Get him back? ( Archived) (81)

Apr 16, 2011 7:42 PM CST Get him back?
How do you get ur guy back once you find him cheating? Do you try or do you just pack it in?

and men, what should we do to get u back - should we fight for u? does that do any good?
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Apr 16, 2011 7:43 PM CST Get him back?
cardsfan24
cardsfan24cardsfan24somewhere in paradise, Illinois USA40 Threads 1 Polls 5,169 Posts
Well if they cheat then let em go. Because its like this why would you cheat if you were truly happyprofessor
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Apr 16, 2011 7:44 PM CST Get him back?
Jeeepers
JeeepersJeeepersCowpet Bay, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)21 Threads 6,482 Posts
Why the hell would you want him back ? That thing has been somewhere else, don't touch it !! cool
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Apr 16, 2011 7:45 PM CST Get him back?
Sade88
Sade88Sade88s, Quebec Canada6 Threads 207 Posts
felixis99: How do you get ur guy back once you find him cheating? Do you try or do you just pack it in?

and men, what should we do to get u back - should we fight for u? does that do any good?
If he has cheated I would not want him back for he will repeat the behavior. I would forgive him and let him go for good peace
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Apr 16, 2011 7:48 PM CST Get him back?
wils0n
wils0nwils0nwellinton, Wellington New Zealand3 Threads 3 Polls 106 Posts
guy usually only cheat if he's not getting treated properly in the first place...
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Apr 16, 2011 7:50 PM CST Get him back?
Jeeepers: Why the hell would you want him back ? That thing has been somewhere else, don't touch it !!
teddybear oh u r so precious jeeps! I'm ready for my island holiday!wave
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Apr 16, 2011 7:51 PM CST Get him back?
Jeeepers
JeeepersJeeepersCowpet Bay, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)21 Threads 6,482 Posts
felixis99: oh u r so precious jeeps! I'm ready for my island holiday!
head banger Don't forget the sunscreen and sunglasses !! dancing
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Apr 16, 2011 7:54 PM CST Get him back?
wils0n: guy usually only cheat if he's not getting treated properly in the first place...
ummm no. that;s not only an assumption but it is also blaming the victim which is a no-no

I think that if a woman cheats it's because she is being neglected

but not so for a man - when man cheats it's because another woman had provided him with the opportunity (maybe he's not "looking for it" but he's not gonna say "no." Where a woman will say "no" unless she's being neglected

talking generalities here most case scenarios not the exceptions
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Apr 16, 2011 7:55 PM CST Get him back?
Jeeepers: Don't forget the sunscreen and sunglasses !!
teddybear cool heart wings
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Apr 16, 2011 7:56 PM CST Get him back?
Sade88
Sade88Sade88s, Quebec Canada6 Threads 207 Posts
wils0n: guy usually only cheat if he's not getting treated properly in the first place...
I totally disagree with you. They have no morals that is why, otherwise, if they are unhappy for any reasons, and they can not solve it simply they should say their bye bye, instead of cheating.
Peace
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Apr 16, 2011 7:58 PM CST Get him back?
Sade88
Sade88Sade88s, Quebec Canada6 Threads 207 Posts
felixis99: oh u r so precious jeeps! I'm ready for my island holiday!
I 100% agree with Jeepersapplause
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Apr 16, 2011 7:58 PM CST Get him back?
Sade88: If he has cheated I would not want him back for he will repeat the behavior. I would forgive him and let him go for good


but sade what if u haven't been together all that long and it's a matter of his choosing between u and someone else, would you do anything special?

Personally I'm all for just being myself and giving him space to choose

doesn't mean I will be there if chosen thocool

I tend to prefer more enthusiasmlaugh
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Apr 16, 2011 7:59 PM CST Get him back?
inkognito
inkognitoinkognitos/wh between castles & ruins, Baden-Wuerttemberg Germany8 Threads 1,126 Posts
felixis99: How do you get ur guy back once you find him cheating? Do you try or do you just pack it in?

and men, what should we do to get u back - should we fight for u? does that do any good?


confused for what reason would I ever even only consider to want him back? confused
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Apr 16, 2011 8:04 PM CST Get him back?
mastic55
mastic55mastic55Long Island, New York USA167 Threads 6,859 Posts
Why fight for him, he did wrong, it's not the others girls fault....if you get with him put itching powder on his nuts and kick him out...professor
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Apr 16, 2011 8:05 PM CST Get him back?
thanks everyone - this gives me some good insight
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Apr 16, 2011 8:06 PM CST Get him back?
slodrvr64
slodrvr64slodrvr64mexico, Missouri USA69 Posts
ohhhhhh........you are a hard woman!!
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Apr 16, 2011 8:06 PM CST Get him back?
mastic55: Why fight for him, he did wrong, it's not the others girls fault....if you get with him put itching powder on his nuts and kick him out...

sometimes the other girl is not entirely blsmeless but ya, no told him he HAD to say "yes"laugh thumbs up
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Apr 16, 2011 8:06 PM CST Get him back?
blamelessdoh
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Apr 16, 2011 8:06 PM CST Get him back?
Sade88
Sade88Sade88s, Quebec Canada6 Threads 207 Posts
felixis99: but sade what if u haven't been together all that long and it's a matter of his choosing between u and someone else, would you do anything special?

Personally I'm all for just being myself and giving him space to choose

doesn't mean I will be there if chosen tho

I tend to prefer more enthusiasm
Yeah like you said I would give him the space to decide, and I would respect his decision. I so much believe in the saying of " if it is meant to be he comes to you. Also I personally like to be with a man that is " so much into me " I pray you meet the man of your dream very soon. I wish you a lot of happiness.
P.s. Please don't rush, you will meet the guy when it is the right time
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Apr 16, 2011 8:09 PM CST Get him back?
Jeeepers: Why the hell would you want him back ? That thing has been somewhere else, don't touch it !!


Okay this made me giggle!laugh

But you are 100% right, who'd want to touch that or be with someone who has cheated? Once a cheat always a cheat and I don't want spend my time wondering if they will do it again. But saying that, I would never wonder, as that is top of the list for me for a break-up. broken heart

teddybear
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