is being neglected
but not so for a man - when man cheats it's because another woman had provided him with the opportunity (maybe he's not "looking for it" but he's not gonna say "no." Where a woman will say "no" unless she's being neglected
talking generalities here most case scenarios not the exceptions
wils0n: guy usually only cheat if he's not getting treated properly in the first place...
I totally disagree with you. They have no morals that is why, otherwise, if they are unhappy for any reasons, and they can not solve it simply they should say their bye bye, instead of cheating. Peace
felixis99: but sade what if u haven't been together all that long and it's a matter of his choosing between u and someone else, would you do anything special?
Personally I'm all for just being myself and giving him space to choose
doesn't mean I will be there if chosen tho
I tend to prefer more enthusiasm
Yeah like you said I would give him the space to decide, and I would respect his decision. I so much believe in the saying of " if it is meant to be he comes to you. Also I personally like to be with a man that is " so much into me " I pray you meet the man of your dream very soon. I wish you a lot of happiness. P.s. Please don't rush, you will meet the guy when it is the right time
Jeeepers: Why the hell would you want him back ? That thing has been somewhere else, don't touch it !!
Okay this made me giggle!
But you are 100% right, who'd want to touch that or be with someone who has cheated? Once a cheat always a cheat and I don't want spend my time wondering if they will do it again. But saying that, I would never wonder, as that is top of the list for me for a break-up.
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and men, what should we do to get u back - should we fight for u? does that do any good?